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5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by Toks2008(m): 11:15pm On Sep 25, 2015
Philandering is an act that is predominant among men and women alike.To some men this act seem normal due to the erroneous belief that men can be polygamous, but some women experience philandering due to narcissistic or even sociopathic mindset.

But as they say,it is a cruel world of men and often times the women are at the receiving end of this reckless act so this write up is directed to men and women alike but with more focus on the men and this write up will list 5ways you can prevent philandering or reduce the act to the barest minimum

1.Accept that it is a reckless and destructive act to you mentally,physically,Financially and spiritually
: Yes as sweet as philandering may seem to be, it is a very destructive act because it can lead you to eternal destruction of your soul as the Quran and Bible suggested and i believe your soul is worth more than the flimsy passion of exploring many death traps in the name of women. Asides this you can readily contract deadly infections and many men have had sexual encounters with different spiritual beings in the name of women and not forgetting the fact that in most cases,the act of philandering tend to make you spend excessively as you will need to spend on the side chicks from time to time just to satisfy your lustful desire.


2.Understand that Philandering is more than a regular bad habit but a demonically influenced act
: I have always counseled many ladies that they can not nag a man out of philandering but can only pray him out of it because most times,the men who indulge in it are influenced by demonic spirits so if you are a man who wants to stop or prevent this then you must be willing to pray to GOD to prevent the spirit from possessing you and to help you cast it out of you because this is one act you can not stop on your own.


3.Go for a lady that turns you on physically
:I always have a slogan that i will rather remain single for life than marry a woman that does not appeal to me physically. Yes they say choosing a wife is more than the physical attributes but nevertheless i believe you can always get a lady who has a good attribute as well as a good physical appeal.

Why should a man who loves a bootilicious lady settle for a flat ass? and if you love a big body lady why settle for a slim one?I remember having an affair with a lady while i was in the university and at a point i began to pray that GOD should make this lady develop some sexual features..
"can you imagine?"

If you love a busty lady and you settle for a small cup size then you just might fantasize about huge bust-line whenever you make out with a wife with a small cup size and to me,this is perpetual self inflicted bondage because there are billions of ladies out there single and ready to mingle so why pick the one that does not turn you on just by her physical appearance.


4.Accept the fact that no lady has the monopoly of beauty
:No matter how sexy or outwardly beautiful your woman may be,there will always be a lady sexier and more attractive than her out there and you are bound to meet many of such so if you are the type who can't take his eyes away from every sexy damsel then you just might be on a fast track to your grave because you can never outdo these daughters of eve who are always willing to show you the fastest way to hell. Just make that choice and do your best to maintain your choice by helping her retain her sexy figure in anyway you can.Learn to appreciate and be content with what you have because in actual fact,its the same hole and same pleasure,just that it is the skills that differs so teach her the skills rather than seek for a facade in the name of varieties.


5.It takes the fear of GOD and great discipline to do away with philandering
: It is practically almost impossible for a man who does not fear GOD to desist from this pleasurable but deadly act so as a lady you must pray and try to lead your man closer to GOD because if a man fears GOD then apparently he will make you happy and for the man please understand that you must practically go closer to GOD so that your love and fear for him will keep you away from this act.

Yes the act of philandering is a strong one that tends to enslave any susceptible person and it is not want anyone can just wish away but with GOD i believe that it can be prevented.

GOD HELP US. and I hope this helps

Mr Lalasticlala...how you dey?

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Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by AfricaMagic(m): 11:29pm On Sep 25, 2015
Hmmm
Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by Richiy(f): 11:31pm On Sep 25, 2015
Keep busy. Joblessness only increases your chances of philandering.

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Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by Toks2008(m): 11:34pm On Sep 25, 2015
Richiy:
Keep busy. Joblessness only increases your chances of philandering.

LWKMD!

You are so so freaking wrong my dear. I dont know if your assertion holds true for ladies but male Philanderers always have time for that act.It does not take you a whole day to do and weekends are always there lol! abeg no be so dear.

