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|Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by Nobody: 3:27pm On Sep 05, 2015|
Yesterday I was taking a casual stroll through my nairaland District then I hit my toe on the Carl Ikeme National Team news. He is A Biracial. I felt disgusted when I saw this "Girl" ******* Ranting about how he wasn't Nigerian and he isn't Black. She was just spewing Thrash that made me sick.
The problem isn't far stretched. Is it that they have low self-esteem and feel less comfortable about their Body. In my High school I Dated 2 Caucasians and I didn't really feel the hatred. I also dated a Kenya. But there was this particular Naija babe in my high school that hated me for life.......maybe she had a crush on me.
When I got to college, I started dating a Latvian Beauty then I got the full blast of their hatred. Snide Remarks here and there, even the African Babes that I thought I was cool with became enemies overnight. African Americans, African Beauties, The occasional Racist Potbelly I wasn't spared.
It just baffles me that when my guys see me, they are genuinely happy for me(maybe because they know bits just a fling). African guys really don't care.....while my Black Sisters see me as a Traitor to Motherland.
African Diasporans what say you......?
Cc: Bigfrancis21, odumchi, fulaman198
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|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by raayah(f): 3:34pm On Sep 05, 2015|
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by CivilzedTyger(m): 3:37pm On Sep 05, 2015|
itz jst dat they cud nt dat a guy 4rm anoda race @rayaah C hw u rush take dat place
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by Nobody: 3:41pm On Sep 05, 2015|
That's fairly racist though. No one should date a racist
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by CivilzedTyger(m): 4:27pm On Sep 05, 2015|
DashMeYansh:Dnt get you
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by Fulaman198(m): 4:56pm On Sep 05, 2015|
You do realise you were raised by an African woman though right?
You are free to go with whomever you want, but you should never and I mean absolutely never put any other woman above African women on a pedestal.
I understand that you live in the Western world so it's hard to find a good nice African woman.
It's good to have that cultural pride. I most certainly can't blame the women on this one. It is just my opinion but I can't being raised in a stern Fulani manner pursue women of a far different background and neglect my Fulani Angels or other African lady angels.
It hurts a woman emotionally when they see a potential mate going out with something else that doesn't resemble them.
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by Nobody: 5:02pm On Sep 05, 2015|
Thanks for your matured response. Yeah am in my early 20's so it might be a sense of adventure though I have to admit my best Relationship as been with an African. I still don't understand why Guys don't care about stuff like that. It must be the Testosterones.
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by Fulaman198(m): 5:08pm On Sep 05, 2015|
As a man I do kind of care... When I schooled in the west, I saw African women going mainly with white fellows and utterly ignoring me. I wasn't even into white girls or other girls (except maybe Indian).
As a Fulani man, I never showed any signs of it affecting me because I knew that I would return to Nigeria. Maybe you are in a state where you see lots of African women... In the state I studied in, there were hardly any African women there.
I'm a tall man, well-built, and I know I most show modesty but a good-looking fellow as well. I guess it was the sense of feeling alone in a foreign country.
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by Nobody: 5:16pm On Sep 05, 2015|
And here I was thinking am the only guy that likes Indian women . Their culture is just superb.
Yeah there are a lot of African women in my university. But they are too proud maybe that's why I just zone out of my way for them. They don't act remotely African except when they Don their Traditional Prints to show off.
I don't really feel lonely I interact with a lot of them. There are several Nigerians in Texas.......even if they don't act the part
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by Fulaman198(m): 5:20pm On Sep 05, 2015|
Oh gosh, you should tell them that the reason you are not going after them is because they aren't behaving anywhere close to their traditions.
My first preference will always be Sahelian women. I think the culture is the richest of the rich... (But then I could just be acting biased).
It is disgraceful when an African woman tries hard to be a white girl.
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by Nobody: 5:22pm On Sep 05, 2015|
Who cares if it hurts them emotionally.. Now look I share a similar sentiment in that I abhor interracial dating, but I see plenty of Nigerian women in the states lusting for and dating men of other races and I don't get mad. So if one wants to mix their genes they might as well do it, me personally I wouldnt.
