Nipple:
Mo wish ara mi the same or better.

I'm not a many words person so I'm not sure how much I can tell except I'm asked. I do better talking than writing. So this is me 28,single,working a job I don't like, away from my family, anticipating a lonely Christmas.
Did I say I pushed my friends away? Errm, not really. They all got married and had kids and there was less and less things to talk about. You can tell already that I'm at that age everyone expects you to be settled or about to and that's the only discussion they want to have with you when they see you. So, I've stayed away from friends and relatives. you won't blame me if you were me. Now, I have just withdrawn into myself. I know it's not very healthy but I can't help it much.

Ilaje44:


Bawo ni? Kaabo!

I am sorry if family and peer pressure is making you to cut ties with families and friends. I understand Nigerians can be quite nosy and drive one to madness with their when are you getting married?, go and marry attitudes. Some do it innocently, and with the best intention, while some other just wanna torment you. Nevertheless, I do not think the best way of handling the situation is to isolate yourself. You will be compounding the situation by so doing. Hence, if people ask you such questions, the best you can do is smile, and tell 'em God's time is the best.

I hope fortune will smile upon you, and you will find your very own "ideri" pretty soon.
Since heaven only helps those who helped themselves, I would encourage you to try to put smiles on your face, and never let the situation take charge of you.

Nipple:
Thank you for your kind words words. I'm struggling to read your dialect. You write it so deeply.

If you wanna learn Ilaje, aunti FourFunmi would be a great help . Try to get her attention . Which Yoruba dialect do you speak/understand (Ibadan, Egba, Ijebu...)?

Oya, you can set the ignition with this:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y6y_4_b6RS8

Ilaje44:


If you wanna learn Ilaje, aunti FourFunmi would be a great help . Try to get her attention . Which Yoruba dialect do you speak/understand (Ibadan, Egba, Ijebu...)?

Oya, you can set the ignition with this:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y6y_4_b6RS8

Nipple:
lol. I'll pass o until I perfect my Ondo.

udysweet:
Chai dis magneto,ur own sef wan pass bronzy own o,loool!
@bisjosh,been a while,glad to see u here.
@ilaje44,ekabo sir,glad to hav u here and to also see that uav settled in fully.
Choix007,harmatan not dat bad in lag as is every were else,but d thin is still hooking us sha,lol! Aaawww,dnt mind @missbronze dat ddnt matchmake u,dis match maker come and finish ya work,mbok,lol!
@fourfunmi,dis una language ,me no undertsnad o,is it ijebu language?
Halexito d poet,d loverboy,d diehard romantic,lol! How u today dear?
@DDshow,love nwantintin,@fourfunmi must be blushing to high heavens,pls let d wedding bells ring fast jo*winks*
Oga patapata,oga to sure ju,awon olori oko general one of gbo gbo every,hahaha. Make una guess who I wan hail so? Who else if not @Toks2008,hahah(he go kill me)
How are u sir,hope ur gud.
@tollyB tnx dear for d mentions
@alabakunlekam,welcome.
@vivaciousvivi,how re u sis?hop ur doin fine now?*hugs*
@klassik,na once a green moon u dey show now abi?abg come post jo,lol
Aight guys,enjoy d rest of ur weekend,hugs

Ilaje44:


I guess you must be from the Ekiti kete/Ondo egi angle then?

siamia:
Gdmrn peeps, fine guys and babes of 30plus and singles thread. Happy sunday to u all. How was ur weekend? Hope it was cool?
I had a busy weekend. The whatsapp chat for this thread had a very successful party yestdy. It was the bomb. There were lots of handsome dudes and beautiful ladies in attendance. People came from different parts of the country, one or two flew in from outside the country. It truly showed their commitment to the vision of the chat, and their seriousness to the biz of finding a life partner. The dresscode was casual chic/casual dude. It began from 12noon till mama calls. There was surplus food and lots to drink. We were all like a family. U can imagine when a group of people have been chatting since october 6th, and finally meet for the first time after 3mths of relating online! There were sparks in the air! Friendships were formed, relationships made and engagements announced. I tell u, it wasn't only the sound of jingle bells I was hearing! I cud hear the toll of wedding bells! Yay!
For those who are wondering, the whatsapp chat is the baby of this thread and is meant for serious 30plus ladies and gents who want to go to the next level. The chat is responsible, as secure as can be, and operates under a controlled environment of love, respect and fun. If u like what am doing on this thread, then u shd be a part of this chat.
I am glad to announce that in january, the whatsapp chat for 30plus and single is officially entering Season 2.
For all those who asked to be added and were told to hold on till Season 1 wrapped up with this gtg, I thank u for ur patience. I'll be sending u a msg this week.
If ur single and searching, if ur tired of trial and error online, if uve been hurt too many times, or fallen into the hands of 'one chance babes/dudes', if u just want to meet that serious guy/girl and ur 30+ hit me up on 08180632132.
Note: I've had requests from 19yr olds. I've had requests from married men who are looking for 'friends with/out benefits'. Pls, before u apply, scroll up and read again. Like I always say, if ur panda, don't shop for gold. They just don't mix! Phone line is open. Send me a txt, whatsapp or call, and I'll add u!
Have a good week ahead! Muahhh

