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Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by Nobody: 9:04pm On Sep 28, 2015
ATMC:
Lmao!

Y'all are cruel... that's why I hate females smiley
Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by ikekings(m): 9:11pm On Sep 28, 2015
ATMC:
Nobody ooo smiley
Hmm. I believe you.

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Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by ATMC(f): 9:17pm On Sep 28, 2015
aim5:

Y'all are cruel... that's why I hate females smiley
The feeling is mutual smiley
Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by Nobody: 9:22pm On Sep 28, 2015
ATMC:
The feeling is mutual smiley

I'm joking. But yeah I got too nasty I'll admit hahah I scared the other girl off.
Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by ATMC(f): 9:23pm On Sep 28, 2015
aim5:


I'm joking. But yeah I got too nasty I'll admit hahah I scared the other girl off.
Give yourself A High Five!
Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by Nobody: 10:52pm On Sep 28, 2015
Nigerian youths and romance, if the op was talking about a 5 ways of getting a job, there u wud see 1234 views and 5 comments....after they wud say there is no job in nigeria.......


yh! no need...am guilty as well cheesy

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Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by ayokellany: 6:08am On Sep 29, 2015
sinaj:
You are very wrong op.



Curling of d toes can also be faked


D only way to knw a gurl is avin orgasm is by... wink

I will take your word for it, Oya tell me... Am waiting...
Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by billyG(m): 8:46am On Sep 29, 2015
Vinshu:


Wrong. That is the misperception.
Depends on the size of the female organ and some guys have organs of horses that can kill.
Cnt u accomodate a horse kok?
Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by IndianaJay: 11:29am On Sep 29, 2015
hardeymorlar:
it's dis kind of ppl dat'll come back 2 create d topic....'she doesn't pick my calls anymore,pls wat does dat mean'....smh undecided


Hahahaaa....True. It's also them that beg for coochie the most.
Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by PureEvanescence(f): 12:16pm On Nov 12, 2015
Okay, ATMC this is interesting. Kindness isn't the only reason women fake an orgasm, there's tiredness- when she's tired of the crap you're doing at the top or from behind or from anywhere for that matter. There's boredom- when she's yawning and utterly uninterested+ bobo is doing nothing new, no change of style. There's the okay-I-have-cum-please-stop-hurting-me, when a man thinks that pounding makes her cum and if she doesn't, the pounding continues until something happens, so she screams and wails and acts action porn so you can stop the nonsense.

Then, as for the toes, true that. But that can also be faked and I'm telling you from the experience of a lot of people I know, mine inclusive. Men easily say- I know what she wants, I know how to make her cum, I know when she cuts, I know where and how to touch her. I can guarantee these ones 100%, they know nothing. First of all, sit down and accept that the woman's body is entirely different from yours, accept that you know nothing about it and be open to learn. Most women when it comes to sex are very kind and considerate, so that when a man says- I know how to touch my woman, I make her come all the time, they don't want to oppose this notion, they don't want the man to feel less, so they help him uphold this lie and keep faking the orgasm. This is a very unconscious act, so don't say- why can't she tell him?

Sincerely and without any judgement in your heart, ask your woman what it is you can do to make her cum or at least enjoy the process. If you're truly sincere, you'll be shocked at the feedback. I stress on sincerity because some of the things women want in bed might be embarrassing, some unusual, so in order to open up about them, you must be coming from a place of absolute love and concern. I will give you an instance-

Personally, my major turn on in bed is just hearing my man make silly sounds, moaning and saying things that don't mean anything. When I get the impression that he's entirely into what we're doing and is pleasured solely by me, It's exciting and it's a huge turn on for me. Just listening to him moan while making love to me, will make me cum.

For my friend- she loves it when he kneels down to eat her out. He doesn't know this but sometimes, he unconsciously kneels to do it and for her, kneeling gives her the impression that he adores and worships her, that this, right there is where he'd rather be. Seeing him kneel to eat her out melts her heart and frees her entire body, she's automatically more in-tune to his touch and every other thing he does leaves her vibrating.

For another friend- when he looks her in the eye during the missionary session while squeezing her nipples, she cums, straight away. She feels like she sees through him when this happens.

Another one said she likes the doggy style and she'll cum faster when he talks about her body parts and compliments them. Like- 'oh my goodness babe, I like the way your ***** feels around my ****.