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by Nobody: 5:31pm On Sep 05, 2015|
Those girls are slight racists the ones that still have culture are just interested in One Thing.........
Being half Hausa I can say the sahels have one of the best cultures although I think the women are too reserved.
What can we say? If we advise them we become Public Enemy No 5 to them. The worse part is they just squeeze western and African cultures together creating utter monstrosities foreign to The Negro and Caucasian
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by Fulaman198(m): 6:10pm On Sep 05, 2015|
Just died laughing ROFLLL bravo bravo
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by Fulaman198(m): 6:11pm On Sep 05, 2015|
I hear you brother. You are right Nigerian women in the states are a total disgrace. Nicely said!
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by tpiah01: 6:20pm On Sep 05, 2015|
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by anonymous6(f): 6:40pm On Sep 05, 2015|
I could careless to be honest and the university I went African women and men were dating outside their race and I never seen snide or jealous remarks from either side. However most had or ended up with partners that were from their african country. I think african women are less resistant to seeing african men in interracial relationships cause there are plenty of african men and other men out there so they don't have to worry about men supply but in the african american community it is a different story, it's a big debate between african american men and women; which I experienced as well in college
I must add though this is not only unique to black people. I have seen this with indian women to, they had that similar attitude that african women had when their men dated outside their race. I had many indian female freinds and they talk amongst each other when their men date outside their race. There were indian men in the school and some of them dated outside their race particularily white or asian(oriental) women and the indian females were not happy about it but they kept that opinion amongst themselves most of the time.
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by Fulaman198(m): 6:48pm On Sep 05, 2015|
ROFL, it's not like that. I didn't have any partners in the states when I schooled there. I had an interest in 3 girls during University when I schooled in the states (thank Goodness that only lasted for 5 years and now I'm back in Naija).
One girl was a beautiful girl from Senegal who spoke fluent Fulfulde/Pulaar so you can understand it made me happy to be able to speak my native tongue with her being from Nigeria. But guess what, she had some strange fetish for white guys.......White guys shorter than myself, less well-built and whatever I'm not even going to whine about it because it makes me look like a fool.
Another girl I had a crush on was a beautiful Ethiopian girl who also seemed to have a strange fetish for white guys and ignored her Ethio bros ROFLLLL (they told me that something is very wrong with African women in the states, but the same can be said about the men).
The last girl was a Yoruba girl from Abeokuta who also had some strange fetish with white guys......
So my question is why only white guys? I can understand that sometimes you see men of other ethnicities, whether they are Arab, Indian, Asian (Oriental), Hispanic, etc. But African women have a tenacity or propensity to pursue white males only........They place them on a higher pedestal.
For me however, I don't believe in IR and lots of white girls were attracted to me, and tried to befriend me but I wasn't interested. If I could not be with an African woman, then my next choice with probably be either an Indian girl or Arab girl. White girls are definitely nowhere near the top of my list. So why are white guys on the top of the list with African women?
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by tpiah01: 6:51pm On Sep 05, 2015|
Indian/Arab/White, are different?
So why are white guys on the top of the list with African women?
you said you were in a white area, so it depends on the demographics.
it would be the same in a black area, generally speaking. ie black mostly dating black.
just my opinion.
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by anonymous6(f): 7:03pm On Sep 05, 2015|
I think there are multiple reasons why this is the case first of all most asian and indian men are not into African or black women and vice versa and if they are it is a small amount and in that small amount, most wont lead to marriage. Arab men(especially Lebanese), there is a small amount of them that are into black women but if they date or marry outside their race they tend to go after white women over black women. Funny part the men besides African men that at times show more interest over the other men you listed for african women or black women are white men, weird but true, particularily european men. The strange thing with them it's 50/50, its either their not interested in black women or they are, there is no in between with them.
When it comes to african women, majority put african men in a pedestal but that doesn't mean they don't have alternatives and white european men come in second for them.