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Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by Richiy(f): 11:38pm On Sep 25, 2015
Toks2008:


LWKMD!

You are so so freaking wrong my dear. I dont know if your assertion holds true for ladies but male Philanderers always have time for that act.It does not take you a whole day to do and weekends are always there lol! abeg no be so dear.

I am not saying that keeping busy totally erases your chances of falling. If you have meetings, targets to beat and all that busy stuff, you only have limited time for yourself and you can only go so far in the philandering business.

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Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by Toks2008(m): 11:43pm On Sep 25, 2015
Richiy:


I am not saying that keeping busy totally erases your chances of falling. If you have meetings, targets to beat and all that busy stuff, you only have limited time for yourself and you can only go so far in the philandering business.

I understand you but if you have met some philanderers you will be so surprised at the way they plan out the act as if their lives depend on it.

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Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by Richiy(f): 11:45pm On Sep 25, 2015
Toks2008:


I understand you but if you have met some philanderers you will be so surprised at the way they plan out the act as if their lives depend on it.

Trust me I know. I have dated one.
Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by Toks2008(m): 11:57pm On Sep 25, 2015
Richiy:


Trust me I know. I have dated one.

So he tells you once he gets busy he stops philandering?
Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by Richiy(f): 11:58pm On Sep 25, 2015
Toks2008:


So he tells you once he gets busy he stops philandering?

No. But I did notice that once he has a project at hand, I.e get busy, he is usually a lot less focused on the ladies.

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Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by Toks2008(m): 11:59am On Sep 26, 2015
Richiy:


No. But I did notice that once he has a project at hand, I.e get busy, he is usually a lot less focused on the ladies.

LOL! and when he is less busy he goes back to it i presume.

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Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by wrongnumber: 7:21pm On Sep 26, 2015
Toks2008:
Philandering is an act that is predominant among men and women alike.To some men this act seem normal due to the erroneous belief that men can be polygamous, but some women experience philandering due to narcissistic or even sociopathic mindset.

But as they say,it is a cruel world of men and often times the women are at the receiving end of this reckless act so this write up is directed to men and women alike but with more focus on the men and this write up will list 5ways you can prevent philandering or reduce the act to the barest minimum.

1.Accept that it is a reckless and destructive act to you mentally,physically,Financially and spiritually
: Yes as sweet as philandering may seem to be, it is a very destructive act because it can lead you to eternal destruction of your soul as the Quran and Bible suggested and i believe your soul is worth more than the flimsy passion of exploring many death traps in the name of women. Asides this you can readily contract deadly infections and many men have had sexual encounters with different spiritual beings in the name of women and not forgetting the fact that in most cases,the act of philandering tend to make you spend excessively as you will need to spend on the side chicks from time to time just to satisfy your lustful desire.


2.Understand that Philandering is more than a regular bad habit but a demonically influenced act
: I have always counseled many ladies that they can not nag a man out of philandering but can only pray him out of it because most times,the men who indulge in it are influenced by demonic spirits so if you are a man who wants to stop or prevent this then you must be willing to pray to GOD to prevent the spirit from possessing you and to help you cast it out of you because this is one act you can not stop on your own.


3.Go for a lady that turns you on physically
:I always have a slogan that i will rather remain single for life than marry a woman that does not appeal to me physically. Yes they say choosing a wife is more than the physical attributes but nevertheless i believe you can always get a lady who has a good attribute as well as a good physical appeal.

Why should a man who loves a bootilicious lady settle for a flat ass? and if you love a big body lady why settle for a slim one?I remember having an affair with a lady while i was in the university and at a point i began to pray that GOD should make this lady develop some sexual features..
"can you imagine?"

If you love a busty lady and you settle for a small cup size then you just might fantasize about huge bust-line whenever you make out with a wife with a small cup size and to me,this is perpetual self inflicted bondage because there are billions of ladies out there single and ready to mingle so why pick the one that does not turn you on just by her physical appearance.


