Where is topup? This is dedicated to you.

For those who still have some burning questions or leftover feelings, about the breakup of a prior relationship, why don't you use this as an opportunity to vent anonymously about the kind of experience you shared. What you wish they would know or what they didn't know.  Free all those emotions you are hiding, ask those biting questions, clear your mind by saying those things you want to say. Let it all out.

Hopefully this idea would help some people release the few bits of hurt they have left in them.
It might give you closure?  You most likely won't have to worry about your ex reading this.


Post whatever it is.

my ex knows I gladly wish him dead.



I don't have to be anonymous.

Let the past be the past.

Dude is prolly enjoying his life, why should I reminisce over the past?

oga o

*Toyinrayo


madam T, how body na ?

Maybe it's only fitting that I start.


Dear C,

I just wish you weren't so selfish and self absorbed half the time.  No matter what went wrong between us in our interactions and/or discussion you always tried to tack the blame on me.  If only you knew how to take responsibility for your own actions.  It also didn't help that you were insecure about your future and lacked the confidence to stand up for yourself.  I tried helping you solidify your self esteem issues by constantly complimenting you on how pretty you look and how beautiful your smile is, but I guess it didn't work.  

I was also very disappointed when you told me that your parents didn't want you seeing an African man.  It completely altered how I viewed you and your family.   You are just as black as I am - your dad is African and your mother is African American.  I expected you to at least defend me and tell them that I am a good man, one who treated you with as much respect as you commanded.  But I guess some things just weren't meant to be.

Even though I told you I loved you, I realized some time later that I didn't actually love you.  I did develop some feelings for you, but that's all it was. I guess I just loved the thought of possibly being in a binding relationship with you, because you were so smart and hardworking.  I was going through a difficult time.  My emotions  fooled me, got the best of me, and I couldn't take those words back after I had said them to you so many times.

Even though we never made it past the getting to know you phase, I want you to know that I wish you the very best in your life.  Looking back, we probably wouldn't be able to get over the cultural differences anyway.  
Hope medical school works out very well for you.

Bleep

awwwwww, eyah

posakosa:

*Toyinrayo


madam T, how body na ?

old ID?

the moment I give up my old ID, i'll probably will be BANNED asap and again.

Welcome back Jenny

Anywaz, I'm going to bed now. Takia

posakosa:

my ex knows I gladly wish him dead.



I don't have to be anonymous.

Woah! Relationship must have been awful.

this is for my X

Dear,
i just wanted u 2 knw whereva u are
dat im doin great and betta rite now
everytins gud,the cars,cash flowin in
my sex life**i go countless days now**
wic was ur hart desire,witot stopin
i take endless trips 2 malyasia,singapore and
german 1ce.,its a pity u aint here 2 catch life wit me
i really loved u bt u cheated and i cudnt 4giv u
im stil tryin 2 get sm1 relace u bt it aint dat easy
i wish u d best anywher u re!
takecare

Benz GL

Hey ex,
Wanna hook up sometimes? Incumbent is acting up.

@Poster

Here is what i told her. Thanks for all the drama that you gave me but it's ok though cos me and Bola are real close now, i never knew Bola was that sweet. (Bola is one of her closest friends).

Dear Ex,
You belong to the past and that is why you are called Ex.
As for the Dear, Well, it was good while it lasted, I no longer think of you and I hope you do the same.
Sorry for bringing your issue up again, I just wanted to satisfy a curious poster.
Ciao!

@POST
i will go like ;good riddiance 2bad rubbish.i tank God i left u.now look how well am doing, take care nd i miss u not

Dear Ex,

So you still haven't got a job? You do realise that is the story of your life and you are a hindrance to your own growth,

Take Care

Not a letter but a funny quote i heard
one man's ex is another mans treasure.

Sweet T:

@Poster

Here is what i told her. Thanks for all the drama that you gave me but it's ok though cos me and Bola are real close now, i never knew Bola was that sweet. (Bola is one of her closest friends).

