goodgate:
Guy is her Name Shade? Works with Huawei?

doctormalik:
i'm also suspecting that this is Shade's story.

NegeduGrace:
if you have a girl?like seriously?

Like seriously what?!

MikelEleta:
Dts a lesson for you. D only tin is if ur going to learn frm dx. Not all ladies re lyk dx BUT a lot nd I mean a lot re promiscous. Dts d way evrytin is nw. Funny enof am sure ur so called MD has a wife n kids @ home YET dx lady does nt care. Later wen Karma happens to her wen she is married she starts cmin to Nairaland crying her eyes out. Dts y wen I see som of their complains I jst tell mysef dt dx is Anoda story for the gods. Rubbish!!!

Sveen:
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EggovinMma:
You will soon get sacked!

Sveen:
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IYANGBALI:
God is not as mean as they made you believe,trust me

Sleekyshuga:

LOL.. There is s.ex in the office, though the toilet is used or the accomplices wait until work is over for that day, then, they can bribe whoever is around, and do their shits..

It's no news that lots of lecturers sleep with their students in their offices.. As Dr E will say, "all you need to do is give him the do**y style on top his table, and that ends it" . Randy men!!

What is do**y style?

goodgate:
Do you Know Shade?

EggovinMma:


This op na proper ignorant guy
I pray this girl doesn't know about it else she go carry am tell Oga manager after another romp, the sack letter will be LEGENDARY

Even women bosses frustrate female inferior that pose a threat to their sugar bobo, talkless of female employees. Devil won use am drink Pepsi and agege bread for that company.

doctormalik:
Yea bro, u sabi am too? But if we are talking about the same Shade, do you think she can cheat?

HelpeeDeck:


wowowo! look at your reply, you look cool in nature, but all this you vomited out from you makes no sense, even if you are to correct some of the bad acts of the guy, you do that in a matured way and not the kid like manner you just did....

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u ve spoken.. may god give u more wisdom

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NoRetreat:
why are you taking the thread personal? At least you have fun reading the story.

AgapeCharis:
What is do**y style?

Sleekyshuga:

The style you practice with your gf

xertyy:
I don't even understand some of them! They will leave the issue at hg all saint and Nice! Hypocrites everywhere! Who hvnt invade someone privacy before or checked ones messages one way or the other! The major issue is that this girl is a cheat,pretender,liar etc! Let's hit on that but instead they are busy judging me on why I checked her chats! Smh! Nigerians tho!

EggovinMma:


And he had to bring her private life to nairaland?

But he wanted to fuccck her as well, so what's the difference between him and the manager, despite knowing she has a serious boyfriend? Look, in this harsh economy, there no time to play mumu!

That's one bad thing about extending a handshake, some silly folks will grab the whole arm.She shouldn't have allowed him access to her phone from the onset. He will lose his job if he continues like this.

naijaboiy:

[b]Leave them.

That's the mentality most Nigerians have. Even when it's their brother/sister that is involved they will mind their own business like nothing happened.

It's this same "amebo" name tagging that has made many people suffer,,simply because other people have seen something that may be of very great help to them but they'll keep mute because they don't want to be tagged "amebo" and that's how the cycle continues.

You'll see some people will say their partner shouldn't check their phone for anything. When he/she checks and finds out something incriminating they say he/she is doing "amebo". So they expect the person to just keep mute and allow his/her partner continue cheating or playing games.

As for this case,,you have already checked it. It can't be reverted. However,,i'll just advise you to keep your observations to yourself and keep flowing with her.

Just learn from what you've seen and apply it in your own situation. That's all.[/b]

xertyy:
I work in a technology firm where my colleague happens to be a female.. She's in her mid 20s, not too pretty but okay and goodlooking. Among all other staffs we both happens to be closer a bit that sometimes in our spare times we talk generally on relationships, love, heartbreak and all that..

Before those discussions kick starts something like a topic or an action relating to it has to take place.. So for the past one year + I have been working their with her, she's always telling me how Faithful and loyal she is to her boyfriend which happens to reside and work in other state within the south western part..

They talk on phone everyday at work and to some extent I do believe that these two are really in love and matured, even the fact she working, she told me her boyfriend even sends her allowance monthly..

And according to her they have been dating for 2 years+ and for the past 4-5 months they haven't seen.. This same lady got some toasters that do disturb her on phone and all that, in which lash them with harsh words and rejects them, her action in all makes me starts having a second thought of being faithful or even sticking with one girl.. I had a crush on her then,but due to this their lovey lovey lifestyle with the boyfriend, I decide to back off and keep my crush to myself instead of being rejected and all that..

Recently,earlier this week, our HRM sent for her,so she forgot her phone with me, usually she don't allow me to handle her phone,which was becoming obvious she's hiding something, not until she deletes or hides a particular chat or what then she can give me her phone to see her pictures.. So on this fateful day! On Tuesday to be precise, she forgot her phone with me,so I decided to go through her pics, fortunately I found one of my pics she took me with her phone,I decide to send the pics to mine phone via whatsapp, as I was about to do that, I discovered our MDs chats with her that she ended with "Love You Too" my curiosity increases which I opened to read..

What I saw was beyond my imagination, I didn't still believe what I saw.. From the whole conversation I can deduce that they have been sexing eachother and all that.. Early in the morning,she goes to the MDs office for quickie and all that.. I was shirt of words if this is really her or who.. Till this moment it seems I'm dreaming cos I never believed this girl can ever cheat on her guy.. I'm scared of Ladies! I'm scared of commitment, I'm scared of relationship! Right now I can't even put my trust on any lady! Ladies of these days are Something Else for Real!

konvict0111:
Cool, I like how you have responded to this.

I accept if you say you don't go with the flow and generally, just like to distance yourself from popular opinion, but understand that this personality might count for nothingness if it runs contrary to the higher cause of truth and justice.

While I will grant that people calling you slut is not the most appropriate of behaviours, I think the point that we need to stress always is the need to align with the truth, even if we are guilty of wrongdoing, ourselves.

This stance is much greater than any personality type that we might wish to adopt. And as you rightly pointed out, this is an online forum where people take a lot of instruction from. For this reason, it would help if we reflect deeply on how our posts here is helping to shape people's life for better or for worse.

Please let's make the right choices to improve the quality of other people's life with the quality of our thoughts and posts. In the end, it would make all of us happy to live in sane and healthy society.

Exponental:
Sex.... hobby not included in a CV.
If it's her hobby, bros, how should she manage in 2yrs?
Pls let peoples business be their business.
She might love the guy but needs the gap filled. I don't support cheats but I don't support sex starving in a sex relationship. Distance relationship is only good for virgins, if not, expect assistance.

EggovinMma:
Amebo!
If I am that gurl and I happen to find out you invaded my privacy, I go use that same toto make you lose your job!

I will make sure I Bleep that manager brains off till he is forced you to make you lose your job!Mumu!