You think you know when she cums? You thought wrong. If a woman wants you to think she cums, you can think it for the rest of your life, meanwhile she didn't cum for one day.

If you care about someone, and you sincerely want them to enjoy the process, it is their body, ask them. Be sincere and let them know that you'll do it, no matter how silly it is. When you've done a good job, you'll know deep down your heart, you won't need to scream it, lol. Learn to worship that body, it's gospel!

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Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by orvik(m): 12:59pm On Nov 12, 2015
There are various ways women react when they reach orgasm. The toe thing could be one, but there are other ways too. Remember, people react differently to the same thing. One thing is sure...when a woman gets a good sex from her partner, she may not be able to hide it. It will clearly show by her response immediately or later.

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Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by ATMC(f): 4:13pm On Nov 12, 2015
^^Aptly put!

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Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by Anijay1212(m): 11:53pm On Feb 29, 2016
simplex2:
Can't seem to find them toes; I''m doing missionary and the toes are curled up my back, I'm in doggy and its buried deep inside the bed behind me, she's riding my dckk cowgirl and them toes are folded away behind her...

Wait a minute, reverse cowgirl...aha...that's the toes...its permanently curled though.

#sighs#
Lol... Bad guy.
Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by Nobody: 11:57am On Apr 02, 2016
PureEvanescence:
Okay, ATMC this is interesting. Kindness isn't the only reason women fake an orgasm, there's tiredness- when she's tired of the crap you're doing at the top or from behind or from anywhere for that matter. There's boredom- when she's yawning and utterly uninterested+ bobo is doing nothing new, no change of style. There's the okay-I-have-cum-please-stop-hurting-me, when a man thinks that pounding makes her cum and if she doesn't, the pounding continues until something happens, so she screams and wails and acts action porn so you can stop the nonsense.

Then, as for the toes, true that. But that can also be faked and I'm telling you from the experience of a lot of people I know, mine inclusive. Men easily say- I know what she wants, I know how to make her cum, I know when she cuts, I know where and how to touch her. I can guarantee these ones 100%, they know nothing. First of all, sit down and accept that the woman's body is entirely different from yours, accept that you know nothing about it and be open to learn. Most women when it comes to sex are very kind and considerate, so that when a man says- I know how to touch my woman, I make her come all the time, they don't want to oppose this notion, they don't want the man to feel less, so they help him uphold this lie and keep faking the orgasm. This is a very unconscious act, so don't say- why can't she tell him?

Sincerely and without any judgement in your heart, ask your woman what it is you can do to make her cum or at least enjoy the process. If you're truly sincere, you'll be shocked at the feedback. I stress on sincerity because some of the things women want in bed might be embarrassing, some unusual, so in order to open up about them, you must be coming from a place of absolute love and concern. I will give you an instance-

Personally, my major turn on in bed is just hearing my man make silly sounds, moaning and saying things that don't mean anything. When I get the impression that he's entirely into what we're doing and is pleasured solely by me, It's exciting and it's a huge turn on for me. Just listening to him moan while making love to me, will make me cum.

For my friend- she loves it when he kneels down to eat her out. He doesn't know this but sometimes, he unconsciously kneels to do it and for her, kneeling gives her the impression that he adores and worships her, that this, right there is where he'd rather be. Seeing him kneel to eat her out melts her heart and frees her entire body, she's automatically more in-tune to his touch and every other thing he does leaves her vibrating.

For another friend- when he looks her in the eye during the missionary session while squeezing her nipples, she cums, straight away. She feels like she sees through him when this happens.

Another one said she likes the doggy style and she'll cum faster when he talks about her body parts and compliments them. Like- 'oh my goodness babe, I like the way your ***** feels around my ****.

You think you know when she cums? You thought wrong. If a woman wants you to think she cums, you can think it for the rest of your life, meanwhile she didn't cum for one day.

