The FB posts in the OP are really the way a typical 'Nigerian' home is run...

@OP: The husband obviously doesn't like a buffet... He likes iya rashida style

Now this is a man who thinks his wife is beneath him

Wifey pele...

This is what marriage has been reduced to. Where's the love? And this man will definitely think it's beneath him to help out at home.

MarvellousGod:
Hunger never catch that your immature husband. . Typical traditional man...


Everything is an issue these days, making marriage seem like a child's play..

Nne ehn... The matter wear skirt and blouse. I just heard of one that insists the woman turn his Eba with eating spoon and not turning stick

Flux of traditional men.

Btw... how are you doing. I miss you

Jamean:


Nne ehn... The matter wear skirt and blouse. I just heard of one that insists the woman turn his Eba with eating spoon and not turning stick

Flux of traditional men.

Btw... how are you doing. I miss you

Spoon? His own alone or the whole family?

I have heard of men insist on beans/pepper grinded on stone.

The ones that does not eat 2nd day soup nko?

Goodluck to the wives married to them

Joy1706:
Please I will want to know the opinion of people.
My husband insists I dish his food. For instance, if I set the food on the table with plates and cutlery, he prefers I dish onto his plate, that it shows complete service.i think otherwise because I might be busy attending to other chores. This morning he almost left for work without taking breakfast and when i asked why he was leaving, he said the service was not complete. So I had to leave what I was doing to dish food for him.

What are your views on this?

My views?

The wife is in serious dereliction of her duty. The expectation is;

1. She prepares all meals fresh in direct accord with his taste and preferences
2. She sets-up and serves him accordingly
3. She waits on him while he eats - being proactive in ensuring he has all he needs
4. She clears up at his prompting - although she should learn to take non-verbal cues here.
5. She presents warm soapy water for washing hands, followed by a scented towel for drying - he may prefer you to dry, verify this.
6. She should thank him for allowing her to be of service
7. She should make enquiry as to how she could have improved the service

I also think he's a bit slack for permitting this slovenly approach - give 'em an inch and they'll take a mile. As for "having other chores to attend to", what could take priority over serving your husband .

Arrant nonsense. A woman that loves and is committed to you will love to serve you. All these side-chicks masquerading as wives. Next she'll be asking for you to consider her needs during intimacy .


TV

TV01:

My views?

The wife is in serious dereliction of her duty. The expectation is;

1. She prepares all meals fresh in direct accord with his taste and preferences
2. She sets-up and serves him accordingly
3. She waits on him while he eats - being proactive in ensuring he has all he needs
4. She clears up at his prompting - although she should learn to take non-verbal cues here.
5. She presents warm soapy water for washing hands, followed by a scented towel for drying - he may prefer you to dry, verify this.
6. She should thank him for allowing her to be of service
7. She should make enquiry as to how she could have improved the service

I also think he's a bit slack for permitting this slovenly approach - give 'em an inch and they'll take a mile. As for "having other chores to attend to", what could take priority over serving your husband .

Arrant nonsense. A woman that loves and is committed to you will love to serve you. All these side-chicks masquerading as wives. Next she'll be asking for you to consider her needs during intimacy .


TV

I hope she is kneeling while serving you with her face tilted downwards...

We won't except her to be rude enough to look you directly in the eyes... not so

And she will also rub your back so after food so you will bulch

bukatyne:
I hope she is kneeling while serving you with her face tilted downwards...

She's a wife, not a slave. Plus kneeling with face down, willl hinder, not help her serving her husband

bukatyne:
We won't except her to be rude enough to look you directly in the eyes... not so

Oga' preference to the fore once again on this. Don't take anything for granted. And it differs from culture to culture. Not everyone lives in Idumota you know

bukatyne:

And she will also rub your back so after food so you will bulch

I take it you mean "belch" - again, Oga' preference.



TV

Until women learn to marry their friends and not some psychologically stuck up old stick in the mud, woe shall continue to be their tales. Marry your friend and lover, period!

