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After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by macroscopic: 2:01pm On Sep 27, 2015
Pls Nairalanders help!!

I met this beautiful damsel while serving(NYSC) in Imo State in 2013. She accepted to date me on one condition (NO SEX before marriage). I gladly accepted. Our love was a major gist in town because she is a beauty queen. I so much loved her with all my heart..She was a virgin and I so much respected her for that...I spent 75% of my allowee on her in addition with my personal savings...

On several ocassions, she lost control of herself during romance but as a gentleman, I kept my promise by not harvesting the forbidden fruit.. Her love for me grew stronger because of my self control. After NYSC, I relocated to Lagos in search of greener pasture. Things got tougher because jobs were extremely scarce. Still,I struggled to send her some money through her father's first bank account (she was 18yrs then).

Once in a month, I travelled from Lagos to Owerri just to see her....Our love was so strong..But since inception of this year, things got pretty bad that I could not meet up with my routine travels to see her. After 3yrs, I got a job few days ago in an oil company and I was so enthusiastic to relay the good news to her....But to my greatest shock ever...She sent me an apology sms that she will be getting married next week...I was preparing for sunday service but the news automatically made me fell asleep. I just woke up and feeling abnormal...She is calling but I can't imagine myself taking the calls...Pls I need your pool of unalloyed advice...

Pls save a soul today and God will bless you..Thanks

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Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by adedayourt(m): 2:02pm On Sep 27, 2015
HE FELL ASLEEP WHEN HE HEARD ABOUT THE WEDDING grin grin

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Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by munchfani: 2:03pm On Sep 27, 2015
NO NO DATS NOT ME...U DON LEARN UR LESSON, MAKE SURE U NACK YOUR NEXT TARGET AFTER SECOND DATE.

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Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Kingsasian(m): 2:03pm On Sep 27, 2015
Kpele

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Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by vizkiz: 2:04pm On Sep 27, 2015
another mumufied brother creating a mumutic thread about his mumuinizm undecided

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Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by wilybebsy(m): 2:06pm On Sep 27, 2015
Ghen ghen... My advice, focus on ur new job or u gonna lost it soon

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Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Nobody: 2:06pm On Sep 27, 2015
lmfao @ spending 75 percent of your wages on her. Smdh

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Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by coolhumble(m): 2:07pm On Sep 27, 2015
Your lost bro but life goes on, when she told you she does not want sex until.marriage did you try to have it with her, when talking about sex did you study her body language? Most times when girls says NO they actually means YES.

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Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by adedayourt(m): 2:07pm On Sep 27, 2015
macroscopic:
Pls Nairalanders help!!
I met this beautiful damsel while serving(NYSC) in Imo State in 2013.She accepted to date me on one condition(NO SEX before marriage). I gladly accepted.Our love was a major gist in town because she is a beauty queen.I so much loved her with all my heart..She was a virgin and I so much respected her for that...I spent 75% of my allowee on her in addition with my personal savings...On several ocassions,she lost control of herself during romance but as a gentleman,I kept my promise by not harvesting the forbidden fruit..Her love for me grew stronger because of my self control.After NYSC,I relocated to Lagos in search of greener pasture.Things got tougher because jobs were extremely scarce.Still,I struggle to send her some money through her father first bank account(she was 18yrs then).Once in a month,I travelled from Lagos to Owerri just to see her....Our love was so strong..But since inception of this year,things got pretty bad that I could not meet up with my routine travels to see her.After 3yrs,I got a job few days ago in an oil company and I was so euthusiastic to relay the goodnews to her....But to my greatest shock ever...She sent me an apology sms that she will be getting married next week... I was preparing for sunday service but the news automatically made me fell asleep. I just woke up and feeling abnormal...She is calling but I can't imagine myself taking the calls...Pls I need your pool of unalloyed advice...Pls save a soul today and God will bless u...Thanks

just ad to lol at dat bolded prt,

but u sud gather som strength nd find out y she did wat she did b4 u kill ursef over it. she mite jus av a fullish genuie reason fr her hoeish attitude

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Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Nobody: 2:07pm On Sep 27, 2015
Bad market!
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Nobody: 2:07pm On Sep 27, 2015
Wow shocked shocked......I don't knw wat to say....am so so soooorrry... cry
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by adedayourt(m): 2:08pm On Sep 27, 2015
avasweet:
Wow shocked shocked

d tin shok u
u sef wow at hw a lady can b so wicked

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Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by midehi2(f): 2:10pm On Sep 27, 2015
another maga...too bad

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Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Nobody: 2:12pm On Sep 27, 2015
Why must u send her money always even when things are rough 4 u, are u her father? Anyways I think u r lying

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Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Nobody: 2:12pm On Sep 27, 2015
adedayourt:


d tin shok u
u sef wow at hw a lady can b so wicked

Yes nah...imagine I get a man who agrees to no marriage no sex objectives and he spend dis much on me, my dear WTF do I want again....plus the fact he helps to control our degree during rromance, mehhnnn....some lady sha...smh embarassed