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by Fulaman198(m): 7:09pm On Sep 05, 2015|
I guess that's my question why do "White European men" come second for African women? What do they see in White European men? I don't get it. To me, the darker the better. That's why I'm attracted to females with dark features (African women - Especially Fulani women being my #1, then other African women, then Indian and Arab). I like women with dark hair and dark eyes, with a bit of colour on them. I'm not into women who are kind of not tanned. I don't know why.
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by anonymous6(f): 7:15pm On Sep 05, 2015|
I love your appreciation for african women fulaman, thank God there are many african and nigerian men that think like you
any way back to the topic, I think its because to be honest after african men, white european men(the ones that are attracted to african women or black women) show appreciation for black african beauty and they are not shy about it, and some african women are receptive to that and they tend to be the only men for the most part after african men to do that to Black african women or other black women; I don't see asian, indian and etc men doing that. There are other reasons of course but I think thats one big one. you need to read this link it touches base on it: http://www.zarachiron.com/2015/02/black-woman-in-europe/
I'm not saying Europe is perfect when it comes to race cause its far from it but people will be attracted and receptive to people who are receptive to them in the end of the day.
When I say European men, I mean British, Italian, German, French, Scottish men for the most part not Russian or Eastern european men
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by Fulaman198(m): 7:27pm On Sep 05, 2015|
That's a great article, and I agree with everything she has said. As a black man, I did experience racism in the United States despite being from a foreign country. In fact another Fulani man (Amadou Diallo) was killed in New York when I was still a teenager in 1999.
I don't understand why the United States is such a racist country. Maybe it's because of this racism, often black women can not be themselves and do whatever they can to imitate white women. They should not do this and should be themselves and be proud of their beautiful African culture(s).
Both black men and women alike suffer in the United States, that's for sure.
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by anonymous6(f): 7:31pm On Sep 05, 2015|
Exactly, America as great as it is has the most complicated racial issues in the world. It has affected african american women the most when it comes to finding partners, and some are going overseas for that cause overseas they are getting more appreciation
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by Nobody: 9:51pm On Sep 05, 2015|
Especially the ones from age 20 to 40.. Very parasitic lot of women... that's why I want to find one from home because at least they aren't corrupted by this digusting feminist culture that the West created.
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by Fulaman198(m): 10:14pm On Sep 05, 2015|
You are absolutely correct my brother. Definitely find a woman from back home if you want to marry an African lady.
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by ezeagu(m): 10:37pm On Sep 05, 2015|
The better question is, why do African men treat white women like equals, but expect the world from African women?
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by Nobody: 10:41pm On Sep 05, 2015|
Cmon you know that's false. I for one, don't hold white women high regard. In fact, I think they are treacherous and manipulative bi.tches. Many westernized black women picked up these annoying traits from white women.
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by Fulaman198(m): 10:42pm On Sep 05, 2015|
But I do agree with Ezeagu. You, myself and him may not treat White women in higher regards, but there are some that do, I have seen it first hand. It's stupid. If they are going to treat white women like that they should treat African women like that as well. It doesn't make sense. White women are not better than African women. If anything, African women have better morals, they can cook, they make far better wives...So why treat white women better?
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by Nobody: 10:45pm On Sep 05, 2015|
Those black men that do are brainwashed. I mean even though it can be challenging being with African women, I would never put white women above my African sisters.. I just can't. I've seen with my own eyes how white women are and I don't want anything to do with them.
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by Fulaman198(m): 11:00pm On Sep 05, 2015|
Exactly! You and me both. Those black men are indeed brainwashed. I could also never put a white woman above and African woman, it's impossible.
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by Nobody: 12:12am On Sep 07, 2015|
That's strange 'cuz in my experience and observation, I'd def say its the opposite thats 10000% true - hands down and without a doubt. In any case, dont let it get to you. Date whom you like, and do whatever makes you happy, OP.
|Re: Why Are African Women Jealous Of Interracial Couples by Fulaman198(m): 2:58am On Sep 09, 2015|
Can't believe I missed this before....
Are you sure you are Nigerian?
In Nigeria we have indigenous Arabs known referred to as Shu'a or Shuwa in Hausa, but they are really known as Baggara:
Do these ladies and gents look white to you?
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