If you care about someone, and you sincerely want them to enjoy the process, it is their body, ask them. Be sincere and let them know that you'll do it, no matter how silly it is. When you've done a good job, you'll know deep down your heart, you won't need to scream it, lol. Learn to worship that body, it's gospel!
#Word !!!!!
Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by Analysiscorner: 9:33am On May 01, 2016
PureEvanescence:
Okay, ATMC this is interesting. Kindness isn't the only reason women fake an orgasm, there's tiredness- when she's tired of the crap you're doing at the top or from behind or from anywhere for that matter. There's boredom- when she's yawning and utterly uninterested+ bobo is doing nothing new, no change of style. There's the okay-I-have-cum-please-stop-hurting-me, when a man thinks that pounding makes her cum and if she doesn't, the pounding continues until something happens, so she screams and wails and acts action porn so you can stop the nonsense.

Then, as for the toes, true that. But that can also be faked and I'm telling you from the experience of a lot of people I know, mine inclusive. Men easily say- I know what she wants, I know how to make her cum, I know when she cuts, I know where and how to touch her. I can guarantee these ones 100%, they know nothing. First of all, sit down and accept that the woman's body is entirely different from yours, accept that you know nothing about it and be open to learn. Most women when it comes to sex are very kind and considerate, so that when a man says- I know how to touch my woman, I make her come all the time, they don't want to oppose this notion, they don't want the man to feel less, so they help him uphold this lie and keep faking the orgasm. This is a very unconscious act, so don't say- why can't she tell him?

Sincerely and without any judgement in your heart, ask your woman what it is you can do to make her cum or at least enjoy the process. If you're truly sincere, you'll be shocked at the feedback. I stress on sincerity because some of the things women want in bed might be embarrassing, some unusual, so in order to open up about them, you must be coming from a place of absolute love and concern. I will give you an instance-

Personally, my major turn on in bed is just hearing my man make silly sounds, moaning and saying things that don't mean anything. When I get the impression that he's entirely into what we're doing and is pleasured solely by me, It's exciting and it's a huge turn on for me. Just listening to him moan while making love to me, will make me cum.

For my friend- she loves it when he kneels down to eat her out. He doesn't know this but sometimes, he unconsciously kneels to do it and for her, kneeling gives her the impression that he adores and worships her, that this, right there is where he'd rather be. Seeing him kneel to eat her out melts her heart and frees her entire body, she's automatically more in-tune to his touch and every other thing he does leaves her vibrating.

For another friend- when he looks her in the eye during the missionary session while squeezing her nipples, she cums, straight away. She feels like she sees through him when this happens.

Another one said she likes the doggy style and she'll cum faster when he talks about her body parts and compliments them. Like- 'oh my goodness babe, I like the way your ***** feels around my ****.

You think you know when she cums? You thought wrong. If a woman wants you to think she cums, you can think it for the rest of your life, meanwhile she didn't cum for one day.

If you care about someone, and you sincerely want them to enjoy the process, it is their body, ask them. Be sincere and let them know that you'll do it, no matter how silly it is. When you've done a good job, you'll know deep down your heart, you won't need to scream it, lol. Learn to worship that body, it's gospel!
I concur. A lady even told me that the husband doesn't bring her to orgasm, but she fakes it all the time to make him happy.
Her own special way of orgasm is, when she is alone, she crosses her legs to certain angle and it comes.
But she also said that she learnt it when she was still a girl, and she didn't want to be sexually active then.
Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by wexyee: 2:59pm On May 01, 2016
Abeg jor if a girl reaches orgasm she'll be very wet? I mean so wet dat ur tingy will be bathing!! Nw tell me hw cn they fake that?

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Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by LuveU2(f): 11:12pm On Jul 10, 2016
ikekings:
Hmm. I believe you.


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Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by bobojoshua(m): 8:39am On Jul 11, 2016
johnydon22:
[b]
First thing you need is patience, do not be the kind of man that just wants to get into the business immediately by penetrating.

Fore-play is the most important part of getting your woman ready, a girl's sexual needs are far more complex than ours.
So take your time on long lasting and hot fore-play and most importantly you have to know what your woman loves.

I recommend special emphasis on Neck kisses, nibbles and twirling of the tongue. .No lady can resist that.

Kissing the ear lobes, shoulders, toes, stomach, belly button.

Nipple sucking is very important but pay mind to her feedback to know if to apply a bit hard or softness while at it.

Lap kisses drives them wild, you may take your kisses through out her laps down to her inner laps almost brushing the honey pot but don't touch the honey pot. . that tease and anticipation literally gets them nuts.