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Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Ojemedad: 2:12pm On Sep 27, 2015
Don't know where to classify you

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Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Nobody: 2:13pm On Sep 27, 2015
brother what can i say? well there is nothing u can do abt it, how do u know she was a virgin when uve not slept with her? d truth is that she was never a virgin, now this is one of d reason why a guy should not date a girl 4rm a poverty stricken family, bcaus when a richer guy comes the parents will give her hand in marriage to d richer guy and that is what has just happened to you, bcaus her dad must have been aware about her new marriage bcaus u use to send money through his bank account to her, so bro there is nothing u can do, just take heart and stand up like the man that u are and move on, showing weakness will be giving ur enemy a chance over u, learn ur lesson and move on with ur life, thank GOD that u even get to c her other side, what if after marriage and child birth, she then left u 4 anoda man? so take it as a blessing and move on, GOD will give you a better, more beautiful and GOD fearing lady. 'just forgive her and leave the rest for GOD.

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Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by sseunth(m): 2:13pm On Sep 27, 2015
Life goes on

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Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by sparcolette: 2:14pm On Sep 27, 2015
shits happens buh in all life still goes on
It hurts,its gona be tough buh u hv to
Let go n move on....

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Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Stanleyafam(m): 2:14pm On Sep 27, 2015
Bro the good part is, she'll forever respect you, but it's sad, I mean she left som1 who respects her for another she barely knows..

God has seen ur kind act and he will bring to u som1 that will head in the same direction as u, be patient, that's how life is..

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Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by adedayourt(m): 2:14pm On Sep 27, 2015
avasweet:


Yes nah...imagine I get a man who agrees to no marriage no sex objectives and he spend dis much on me, my dear WTF do I want again....plus the fact he helps to control our degree during rromance, mehhnnn....some lady sha...smh embarassed

wat else does a lady want.

well its unfortunate d lady aint here to balance d story

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Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by adedayourt(m): 2:15pm On Sep 27, 2015
midehi2:
another maga...too bad
u mean angry
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by ITbomb(m): 2:16pm On Sep 27, 2015
adedayourt:
HE FELL ASLEEP WHEN HE HEARD ABOUT THE WEDDING grin grin
Others could have fainted right away, he was probably mulling over it in his mind when sleep took over.

Bros OP, if you are near to PH, locate me, make we wash over your sorrow with some bottles.
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I didn't know some guys are still falling for that no sex stuff and still spending heavily at the same time.

I can only agree to no sex on three conditions
1. I am fully ready and capable of marrying in the next 6 months
2. You are a virgin
3. You have the womanly characters that I need

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Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by nerdfrost(m): 2:17pm On Sep 27, 2015
So this still happens,guy move on,if she was worth u she wud have waited. angry
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by adedayourt(m): 2:19pm On Sep 27, 2015
ITbomb:

Others could have fainted right away, he was probably mulling over it in his mind when sleep took over.

Bros OP, if you are near to PH, locate me, make we wash over your sorrow with some bottles.
I didn't know some guys are still falling for that no sex stuff and still spending heavily at the same time.

I can only agree to no sex on three conditions
1. I am fully ready and capable of marrying in the next 6 months
2. You are a virgin
3. You have the womanly characters that I need

badt guy grin grin
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Nobody: 2:19pm On Sep 27, 2015
Stanleyafam:
Bro the good part is, she'll forever respect you, but it's sad, I mean she left som1 who respects her for another she barely knows..

God has seen ur kind act and he will bring to u som1 that will head in the same direction as u, be patient, that's how life is..

Someone she barely knows? I wouldn't be suprised if 1)she's a fake virgin
2)she's been sleeping with the dude she's marrying because she actually loves him & only using the OP as her gullible cash cow.

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Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Nobody: 2:20pm On Sep 27, 2015
avasweet:
Wow shocked shocked......I don't knw wat to say....am so so soooorrry... cry
Hello cheesy
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Nobody: 2:22pm On Sep 27, 2015
quiinnBee:

Hello cheesy

Hi smiley
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by sparcolette: 2:22pm On Sep 27, 2015
Some girls sha
My dear"move on" is d word
Shits do happen, buh in all,Life goes on..
It hurts yeah,its nt gona be easy getting past this
Buh u hv to try,see it as one of those dark sides of life

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Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by niggi4life(m): 2:22pm On Sep 27, 2015
grin Sleeping Tablet NEWS the news was mixed with Cypron and Super Apetti hahahahahahaha
On a more serious note you have to move on with ur life,.
Thank God u didnt get the news while u were driving grin

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Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Nobody: 2:22pm On Sep 27, 2015
This just goes to show you that Mother Nature is bleeped up!!! Some girls need a guy like you in their lives buh instead they get someone like vizkizgringringringrin no offence o, I'm just a troublemaker

But you sef, you bee Mumu+Maga+Jona Braverycheesy

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Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Nobody: 2:24pm On Sep 27, 2015
some girls are mean sha angry if it was a guy that did this to a girl now, we wont hear word.

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