TV01:

She's a wife, not a slave. Plus kneeling with face down, willl hinder, not help her serving her husband


Oga' preference to the fore once again on this. Don't take anything for granted. And it differs from culture to culture. Not everyone lives in Idumota you know


I take it you mean "belch" - again, Oga' preference.



TV

Do people live in Idumota? Na the market I know

It is not Yoruba culture to kneel again.. Not looking is translating the Yoruba 'e ma je kin woju yin' to English.

She will kneel after dishing the food and waiting for further instructions.

Yes, I meant belch. Thanks

Try this... it will help the serving better

bukatyne:


I hope she is kneeling while serving you with her face tilted downwards...

We won't except her to be rude enough to look you directly in the eyes... not so

And she will also rub your back so after food so you will bulch

nawa o.this is a serious matter

byvan03:
Until women learn to marry their friends and not some psychologically stuck up old stick in the mud, woe shall continue to be their tales. Marry your friend and lover, period!

take 5.


your head is correct

SAMBARRY:
take 5.


your head is correct

She never start ask Facebook, this one nah beginning.

byvan03:
Until women learn to marry their friends and not some psychologically stuck up old stick in the mud, woe shall continue to be their tales. Marry your friend and lover, period!

Friends and lovers don't provide and protect. Friending and loving isn't the only thing a husband does. How many of your friends and lovers do you do laundry for or have kids for. A husband is more than a friend and a lover.

My wife prostrates to serve me . And she doesn't have any problem with it. Instead of you people to tell the truth that the man should be served like a king in his palace, you're here forming modernity.

I bet if her father demanded such she'd be floating like a fairy to feed and digest the food for the old man sef. Abeg, make una let us hear word.

byvan03:



She never start ask Facebook, this one nah beginning.

Nwanyi Oma

How far?

byvan03:



She never start ask Facebook, this one nah beginning.

I'm surprised I've not read you need deliverance

SAMBARRY:
nawa o.this is a serious matter

Timbuktou:


Friends and lovers don't provide and protect. Friending and loving isn't the only thing a husband does. How many of your friends and lovers do you do laundry for or have kids for. A husband is more than a friend and a lover.

My wife prostrates to serve me . And she doesn't have any problem with it. Instead of you people to tell the truth that the man should be served like a king in his palace, you're here forming modernity.

I bet if her father demanded such she'd be floating like a fairy to feed and digest the food for the old man sef. Abeg, make una let us hear word.

As it suits you Sir.

byvan03:
Until women learn to marry their friends and not some psychologically stuck up old stick in the mud, woe shall continue to be their tales. Marry your friend and lover, period!

The painful thing is that, that friend you married may turn out to be a beast after marriage. People pretend a lot

cococandy:


Nwanyi Oma

How far?

Nwanne mmadu I dey jare, make I collect small instant headache from the thread .

How pushing dey go?

TV01:

My views?

The wife is in serious dereliction of her duty. The expectation is;

1. She prepares all meals fresh in direct accord with his taste and preferences
2. She sets-up and serves him accordingly
3. She waits on him while he eats - being proactive in ensuring he has all he needs
4. She clears up at his prompting - although she should learn to take non-verbal cues here.
5. She presents warm soapy water for washing hands, followed by a scented towel for drying - he may prefer you to dry, verify this.
6. She should thank him for allowing her to be of service
7. She should make enquiry as to how she could have improved the service

I also think he's a bit slack for permitting this slovenly approach - give 'em an inch and they'll take a mile. As for "having other chores to attend to", what could take priority over serving your husband .

Arrant nonsense. A woman that loves and is committed to you will love to serve you. All these side-chicks masquerading as wives. Next she'll be asking for you to consider her needs during intimacy .


TV

#1 ,2,3,4,5 &7 ALL CHECK!

As for #5, Nah. Afro Canadians will never provide an Octogenarian a soapy hand washing water. You walk up to the sink and DIY.

Good early momo morning from my Crib.

