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Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by Amustical(m): 7:03am On Sep 17, 2015
HEAR WHAT A MOTHER TOLD HER DAUGHTER ON
HER WEDDING DAY
.
My daughter,you are now a wife and soon you'll
be become a mother too. God bear me witness
that I taught you how to cook and do other house
chores. I taught you to respect men and to
explain your anger when necessary but if you do
otherwise,i know you,not as a daughter but as my
fellow woman.
My daughter,you see this your husband? He is a
gentleman but don't take advantage of that. Don't
bring out the beast in him. My daughter,you see
this mark on my forehead?
Your father gave it to me.He tolerated me
everytime but on that day,He came unexpectedly.
It wasn't his intention but i dared him and he hit
me just once
My daughter,Men hate it when you use the word
"YOU CAN'T DO IT".He sure can do more than but
he's just protecting you from harm.
My daughter, whenever there is an arguement or
misunderstanding, try drinking water.You can't
talk when you have water in your mouth.
Now,you have two families.You are very
lucky.Tolerate and appreciate them just as you
did here.
Learn to welcome other people's kids and soon,
children will sorround your table with love.
You see that my big pot? I bought it when i still
had no child but i always cooked with it to feed
those children who had nothing to eat.
Learn to show hospitality. Welcome a visitor and
at least,offer a glass of water.Don't discriminate.
Don't shatter your husband's family. instead,
bring them together.
Learn to appreciate little efforts and soon,they'll
learn to do more.
Today,you are wearing a wedding gown and you
look so beautiful in it but there is still another
gown you need to wear.That is the MATERNITY
gown. I wore it and you shall wear your's too.
When you have a misundertanding, don't come
back here.Sort things out and build a happy
home.I built mine and your father enjoyed me.
Men like food.They like both the kITCHEN food
and the BEDROOM food.Don't deny him any of
the food all because you had an arguement.
If the ones i taught you are not enough, learn
more!

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Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by alonzoiv(m): 7:05am On Sep 17, 2015
A wise mother. Lalasticlala,pls do the needful to this. This might go a long way to reduce divorce rates in the society. Our ladies must learn and take corrections to build a healthy family and society. Modified. FTC and why is this topic just making FP?

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Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by Nobody: 7:09am On Sep 17, 2015
kiss kiss kiss Mothers are Moulders!

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Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by DjAndroid: 7:49am On Sep 17, 2015
Very stale but it never dies!

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Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by Nobody: 10:08am On Sep 17, 2015
DjAndroid:
Very stale but it never dies!
were you expecting it to be hilarious

no maher how old it gets,it is very educative and our young girls need it

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Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by optimistcandyboy(m): 1:46pm On Sep 17, 2015
who among u ladies wants to be this woman?

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Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by Amustical(m): 11:18pm On Sep 17, 2015
Nairaland moderators are politician.... If this post did not make a front page I where again. Or what is cretarial for Front page? Lalasticlala any answer? grin cheesy
Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by Sharon6(f): 12:39am On Sep 18, 2015
Good advice coming from an experienced mother. If the daughter listens to those advice and put them into good use, she'll make a very good wife.



Please check my signature.

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Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by veekid(m): 10:55am On Sep 19, 2015
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Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by kay29000(m): 10:56am On Sep 19, 2015
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Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by raayah(f): 10:56am On Sep 19, 2015
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Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by raayah(f): 10:57am On Sep 19, 2015
My daughter,you see this your husband? He is a
gentleman but don't take advantage of that. Don't
bring out the beast in him. My daughter,you see
this mark on my forehead?
Your father gave it to me.He tolerated me
everytime but on that day,He came unexpectedly.
It wasn't his intention but i dared him and he hit
me just once


Very Very bad Advice!

Look, my own mother suffered abuse in the hands of her husband after doing heaven and earth for him. You know what my mother told me one day? She sat me down and said, "Raayah. My husband does not love me, If he did, he will not abuse me like this for no reason".