4.Accept the fact that no lady has the monopoly of beauty
:No matter how sexy or outwardly beautiful your woman may be,there will always be a lady sexier and more attractive than her out there and you are bound to meet many of such so if you are the type who can't take his eyes away from every sexy damsel then you just might be on a fast track to your grave because you can never outdo these daughters of eve who are always willing to show you the fastest way to hell. Just make that choice and do your best to maintain your choice by helping her retain her sexy figure in anyway you can.Learn to appreciate and be content with what you have because in actual fact,its the same hole and same pleasure,just that it is the skills that differs so teach her the skills rather than seek for a facade in the name of varieties.


5.It takes the fear of GOD and great discipline to do away with philandering
: It is practically almost impossible for a man who does not fear GOD to desist from this pleasurable but deadly act so as a lady you must pray and try to lead your man closer to GOD because if a man fears GOD then apparently he will make you happy and for the man please understand that you must practically go closer to GOD so that your love and fear for him will keep you away from this act.

Yes the act of philandering is a strong one that tends to enslave any susceptible person and it is not want anyone can just wish away but with GOD i believe that it can be prevented.

GOD HELP US. and I hope this helps

Nice one Ehbon.

But for those willing to change o. Some men are just hopelessly lost in the act.

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Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by Toks2008(m): 11:40pm On Sep 26, 2015
wrongnumber:


Nice one Ehbon.

But for those willing to change o. Some men are just hopelessly lost in the act.

Its a strong act that keeps one in bondage and only GOD can deliver.

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Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by greatfaceff: 11:46pm On Jan 11, 2016
Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by jejemanito: 11:47pm On Jan 11, 2016
Richiy:
Keep busy. Joblessness only increases your chances of philandering.
Simple

End of story
Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by emmanuel596(m): 11:48pm On Jan 11, 2016
cry
Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by lilmax(m): 11:48pm On Jan 11, 2016
We nor wan overcome am na grin

Na by force? grin

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Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by sauceTDA(m): 11:49pm On Jan 11, 2016
Dis op sha go dey form saint everytime. I tire for you oo undecided

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Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by mathew95(m): 11:49pm On Jan 11, 2016
okay [i]okay [/i]okay
Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by damola1: 11:50pm On Jan 11, 2016
I agree with no 3.
Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by Lovebond34(m): 11:52pm On Jan 11, 2016
a well discipline can acheive anyfin in life ..simply put..be DISCIPLINE

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Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by abduldope(m): 11:53pm On Jan 11, 2016
Mod go nd sleep itz late biko

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Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by xMrPx(m): 11:54pm On Jan 11, 2016
I eat ur words bro' let no one be deceived, d implication outweigh the fun ' it takes grace to stop this destructive act! May God help us

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Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by xMrPx(m): 11:54pm On Jan 11, 2016
I eat ur words bro' let no one be deceived, d implication outweigh the fun ' it takes grace to stop this destructive act! May God help us.

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Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by refiner(f): 11:54pm On Jan 11, 2016
how I so much hate men dat sleep outside.....if my husband tries it....na die sure pass

lol

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Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by Toks2008(m): 11:54pm On Jan 11, 2016
sauceTDA:
Dis op sha go dey form saint everytime. I tire for you oo undecided

I am trying to try grin
Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by Nobody: 11:55pm On Jan 11, 2016
In as much as I'm tempted to agree with your article, I think there's nothing demonic about this act.

It's just sheer adventure mostly by the male folk.

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Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by refiner(f): 11:55pm On Jan 11, 2016
sauceTDA:
Dis op sha go dey form saint everytime. I tire for you oo undecided
lol.......are u among dose men
Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by refiner(f): 11:57pm On Jan 11, 2016
lilmax:
We nor wan overcome am na grin
Na by force? grin
lol....kwantinue den....God is watching u...

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Re: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by canalily(m): 11:58pm On Jan 11, 2016
Its natural...., if u cn stop wailing and travailing that brings forth a child, then you cn control philandrous ways of mensmiley

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