hey gusys,i dont know about this and thats why i want to know, i have this boy that i love so much.he loves me too but i think he is a jealous guy.he askes me a question whenever he sees me talk with another guy.i told him that he is jealous and he admitted.he said that he is building his life around me and that he wants to know what i discuss with other boys, what do you people think i am passing through.

girl any man who says he is building his life around you and is jealous is like whitney on drugs.

it seems like He really likes u, then u shuld be faithful too. U never no u mite get married lol

all of da above, be alert, jealous or no jealous, trust is da ultimate, cuz his life involves around u doesn't mean u shouldn't befriend males, abeg tell da guy 2 go siddon

HEY guys,why is it that whenever a topic is posted,some of us tries to compare it with either what they do or what they wish to do.

(girl any man who says he is building his life around you and is jealous is like whitney on drugs.)@coco29,YOU fanatics believe that you are civilized beyond doubt,but peole like yo cry at the end of time.

(The guy is up to something. It is probable that he is doing something behind your back, that is why he gets scared when he sees you talking to other boys. He thinks you are doing the same thing he is doing. Reverse psychology)@naijacutee, its people like you that believes they are so good in getting away with whatever they do.Quick to judge and quick to blame people without much knowledge of either the person or the topic.now you are trying to come up with a theory of the fact that anyone who is jealous is a cheater, beware.
my advice is as follows, ,there is nothing too bad in being jealous, God himself is jealous,

SAM MILLA:

there is nothing too bad in being jealous, God himself is jealous,

Hmmm it depends on the type of jealousy oh . Of course I agree that there's nothing too bad in being jealous, I myself won't stand around and act like everything is ok if I see my man doing something untoward with any woman 

However when it comes down to it, jealousy pass jealousy. If my man begins to monitor my every conversation with the opposite sex and ask me one-and-a-half million questions _{ok i was exaggerating a little} each time he sees me chatting with another guy, then i'll probably start to choke _{and might eventually run away from home}. At least he should exhibit a little trust in me now 

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If he truly monitors your every conversation with the opposite sex, then I think he's insecure. It might probably be due to a previous experience (perhaps a previous heart break) or he's just basically that way. If you can handle it, then assure him from time to time of your love for and commitment to him, and make sure you demonstrate that too by making time for him and giving him priority in all things  .  However, if it's one of those cases of chronic insecurity, I'll say you should run for your life 'because a guy like that will stalk the hell out of you if you marry him _{and probably choke you to death as well}

talk to him bout that and make him see that despite the fact that u talk to other guys, it don't mean nuthin.

jealous guys can be very mean and possessive tho!

if your boy friend or husband is loves you very much and doesnt trust , is it wrong for him to be possesive.

don't let anyone decieve you,you better run a 1000m from a jealous guy oh!

lol jokazz ;d