Weeks after that, She moved out and hasn't looked back. She is planning to return the dowry to his people very soon. Life is so much better for her. No more spending nights at the hospital,(Yes, that's how serious the physical and mental abuse was), no more tears.. Life is good!

If you choose to stay with an abusive man because of the "children" or because you cannot "live independently", then say so. Don't tell women to stay with men with abusive men..
Same advice for men, don't stay with abusive women. They can kill

She dared him by doing what? How many of you will fight an agbero who dares you, or a man who disrespects you, Not a lot!
But when it comes to your wife, she does something wrong, you decide to give her head injury!
All of you justifying this abuse are cowards, yes I said it!

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Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by Nobody: 10:57am On Sep 19, 2015
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Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by Richie0974: 10:57am On Sep 19, 2015
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Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by Raymondville(m): 10:57am On Sep 19, 2015
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Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by Sijo01(f): 10:57am On Sep 19, 2015
Hmmm, make sense.
Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by jammyunn(m): 10:57am On Sep 19, 2015
Tell them mama!
Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by DebbyChris(f): 10:58am On Sep 19, 2015
Ok
Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by pretydiva(f): 10:58am On Sep 19, 2015
This is superb. God bless all d mothers out there. I love both d kitchen n bedroom food part smiley

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Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by free2ryhme: 10:58am On Sep 19, 2015
Amustical:
HEAR WHAT A MOTHER TOLD HER DAUGHTER ON
HER WEDDING DAY
.
My daughter,you are now a wife and soon you'll
be become a mother too. God bear me witness
that I taught you how to cook and do other house
chores. I taught you to respect men and to
explain your anger when necessary but if you do
otherwise,i know you,not as a daughter but as my
fellow woman.
My daughter,you see this your husband? He is a
gentleman but don't take advantage of that. Don't
bring out the beast in him. My daughter,you see
this mark on my forehead?
Your father gave it to me.He tolerated me
everytime but on that day,He came unexpectedly.
It wasn't his intention but i dared him and he hit
me just once
My daughter,Men hate it when you use the word
"YOU CAN'T DO IT".He sure can do more than but
he's just protecting you from harm.
My daughter, whenever there is an arguement or
misunderstanding, try drinking water.You can't
talk when you have water in your mouth.
Now,you have two families.You are very
lucky.Tolerate and appreciate them just as you
did here.
Learn to welcome other people's kids and soon,
children will sorround your table with love.
You see that my big pot? I bought it when i still
had no child but i always cooked with it to feed
those children who had nothing to eat.
Learn to show hospitality. Welcome a visitor and
at least,offer a glass of water.Don't discriminate.
Don't shatter your husband's family. instead,
bring them together.
Learn to appreciate little efforts and soon,they'll
learn to do more.
Today,you are wearing a wedding gown and you
look so beautiful in it but there is still another
gown you need to wear.That is the MATERNITY
gown. I wore it and you shall wear your's too.
When you have a misundertanding, don't come
back here.Sort things out and build a happy
home.I built mine and your father enjoyed me.
Men like food.They like both the kITCHEN food
and the BEDROOM food.Don't deny him any of
the food all because you had an arguement.
If the ones i taught you are not enough, learn
more!

Words of wisdom

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Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by chukxy44(m): 10:59am On Sep 19, 2015
Charity has always began from home. If we get family values right, fixing the society would be a much eaiser and do able task.

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Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by jamex93(m): 10:59am On Sep 19, 2015
Lolx
Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by free2ryhme: 10:59am On Sep 19, 2015
Onila, ishilove, idowuogbo etc

Make una tell una friends wey dey look for husband ooo
Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by okotv(m): 10:59am On Sep 19, 2015
Lovely but what of that for the men

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Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by free2ryhme: 11:00am On Sep 19, 2015
okotv:
Lovely but what of that for the men

Ask your father he will tell you

This was someone's mother to her daugther

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Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by tiamiyukunle69(m): 11:00am On Sep 19, 2015
Nice
When you have a misundertanding, don't come
back here.Sort things out and build a happy
home.
I love this part

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Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by Ndkings1(m): 11:01am On Sep 19, 2015
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