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Sex Outside Marriage by mostyg(m): 8:03pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
Dear questioner, thank you very much for having
confidence in us, and we hope our efforts, which
are purely for His Sake, meet your expectations.
Muslims are not allowed by any way to have
physical relations with the opposite sex outside
marriage. So, it is the duty of the Muslim families
and societies to facilitate marriage, especially for
those who are getting older than the normal age
of marriage.
If a man or a woman is forbidden from marriage
for any a certain reason, he/she should observe
abstinence and have patience asking Allah
Almighty to get him/her rid of that obstacle.
In his response to the question in point, Dr.
Muzammil Siddiqi , former president of the Islamic
Society of North America, states the following:
It is a very sad thing to see that Muslim women
or men suffer unmarried life due to un-Islamic
social factors. We must blame our un-Islamic
social customs and materialistic outlook that
cause some men and women to remain
unmarried.
Some young people or their parents have very
high expectations for their spouses. They set a
very difficult standard of education, profession,
wealth or physical features for any prospective
suitor. The result is that such women remain
single because the suitors fail to meet those
standards.
We, Muslims, must emphasize that the best
criterion according to Islam is good character.
The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, is
reported to have said, “If someone whose faith
and morals you trust makes a proposal of
marriage to you then marry him, otherwise there
will be trials and much corruption in the
land.” (Ibn Majah)
As Muslims it is also our duty to help our Muslim
brothers and sisters get married. Allah Almighty
says in the Qur’an, “And marry such of you as
are solitary and the pious of your slaves and
maid servants. If they be poor; Allah will enrich
them of His bounty. Allah is of ample means,
Aware.” (An-Nur 24:32)
However, if for any reason men or women are not
able to marry, then they must observe
abstinence. They have no other way. Allah says in
the Qur'an that the believing men and believing
women guard their private parts from committing
any illicit sexual act. He Almighty says, “Tell the
believing men to lower their gaze and be modest.
That is purer for them. Lo! Allah is Aware of what
they do.” (An-Nur 24:30)
He Almighty also says, “ Lo! men who surrender
unto Allah, and women who surrender, and men
who believe and women who believe, and men
who obey and women who obey, and men who
speak the truth and women who speak the truth,
and men who persevere (in righteousness) and
women who persevere, and men who are humble
and women who are humble, and men who give
alms and women who give alms, and men who
fast and women who fast, and men who guard
their modesty and women who guard (their
modesty), and men who remember Allah much
and women who remember Allah hath prepared
for them forgiveness and a vast reward.” (Al-
Ahzab 33:35)
Sexual relations are allowed only among the
married couples. Sex outside marriage is not
allowed in Islam. The Prophet, peace and
blessings be upon him, is reported to have said,
"O young people, whoever among you can afford
to marry, let him/her get married, because
marriage protects the private parts of the body
(i.e. from illicit relations) and it guards the eyes
from straying. But those who cannot afford to
marry then let them fast, because fasting will
curb their sexual urge.” (An-Nasa’i)
Allah Almighty knows best. |
Re: Sex Outside Marriage by Nobody: 8:04pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
Re: Sex Outside Marriage by Nobody: 8:06pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
The thing is I began seeing sex as my favorite exercise God have mercy! That stopped some 1 year ago Allahu Akbar |
Re: Sex Outside Marriage by MISSNORA(f): 8:09pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
No no for me |
Re: Sex Outside Marriage by ATMC(f): 8:10pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
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