Nipple pinches, if you are the type that is comfortable with eating the Coochie, you take your time on that and never forget to maintain soft pinches on the nips.

One finger first into the Vay and try to brush through the upper wall of the coochie . . . .Just take your time to please your woman.

Never you both be as silent as logs, communicate on your wants in bed and don't be too selfish not to let out rewarding groans and moans when she is riding or treating the D right..

Not an expert though, just my two scents from experience
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Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by rosy1992(f): 10:46am On Jul 11, 2016
Meaning?
Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by gentlegenius(m): 12:28pm On Aug 01, 2017
Vinshu:
THE TRUTH:

Orgasm is faked because the female is not enjoying the activity. And there are reasons as to why:

-) The guy is not playing with her. Just thrusting.

-) Short or no fore-play. Straight to the activity

-) Short or small organ.. I.e not hitting the spot required.

-) Organ too long or big.. I.e feeling pain instead so she fakes so you cum and f!uck off.

-) No sensation.. e.g trash talks.. try it, it works.

-) Not in the mood. Most cases.

And so on..
Wow... You are very correct. I wish guys will take note of these.
Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by Nobody: 12:45pm On Aug 01, 2017
ribbit:
Immediately she cums, the pussy brings out more juice, that is how to know .. They can't fake that. wink
Correct,,,wen it's wet inside there knowing fully well dat u've nt cum. This is very noticeable
Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by Nobody: 7:21pm On Aug 01, 2017
tommychow:
If you're thrusting and she's "coming" and you wanna be sure, pull out and watch her well for a while. If she's still unaware of your actions and still acting like she's having convulsion, she's on cloud nine. If she looks at you with her normal face and says something like "are you done?" "why did you stop?" or "is someone knocking?"...MY GUY YOU NO TRY AT ALL!

My advice is not to try and find out because stats shows women fake it most of the time, and I mean MOST. Very sad. Just enjoy the intimacy.
u right. Pull out stimulate d clit n wash her.u will laugh her in ur mind.
Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by Nobody: 7:25pm On Aug 01, 2017
johnydon22:


There is no law that says she must cum. . . In fact constant pounding of a girl for long minutes is not a guarantee of orgasm.

You can only end up getting her sour but yet no orgasm. . A woman's body is a complicated machine, and so not always does it require strength and long lasting duration.

If you have no idea what you are doing, it doesn't matter how long you go it will only seem like pouring water on a stone..
that rythimic spasm of the vaginally dosnt happen all the time
Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by martius101(m): 6:48am On Mar 13, 2019
ATMC:
Really? Do you stare at her toes?


Choi see savagery....no mind the guy......after me af cum na to sleep.
Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by martius101(m): 6:50am On Mar 13, 2019
[quote]ALWAYS, its my duty to satisfy her[/qu


Werey......you go die satisfying woman...what's r duty?
Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by martius101(m): 6:51am On Mar 13, 2019
ALWAYS, its my duty to satisfy her


Werrey..... you go just die ...you wan satisfy woman ,I laff in Swahili.......plus what r duty
Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by martius101(m): 6:53am On Mar 13, 2019
sinaj:
You are very wrong op.



Curling of d toes can also be faked


D only way to knw a gurl is avin orgasm is by... wink





Talk am,werey....make we know
Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by martius101(m): 6:55am On Mar 13, 2019
ATMC:
Get help ASAP!




So I cum and die abi because I want her to reach orgasm?...
Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by Nobody: 7:31am On Mar 13, 2019
johnydon22:
This is a selfish mindset brother.

Sex should be equally enjoyable to both gender, so her orgasm matters as much as yours.

You must pay mind to her own needs because a woman's sexual needs and wants are far more complex than that of a man.

So strive to give your woman orgasms because every lady deserves it as much as you think you deserve orgasm too.

squirting may occur from G - spot stimulation... center of gravity orgasm is a totally different form of female orgasm from clitoral orgasm. . And i bet center of gravity based orgasms are more intense...

Wtf... I thought this guy was from science department.
Re: How To Know When A Girl Orgasms by Bossjakande: 1:31pm On Mar 21, 2019
sinaj:
You are very wrong op.



Curling of d toes can also be faked


D only way to knw a gurl is avin orgasm is by... wink
pls let here u dear we are all matured

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