Odunharry:

Ilaje aiye mafuge

siamia:
Gdmrn peeps, fine guys and babes of 30plus and singles thread. Happy sunday to u all. How was ur weekend? Hope it was cool?
I had a busy weekend. The whatsapp chat for this thread had a very successful party yestdy. It was the bomb. There were lots of handsome dudes and beautiful ladies in attendance. People came from different parts of the country, one or two flew in from outside the country. It truly showed their commitment to the vision of the chat, and their seriousness to the biz of finding a life partner. The dresscode was casual chic/casual dude. It began from 12noon till mama calls. There was surplus food and lots to drink. We were all like a family. U can imagine when a group of people have been chatting since october 6th, and finally meet for the first time after 3mths of relating online! There were sparks in the air! Friendships were formed, relationships made and engagements announced. I tell u, it wasn't only the sound of jingle bells I was hearing! I cud hear the toll of wedding bells! Yay!
For those who are wondering, the whatsapp chat is the baby of this thread and is meant for serious 30plus ladies and gents who want to go to the next level. The chat is responsible, as secure as can be, and operates under a controlled environment of love, respect and fun. If u like what am doing on this thread, then u shd be a part of this chat.
I am glad to announce that in january, the whatsapp chat for 30plus and single is officially entering Season 2.
For all those who asked to be added and were told to hold on till Season 1 wrapped up with this gtg, I thank u for ur patience. I'll be sending u a msg this week.
If ur single and searching, if ur tired of trial and error online, if uve been hurt too many times, or fallen into the hands of 'one chance babes/dudes', if u just want to meet that serious guy/girl and ur 30+ hit me up on 08180632132.
Note: I've had requests from 19yr olds. I've had requests from married men who are looking for 'friends with/out benefits'. Pls, before u apply, scroll up and read again. Like I always say, if ur panda, don't shop for gold. They just don't mix! Phone line is open. Send me a txt, whatsapp or call, and I'll add u!
Have a good week ahead! Muahhh

fourfunmi:
Awa yeye, broda mi

udysweet:
Chai dis magneto,ur own sef wan pass bronzy own o,loool!
@bisjosh,been a while,glad to see u here.
@ilaje44,ekabo sir,glad to hav u here and to also see that uav settled in fully.
Choix007,harmatan not dat bad in lag as is every were else,but d thin is still hooking us sha,lol! Aaawww,dnt mind @missbronze dat ddnt matchmake u,dis match maker come and finish ya work,mbok,lol!
@fourfunmi,dis una language ,me no undertsnad o,is it ijebu language?
Halexito d poet,d loverboy,d diehard romantic,lol! How u today dear?
@DDshow,love nwantintin,@fourfunmi must be blushing to high heavens,pls let d wedding bells ring fast jo*winks*
Oga patapata,oga to sure ju,awon olori oko general one of gbo gbo every,hahaha. Make una guess who I wan hail so? Who else if not @Toks2008,hahah(he go kill me)
How are u sir,hope ur gud.
@tollyB tnx dear for d mentions
@alabakunlekam,welcome.
@vivaciousvivi,how re u sis?hop ur doin fine now?*hugs*
@klassik,na once a green moon u dey show now abi?abg come post jo,lol
Aight guys,enjoy d rest of ur weekend,hugs

Ilaje44:


Udy, o se jare!
Magneto, if you sweet like agbalumo, I am afraid you're in danger. These lips I am seeing are made to eat the sweetest agbalumo on earth. If I were you, I would start saving for the dowry already!

