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Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by dazzlingd(m): 9:04am On Sep 13, 2015 |
RedCard1: wen u just didn't see any chance of tribalism coming....Some niggers are quite good in causing tribal riots in any post watsoever 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by pmc01(m): 9:07am On Sep 13, 2015 |
freecocoa: Not a bad try. Looks like I'm justified. I wish you well regardless and hope you effect changes where needed. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by freecocoa(f): 9:09am On Sep 13, 2015 |
pmc01:Gerrarahia mehn! You are in no position to advice me and I love me this way, let the door hit you on your way out, rabbish. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 9:10am On Sep 13, 2015 |
babygirlfl:u resist when ur resources are in it but not when u got an already made man which most want...so? |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 9:10am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Who send them!Remain a single,u people won't hear,u prefer the title 'Mr' and 'Mrs',now u are inquring how 2 manage ur family from a single like me enjoying my bachelor life,enh?If I may ask,what tribe are both from?It matters if answer is needed sharply.'One can cook than the other and they've been dating since their undergraduate days'.This is common,it's not new anyway 2 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Tex42(m): 9:12am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Well, if the couple can't take a cue from the many advice flooding this thread and retrace their steps, of what use would be my own advice? So I'll say nothing. Buh I strongly advice the couple to read and make do with life changing posts made on here. Good luck to them... |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Dav77(m): 9:14am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Cooking has been the job of a good wife from time memorial,I'm not disputing the fact that the husband can help the wife in the kitchen,but it is the major duty and responsibility of a good wife to do the cooking, the wife should just eat the humble pie cos the marriage is tending toward disintegration. I also don't blame the wife cos from what I read the husband must be pompous and garrulous young man because his friend refer to him as a good cook, possessing a quality not common with young men can make you appear an inch taller. He has been the one cooking during courtship he must have promised his wife that he will always cook for her, now that he find the job so difficult to continue he want to forcefully turn the table around, please guys don't make promises u can never fulfil during courtship and also husband should always appreciate the wife cos you may do her job better but how long can you do it without complaining. 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by GboyegaD(m): 9:15am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Tallesty1: You sure say you sef no want marry her if chance dey? |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by emsheddy(m): 9:16am On Sep 13, 2015 |
pmc01:My brother, I had to fight every urge in me to answer those girls! You can imagine what our Nigerian sisters can spill! They should ask themselves if this is how our mothers behaved and are still enjoying their homes till today even after having men with beards and full blown female children! Personally, back then, when my gf is visiting, I ask her what I should prepare for her before she arrives since she is coming from a far distance. but as from the next morning, na she get kitchen till she go back oh! Am a good cook! A very good one for that matter! But them never born that babe wey wan tell me to dey cook for her like this our guy wife! I can do it once in a while like popsy made starch(abeg Isokos and Urhobos dey chop starch from cassava oh) that everyone marvelled at few days back just for fun and prove to everyone of us that he is still a good cook till tomorrow! But as the guy dey villa, make him return back today and food no dey wait for am, una go read the story tomorrow! Bros, I greet you again! If no be some correct babes wey don yarn better, I for blast those babes since! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by chiibekee(f): 9:20am On Sep 13, 2015 |
My husband cooks well. While we were dating, he does the cooking but right now I need no prophet to tell me that power has changed over. 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by pmc01(m): 9:25am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Some of our female folks or should I say female rights activist here still don't get it. The lady's response if true, shows she's very non-chalant and holds no remorse whatsoever over her shortcoming. A man can be his wife's little baby if she knows her onions well. It is as simple as she telling the friend in response to his query 'oh! I didn't know my sweetheart isn't happy with that.' She can then proceed to massage her husband's ego by calmly and jovially admitting that he is truly the man of the house and assuring him she would make ammends. Afterwards, she should then ensure they are in the kitchen together by mutual consent whenever the opportunity comes up. She can be merely and observer and the helping hand (I mean the one who gets the salt, onions and other miscellanous duties). This will even boost their romance life and the seemingly brewing trouble would have been turned around to a win-win situation. This should not be interpreted as 'foolishly being over-submissive' as some of our women here are painting it to be. The kind of comments witnessed so far from the ladies re-emphasizes the need for men to be very protective of their wives in choosing her friends, otherwise there will be 'serious fire on the mountain'. Kudos to Ishilove and a few others that were realistic with their comments, especially where she suggested 'what obtains in courtship is not the same for marriage'. God help our female folks and increase them in wisdom. 3 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 9:34am On Sep 13, 2015 |
