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5 Unfair Request To Ask From Your Partner. by floblaq28(f): 1:04pm On Sep 28, 2015
We all love to feel like we have a certain
amount of control over our partners, but
exerting that control negatively could breed
resentment overtime
Relationships are filled with compromises, but
sometimes we could cross that fine line
between compromise and selfishness. Asking
your partner to do something for you out of
sheer selfishness isn't fair to them.
We all love to feel like we have a certain
amount of control over our partners, but
exerting that control negatively could breed
resentment overtime.
According to All Women Stalk , here are some
things that would be unfair to ask of your
partner:
1. Stop being close friends: Unless you have a
concrete reason, there's absolutely no need to
ask your partner to stop being friends with a
female or male pal. Sometimes your jealousy
could get in the way of you thinking clearly. But
in situations where you are constantly being
attacked by your partner's friend, then it's okay
to go ahead with your request.

2. Change looks : This includes asking them to
lose weight. You liked your partner that way
which was why you agreed to enter into a
relationship in the first place, so why trying to
change them to suit yourself? Unless they seek
your opinion, let your partner be if they are
comfortable with their looks.
3. Reduce time spent with family: If your
partner comes from a big family, pulling them
away will be like pulling out teeth. Telling your
partner to spend less time with their parents
and siblings is quite unfair and could gather up
ill feelings.

4. Resign from their jobs: You shouldn't ask
your partner to resign from their job knowing
that they really happy where they are. It's really
hard to find people who have passion for what
they do, which is why asking them to quit would
be really unfair on your part.
5. Tag you along every time: No matter how
close you two have become, a little 'me' time is
required for the survival of your relationship.
Smothering your partner with your presence is
not acceptable.
Re: 5 Unfair Request To Ask From Your Partner. by Truckpusher(m): 1:09pm On Sep 28, 2015
Op

Re: 5 Unfair Request To Ask From Your Partner. by donTbone(m): 1:12pm On Sep 28, 2015
Hunhun hunhun hunhun!

you can make request on 2 3 and 4 depending!
for 2, she/he really needs to look good for the partner mehn...so, why wont you change look..

3, just reduce not leave them patapata na! besides, who is gonna av a fruitful relationship and still cling with families. Besides, phone calls can make it less stressful

4, depends! if the work has negative influence or the income isn't steady, oh boy, there is a need to change o!

#justMakingCommonSense
Re: 5 Unfair Request To Ask From Your Partner. by funlord(m): 1:15pm On Sep 28, 2015
grin
floblaq28:

We all love to feel like we have a certain
amount of control over our partners, but
exerting that control negatively could breed
resentment overtime
Relationships are filled with compromises, but
sometimes we could cross that fine line
between compromise and selfishness. Asking
your partner to do something for you out of
sheer selfishness isn't fair to them.
We all love to feel like we have a certain
amount of control over our partners, but
exerting that control negatively could breed
resentment overtime.
"ACCORDING TO ALL WOMEN STALK" , here are some
things that would be unfair to ask of your
partner:
1. Stop being close friends: Unless you have a
concrete reason, there's absolutely no need to
ask your partner to stop being friends with a
female or male pal. Sometimes your jealousy
could get in the way of you thinking clearly. But
in situations where you are constantly being
attacked by your partner's friend, then it's okay
to go ahead with your request.

2. Change looks : This includes asking them to
lose weight. You liked your partner that way
which was why you agreed to enter into a
relationship in the first place, so why trying to
change them to suit yourself? Unless they seek
your opinion, let your partner be if they are
comfortable with their looks.
3. Reduce time spent with family: If your
partner comes from a big family, pulling them
away will be like pulling out teeth. Telling your
partner to spend less time with their parents
and siblings is quite unfair and could gather up
ill feelings.

4. Resign from their jobs: You shouldn't ask
your partner to resign from their job knowing
that they really happy where they are. It's really
hard to find people who have passion for what
they do, which is why asking them to quit would
be really unfair on your part.
5. Tag you along every time: No matter how
close you two have become, a little 'me' time is
required for the survival of your relationship.
Smothering your partner with your presence is
not acceptable.

So you like sharing advice from a website called "all women stalk?" It seems you plan to remain single for a long time smally!
Re: 5 Unfair Request To Ask From Your Partner. by mikolo80: 4:13pm On Sep 28, 2015
floblaq28:

We all love to feel like we have a certain
amount of control over our partners, but
exerting that control negatively could breed
resentment overtime
Relationships are filled with compromises, but
sometimes we could cross that fine line
between compromise and selfishness. Asking
your partner to do something for you out of
sheer selfishness isn't fair to them.
We all love to feel like we have a certain
amount of control over our partners, but
exerting that control negatively could breed
resentment overtime.
According to All Women Stalk , here are some
things that would be unfair to ask of your
partner:
1. Stop being close friends: Unless you have a
concrete reason, there's absolutely no need to
ask your partner to stop being friends with a
female or male pal. Sometimes your jealousy
could get in the way of you thinking clearly. But
in situations where you are constantly being
attacked by your partner's friend, then it's okay
to go ahead with your request.

2. Change looks : This includes asking them to
lose weight. You liked your partner that way
which was why you agreed to enter into a
relationship in the first place, so why trying to
change them to suit yourself? Unless they seek
your opinion, let your partner be if they are
comfortable with their looks.
3. Reduce time spent with family: If your
partner comes from a big family, pulling them
away will be like pulling out teeth. Telling your
partner to spend less time with their parents
and siblings is quite unfair and could gather up
ill feelings.

4. Resign from their jobs: You shouldn't ask
your partner to resign from their job knowing
that they really happy where they are. It's really
hard to find people who have passion for what
they do, which is why asking them to quit would
be really unfair on your part.
5. Tag you along every time: No matter how
close you two have become, a little 'me' time is
required for the survival of your relationship.
Smothering your partner with your presence is
not acceptable.
no. 2 if i marry you at 200 lbs and you blow up to 300lbs
i think its reasonable to ask you to revert to at least 220ls
methinks

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