Timbuktou:


Friends and lovers don't provide and protect. Friending and loving isn't the only thing a husband does. How many of your friends and lovers do you do laundry for or have kids for. A husband is more than a friend and a lover.

My wife prostrates to serve me . And she doesn't have any problem with it. Instead of you people to tell the truth that the man should be served like a king in his palace, you're here forming modernity.

I bet if her father demanded such she'd be floating like a fairy to feed and digest the food for the old man sef. Abeg, make una let us hear word.

I believe you know the difference between a father and a husband. Which king? Which palace? Shouldn't a king have loads of servants aa his beck and call?
Friends and lovers provide and protect. What u even saying sef?

byvan03:




Nwanne mmadu I dey jare, make I collect small instant headache from the thread .

How pushing dey go?

Instant headache indeed.


Going good.

Joy1706:

I believe you know the difference between a father and a husband. Which king? Which palace? Shouldn't a king have loads of servants aa his beck and call?
Friends and lovers provide and protect. What u even saying sef?

Please enlighten me on why a husband shouldn't be served the same way a father would.

By your second paragraph, I'm done with you. Move on to others with which have things in common. You do not have a boyfriend, talk less of husband.

Joy1706:

The painful thing is that, that friend you married may turn out to be a beast after marriage. People pretend a lot

Most women mistake the gift bearer as a friend, you look at the content of a man's heart. I realised that when you see a Man/woman whining on how terrible and beastly their spouse is, know that he/she knows exactly where the rain started beating them.

Any woman that claims she doesn't know who she married is either a liar or chose to stick her head into the sand.

byvan03:
Until women learn to marry their friends and not some psychologically stuck up old stick in the mud, woe shall continue to be their tales. Marry your friend and lover, period!

Sometimes, they marry their friends and somehow the men think a 'husband' is different from a 'friend and lover'

I heard a new wife saying 'he is trying to show he is a husband' when they had issues

That is the origin of the popular cliché 'Marriage is different from courtship'

Joy1706:
Please I will want to know the opinion of people.
My husband insists I dish his food. For instance, if I set the food on the table with plates and cutlery, he prefers I dish onto his plate, that it shows complete service.i think otherwise because I might be busy attending to other chores. This morning he almost left for work without taking breakfast and when i asked why he was leaving, he said the service was not complete. So I had to leave what I was doing to dish food for him.

What are your views on this?

MY VIEWS?

*When a wife feels enslaved and Inferior 'serving' her man then somt'n sdefwrong

*He's not worth your service hence your rebellion.

Shikena

SAMBARRY:
I'm surprised I've not read you need deliverance

It might still be on the way .

byvan03:



Most women mistake the gift bearer as a friend, you look at the content of a man's heart. I realised that when you see a Man/woman whining on how terrible and beastly their spouse is, know that he/she knows exactly where the rain started beating them.

Any woman that claims she doesn't know who she married is either a liar or chose to stick her head into the sand.

Hmm so so true

That's why I used to ask 'Did he/she not know before marriage' until ....

byvan03:



It might still be on the way .

fasting and prayer nko?

SAMBARRY:
nawa o.this is a serious matter

bukatyne:


Sometimes, they marry their friends and somehow the men think a 'husband' is different from a 'friend and lover'

I heard a new wife saying 'he is trying to show he is a husband' when they had issues

That is the origin of the popular cliché 'Marriage is different from courtship'

Stuck up mentality, "that is how our fathers did it " mentality, I believe the signs are always there from the beginning, let them enjoy whoever they married abeg.

Some women claim they married their friend and suddenly he changed to....people can say anything when they choose to cast blames.

Why can't people be spontaneous, flow with the tide, just be comfortable with themselves, just serve each other for the love of "us".....

Timbuktou:


Please enlighten me on why a husband shouldn't be served the same way a father would.

By your second paragraph, I'm done with you. Move on to others with which have things in common. You do not have a boyfriend, talk less of husband.

How about you serving your wife the way you serve your mother? Hope that would go down well with you .