Thats BRUTAL!!! Revenge is Sweeeet!

you were the best woman a man could ever wish for . . . best of luck young lady . . . u'd make some man happy in future.

hello juliet, how u coping without me, i know how i 've stuggle to get u off my mind all to no avail but change we all know is irresistable i bid u farewell in this adventureous world i promise to always remember your warm breath n hot kisses i would never forget 18th of setptember night, we made love like we not gonna stop till october. stay out of trouble n b a good girl

haaaaaaaaaaa

this is for my ex: shege banza!

dear ex
its neva rite to do wrong to do rite, wat goes around comes around and karma aint so pretty.

all the best in life.

This is interesting.

Dear Kiyan and the rest of them,

I wish U all a good life.Have fun and be BLESS.

@K***I which your football career works out.!!

dear ex,

Can i have a round?

devimcy:

i promise to always remember your warm breath n hot kisses i would never forget 18th of setptember night, we made love like we not gonna stop till october. stay out of trouble n b a good girl

ah ah. . . .r u trying 2chyke her again. . . dont u no dt dis statement will drive her memories and herself back 2u

truphie:

Not a letter but a funny quote i heard
one man's ex is another mans treasure.

It's: One man's TRASH is another man's TREASURE!

To jay,i said dat i loved u but i lied,d truth is i never loved u then, i only see u as a means of survival then .becos being in a strange country can be somehow tough,i knew u deserve better dan d way i treated u but am sorry,d word love is not in my diary but all d same i wish u all d best in life

leaving you was the best decision i ever took in my entire life till date. the only thing i considered wrong which i did after i pondered over our 5years together was my loving you with the innocence of a  child. i would not blame my mother because she taught me the right things, i only tried them on the wrong person.
you never really had a mind of your own. u were always looking for opinions from the guys u taught knew it all. id always tell u that we could resolve our issues  between ourselves but u felt i was always afraid of losing out on the judgement results
sometimes i tell myself that maybe you were not machure enough for the kind of comitment i was giving you and so u got so overwhelmed by it all.
u used to scare so easily by my male friends. even my family friends and it was hell living under your spotlight.
sometimes, id look at u and say to myself, u soo insecure.
i tried to show u that u were the only man in my life but u wanted more. for my life to revolve around u when urs did not revolve around mine. i forgive u for all the pain you brought to me because it has made me a better person today.
it was all a clear experience of falling in and out of love. i watched our love at the beginning slowly crumble and head for the rocks due to your insecurity, ur incessant nagging, ur high expectations from me when u were not worth taking a chance for at all. dont u just get it, there was no motivation.!!!!!
my friends were double dating, bu i stuck to u despite all ur shortcomings because my mum taught me never to involve more than one man in my life. she called it dirty business.
for all the times u made me cry, the times u called me names, the times u showed ingratitude to my efforts, the times i stayed up asking myself if i wanted to continue in an abusive relationship, the times i read ur text messages where u professed ur love and i looked at u while u slept and called u a liar because the texts did not make any sence considering the hurtful ways you treated me, the times u deprived me of ur attention all in the name of a tiff and a hell lot more, i forgive you.
one mans ex is another ones treasure like my bro/sis said.(not too sure) five years seemed a long time and also to me like a waste of time but its been 7years since i left you and i am in love again. this time with a real man and am grateful to God for a second chance at love again.he love sme so much that sometimes i ask myself "na me be this?" i dont know what role u were assigned to play in my life by God but it sure was a bitter experience that still leaves my heart aching and tummy  churning at the thought of it all.
i wish u no bad thing because i know God knows how to deal with ur kind.
it was honestly nice to meet u but fulfilling to have left u. i got fedup and left remember, just when u taught u had my remote control, i upped and left, who knows maybe u still think i would come back like previous instances.too bad cos everyone sure has his elastic limits.
i hope u get this letter and be taught some morals by the contents.
all the best

.

Dear X

How is your gorimapa doing . . . after the hot pap i poured on it . . . Hola at moi
































Just joking . . . can't even hurt a fly . . . besides revenge is not the best solution . . . Karma is a bitch . . .