ireneidiva:I have no time for you. Will not pray to marry your kind of girl, otherwise my family won't be happy with me especially my mom who is very traditional. I've dated an European girl who cooked for me like my mother. I'm still very proud of this girl even today. 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Barywhyte(m): 9:38am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Harmonyemerald: Hahahahhaha had to login becos of u. @"elders like me" 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by pmc01(m): 9:38am On Sep 13, 2015 |
freecocoa: I see the humor, no wahala. On a lighter note- For your husband's sake, I will respect his wife and not trade words with her. #man to man Sure, you should love yourself, but there's always room for improvement. There's always a chance for a better us, no matter how well mannered and wise we are adjudged to be; that applies to me too. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by emsheddy(m): 9:39am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Zeeblamj01:Is this not a Nigerian Lady? My dear (abeg make your hubby no reason am oh), your husband is the luckiest man on planet earth! See God-given brains been put to use nau! Abeg I still dey single oh incase you get sister wey never marry! To them ladies out there that thinks otherwise, una case dey God hand! 2 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by mart2k(m): 9:43am On Sep 13, 2015 |
GboyegaD:you are talking non.sense. The guy should only cook when he feels like cooking and not d stewpid wife ordering him to cook. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by GboyegaD(m): 9:50am On Sep 13, 2015 |
mart2k: Did you read any part where she ordered him to cook? Stop the insults and mind your business instead. 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by freecocoa(f): 9:58am On Sep 13, 2015 |
pmc01:To set the record straight, i'm not married, having said that, so you can't respect me for my sake, you'll have to do it because of a man? Aren't you something? I know where and when to improve as I'm an adult capable of making smart decisions, should there be a place I need help? I ask for it and should I make am error, then anyone can correct me with respect, it's very wrong to speak to me like you would a child and that's something I will never, I repeat, never tolerate from anyone, so my dear I won't be treated with little or no regard because I am a woman. I wasn't really joking with my first comment btw, I just find that there's often humour in my words, even when I'm dead serious, I can't help it. 4 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Tinyemeka(m): 10:01am On Sep 13, 2015 |
chigoizie7: Much respect! |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by ireneidiva(f): 10:03am On Sep 13, 2015 |
FolarinLondon:'Smart man' go to church and remain blessed too. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by ireneidiva(f): 10:05am On Sep 13, 2015 |
DeeTus:You 'dated'. You did not marry her o, after all her 'cooking like your mother'. 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Jennifer89(f): 10:11am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Aystarz: yes i agree with you. too much of Hollywood movies and soap operas is confusing so many Niga gals. i don't know what happen to our African values. it's the new generation men that consider assisting their wife in chores our own father wont do it may be just a few will assist. A man will go to work, crack his brain on how to provide for his family, gives the woman money for upkeep and she will balance and still expect him to do compulsory cooking hmm 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by SMREXY(m): 10:13am On Sep 13, 2015 |
ebubey:Hhmmm... But you wished you were |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by SleekyPosh(m): 10:14am On Sep 13, 2015 |
I dnt support dat!..But wait This OP go sabi do Amebo wella |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by ireneidiva(f): 10:14am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Jennifer89:The african tradition that is still keeping africa backward when other continents are way ahead. The man will go to work and crack his brain? Don't women work and 'crack' their brains? Don't women provide for their families? What is wrong with you people? 2 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 10:24am On Sep 13, 2015 |
ireneidiva:haha....story. u bring a car...she brings a tray for comparison. smh. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by freecocoa(f): 10:26am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Jennifer89:Don't you have shame? Why should he be the one giving you money for upkeep? Can't you also pay for his upkeep? What happened to your hands and brains, or doesn't yours deserve some racking? 2 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 10:27am On Sep 13, 2015 |
ireneidiva:The question is, what do u advise the couple to do? |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 10:28am On Sep 13, 2015 |
ireneidiva:Lol! You're lazy. Go learn how to cook |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by ireneidiva(f): 10:28am On Sep 13, 2015 |
kosplateau:That one happens in the village you grew up in. Please women contribute a whole lot in their marriages. Men like you feel the impact when they are down. 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Jennifer89(f): 10:30am On Sep 13, 2015 |
ireneidiva: may be u don't get. inasmuch we try to imitate the western tradition we still have ours. I'm not saying a man shouldn't assist his wife in cooking or doing chores in d house but it shouldn't be mandatory. you cant force a man to cook if he doesn't want to. nothing is wrong with me coz we are entitled to our own opinion. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by ireneidiva(f): 10:33am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Jennifer89:Did you read where she 'forced' the man to cook for her? 1 Like |
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