Dear Bunmi,

I recently found out, through a colleague in his office, that my husband of almost 20 years has been sleeping with prostitutes. according to this colleague, some of them call at the office and he takes time off to take them to motels.
I haven’t confronted him yet – i’m still in shock. how could he? now i just wish i’d never found out in the first place. i still love him and can’t imagine life without him. we have three teenage children

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You are in the best position to answer that.

And be careful not to confront him. Possibly his colleague who divulge this info may do so with a sinister motive.

Where he does so with the right mind and intent, then you may explore other ways of keeping him off such deadly venture.

You may not been satisfying him. Try some change in your affair with him.

He wants it more. Are you ready to give him more of it to his satisfaction without complaining? You hold the key to solving this problem.

Men sleep with prostitures to revvvvvvvv up their sex lives.
Sex is sooooooooooo BORRRRRRRRRING in marriage!

EVEN THE HOLY GHOST POWER CANNOT FIX THAT!!!!

OK o.
When you come out of your shock try to find out what the pro's are giving him and start doing so also.

Apart frm hurting u emotionally
D dude has already condemned himself
With stds and cos condoms are overated

HIV
Hsv.... Skin to skin virus
Chlamydia
Strelococcus
Gonorrea
Staphlycoccus
Warts
Hepatitis B
Whooping cough
Influenza
And over 200 viral and fungal diseases out to get you.. Even through kissing..

X

lols

KanwuliaJara:
Men sleep with prostitures to revvvvvvvv up their sex lives.
Sex is sooooooooooo BORRRRRRRRRING in marriage!

EVEN THE HOLY GHOST POWER CANNOT FIX THAT!!!!

Lool. Talking from experience?

KanwuliaJara:
Men sleep with prostitures to revvvvvvvv up their sex lives.
Sex is sooooooooooo BORRRRRRRRRING in marriage!

EVEN THE HOLY GHOST POWER CANNOT FIX THAT!!!!

could dat be the same reason why women do av sex mates too?

Just confront him to free your mind

Just confront him to free your mind but with quarrel. You can even say it jokingly and tell him somebody told you and that you are going to start monitoring him now. ..that God helps him when you caught him. Please say it jokingly and looked at his facial expressions and reactions

nnachukz:
He wants it more. Are you ready to give him more of it to his satisfaction without complaining? You hold the key to solving this problem.

This is ridiculous. When the woman wants something more (sex, money, attention - anything) should the man be ready to give her more without complaining? Or would that be a different case because it's a woman?

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ogogoro:


This is ridiculous. When the woman wants something more (sex, money, attention - anything) should the man be ready to give her more without complaining? Or would that be a different case because it's a woman?

If a woman needs the above listed, let that woman mould a man of her choice and engage the man, then pay for grooms price

Umm e choke

Tell him you HV been hearing gossips about some women coming to see him in office. You don't believe it, but you keep hearing it.

So you wanted to find out, if it is true. You don't want to jump to conclusions.

Be open minded. Here him out.

Whatever he says, just keep ur eyes open.
Don't over react.

He loves. Prostitute s,becuase he loves sex n is not satisfied with u.

He has been doing it for years, you obviously didn't know. Men who go to prostitute s,start it in bachelorhood most times.

N he probably watches porn.
Either case, adultery destroys marriages n families.

Just ask him to tell you the truth,n when he does,don't over react, even though it pains you and break your heart and even trust.

Ask him why he does it.

Because he, himself is a prostitute

You wanna know why?
Its because he's a man. men are promiscuous in nature.

Haywhymido:
could dat be the same reason why women do av sex mates too?

Very valid question. Enjoyable sex is not for men alone.

pet4ril:
Just confront him to free your mind but with quarrel. You can even say it jokingly and tell him somebody told you and that you are going to start monitoring him now. ..that God helps him when you caught him. Please say it jokingly and looked at his facial expressions and reactions

Jokingly ke! A husband sleeping with prostitutess, and for 2 decades is nothing to joke about.

emmanuelbrown26:

If a woman needs the above listed, let that woman mould a man of her choice and engage the man, then pay for grooms price

So bride price pays for infidelity. How come the families didn't inform us of this? So when next a husband cheats, it means he is well within his rights since he paid bride price. See logic

You seriously need to find out why your husband prefers prostitute ...

bugzbunny:
Apart frm hurting u emotionally
D dude has already condemned himself
With stds and cos condoms are overated

HIV
Hsv.... Skin to skin virus
Chlamydia
Strelococcus
Gonorrea
Staphlycoccus
Warts
Hepatitis B
Whooping cough
Influenza
And over 200 viral and fungal diseases out to get you.. Even through kissing..

You go cry tire untop another person matted.

You better go for HIV test before you die before your Time

Honestly! Men are scum. I feel so bad for you and I don't know what is wrong with some of our men dis days... They can't take their eyes of everything under the skirt. If it's sex that he really wants, then I urge you to lock him inside d room for 24hrs and give him hot sex.... I promise you he will never dare cheat on you again.

psucc:
■ And be careful not to confront him. Possibly his colleague who divulge this info may do so with a sinister motive. Where he does so with the right mind and intent, then you may explore other ways of keeping him off such deadly venture.
■ You may not been satisfying him. Try some change in your affair with him.

1. She should be careful not to confront a cheating husbands?

2. So she is to blame for her husband violating his marriage vows, even in such an open manner?

nnachukz:
He wants it more. Are you ready to give him more of it to his satisfaction without complaining? You hold the key to solving this problem.

He wants it more. Why didn't he inform his wife of this so she can maybe get out of his way in order that he could freely pursue those ashawos with her being a burden?

Juxtified:
■ OK o. When you come out of your shock try to find out what the pro's are giving him and start doing so also.

1. So even though the man violated his marriage vow the moment he began begging the prostitutes , it is up to the wife to rectify the situation and this by adjusting her life and senses to accommodate the ill against her until she is able to provide said man what he need in-house?

Kobojunkie:
1. She should be careful not to confront a cheating husbands?

2. So she is to blame for her husband violating his marriage vows, even in such an open manner?

You only pick the opening statement. Why not read the whole as one and know the content.

psucc:
You only pick the opening statement. Why not read the whole as one and know the content.

what content again?