Dear Taiwo,

Please, how do I handle this situation, I am boxed in and I need your help. I have a male childhood friend, we have come a long way and we liked each other so much. We are neighbours and our parents and other siblings too are friends.

Sometime ago, while I was in 200 level in the university, I ran into a mess; I had to use my school fees to clear up the mess. When it was time for me to pay up my fees, I couldn’t tell my mother because apart from the fact that I couldn’t make up any story to take money from her; we lost my father.

Because of all these, I confided in my friend and he helped me to raise the money from his parents, I don’t know what excuse he gave them, because we attend the same school. He didn’t say he borrowed me, he said he gave me.

We are now in our final year, and for some time now, I have noticed a change in his attitude towards me; he is becoming unnecessarily close and he even asked that we date each other. I refused and explained to him that I have no such feelings for him and also the fact that he has dated two ladies that I know; one of them is my close friend.

I have always told him that I don’t have the time for dates and complications it could bring to my life now. Suddenly, he started asking for the money he gave me in 200levels. Knowing well that there is no way I can raise such money, I reminded him the fact that he gave me the money, he said he knew and that he wanted his money back or I should date and have sex with him.

He is aware of the fact that I am a virgin, when I reminded him of this fact; I was shocked when he said that will be the best way to pay up my debt. I am sad about this situation and I can’t tell anyone. Please, help me, what do I do?

Chinasa.

AfroKnight:
You owe him so pay up. You can't force him to be charitable. School fees no be small money for student.

overdrive:


But she doesn't have d money, op if he insists u pay him open up to ur mom on what transpired between u guys

dulux07:
Humans r like that. even if he stops askin for d money, mak sure u pay him, n if he kips threatenin, inform ur family members even if they dont ve d mon n u get scolded, jst let them know. But never give in to his demand.

misspicy:
Now thats what we call animal in human skin...

Op make sure you dont succumb to his desires,look for money and pay him,avoid been alone with him,make he no come rape you....

Punkyveer,this is how some naija guys reason,every favour must be reciprocated..did u read wat dat foolish fool above me typed too

greatness22:
Hmm! Jst pray about it, cos with d look of things, e be like say devil don sitdown for d boy sense.

Evathyst:
Hjjk

androidroot:
Those lips

Evathyst:
Woju o!

Teempakguy:
Involve a third party.

Evathyst:
Mtchew! Pay him which money? The one both of you wrote an agreement before giving to you abi?
Don't be surprised, once you give in. He'll continue to demand sex from you under the guise of that money...
See, this case is as simple as ABCD. Since he's trying to take advantage of you, why not show him he's not half as smart as 'We' are.
Next time he approaches you on this issue, try recording all that he's saying. You could even arrange with some of your friends who would hid themselves in your room. Once the he-goats comes to have sex, allow him to UnCloth, then, signal your friends to come out of hiding. By then, they would beat him mercilessly and take pictures of his uncladness.
That's what 'we' call fastest finger. He wants to coerce you into having sex with him just because he helped you then. Guys them gan self
Being thinking with their third leg since 1856BC.

Islie:




She was supposed to involve her mum


But, since she decided not to involve her and collect money form the guy.....

Let her face the consequences of what happens.
Because am sure the guy won't just ask her for sexual favours if he wasn't be led on by her and all her denial of not having feelings for the guy nah 'wash'

marshalcarter:
Wen you were collectin it@the 1st place..ur mind didn't advice you....gals..una no dey use eye see money...either give him his money back or have sex with him....life is DO or DIE...nd if you wanna open it to ya mum....hmm....she might not take it the way you say it





#sipsWeed

ijustdey:

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