Here are some songz you can play for herwhile treating her to the delicious Okpa in Enugu:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2j-q_dM-3MM


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p1s2CG2ZDS4


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B8FTyEdLjqA

halexito:
Bademosi Aanu Omotayo
DO YOU KNOW THIS ABOUT DATING
It's NOT about being engaged, married, or in any
relationship. It's about being secured, happy, safe,
relieved, and feeling good....It's about having a
peaceful state of mind. It's about sleeping at night
without the fear of losing what you've got. It's
about being yourself and not someone else.
It's about feeling loved, happy, respected,
understood and appreciated. It's all about the right
person and the right time.
•
Sleeping alone is better than sharing your BED
with someone who shares a BED with someone
else when you're not around...!
•
Cheating doesn't mean you have to kiss, meet or
have sex with a third party. Once you find yourself
deleting texts and e-mails so your partner wont
see them, you are already there.
•
1. If a man is crazy about you, pray he doesn't
get well, if he is getting well, know that another
woman is giving him some tablets.
•First love may not die, but true love can bury it.
•If you still believe "LOVE IS BLIND" then i know
for sure MARRIAGE WILL OPEN IT FOR YOU.
•A woman's beautiful face attracts a flirt; A
woman's beautiful heart attracts a lover; A
woman's beautiful character attracts a man.
•Don't fall in love because you are lonely, fall in
love because you are ready.
•A blessed garri is better than a cursed fried rice.
A Godly Poor Man is far better than an Angry Rich
Man in marriage.
•I will rather have you stay in your father's house
that you are sure of, than pack into a man's house
you are not sure of.
•Most men base their capacity of manhood and
their abilities to fertilize ovaries and produce
children. Any man can impregnates a woman. The
real deal is HOW MANY MEN CAN BE THE FATHER
TO THEIR CHILDREN, not promoters of ABORTION?
•HOLY Wives don't just speak in tongues, they
MANAGE their homes, make SUPER meals, raise
GODLY kids, and bring out the KING in their man.
•When you tend to your garden diligently you will
be the one to reap the fruit of the vine thereof....
•
You can say "sorry" a million times, say "I love
you" as much as you want, say whatever you
want,
But if you're not going to prove that the things
you say are true, then don't say anything at all.
Because if you can't show it, your words don’t
mean a thing.
Don't lie in order to satisfy somebody for a
moment, because the pain that you cause them in
the future can last them for a lifetime.
- Fb.

siamia:
Ref: www.nairaland.com/2812932/fatal-accident-along-benin-highwayscores

May God give the families of these departed ones the grace and strength to bear this unspeakable loss. Unfortunately, in the world we live in, bad things happen. The unexpected, the unplanned and the unforeseen sometimes happen.
I pray that as we mark christmas, let's realise that life is a precious gift. Make ur life have meaning. Live right, live well. As u go out this week, make urself a blessing to someone who cannot repay u. Be nice to someone. Say a kind word to someone. Show forgiveness to someone who hurt u, even when they do not return to say thank u, keep bein good, bcs that's who u are. Its not how many years u spend on earth; its how u live it...its all about putting value to the days that God has given u. So that, when ur own time comes, ur life will be celebrated, and not regretted.
We the people of 30plus and single, stand with these families in their moment of grief. May God console you all. May God see you through this trying times. He may not answer all ur questions, but He will surely stand with you. It is well.

magneto:


Hehehe udypeperempe, how I go do na? U knw say na soso totori ur mata jus dey totori me so... . Do come abeg, I go keep one warehouse of okpa for u only.

siamia:
Torqque, oya cut and chop....

udysweet:
Hahahaha! Chai,NL o,making me happy since july 2013!
@missbronze bia dis my nwannem nwanyi,pls be sure to be present to offer toast on our wedding day o,when magneto finally magnets udysweet(abi no b u matchmake us ni,lol)
@ilaje44,u and magneto don join dis "lips" issue ni. I tot d mata had died dwn o,was a hot topic for a while b4 u guys joined,now una do re awaken am,lol! Mak I go remove dat dp mbok,lol(by d way I filteredt it o)
@ilaje44,pls sir are u into music?I see a lot of music videos links,u seem to hav a sizeable collections churning out wats best for each scenario. Abg find one to describe my mood now mbok. Apologies also,I hv noticed d "ilaje" in ur name,so now I knw d lang u and @fourfunmi converse in. But I think "ilaje" is found in almost all d riverine areas in naija abi? I might be wrong o.
@halexito,loverboy extraordinaire,lol! Nice write up dear.
@bisjosh,am fine dear. How did your day go?
@all(honestly d list is growing I can't keep up wit names,make I no offend dos I fit forget to list,lol. But trust me I'll edit my list again)hope our day went well? And harmattan nko? Not much lik dat in lag but enof to mak me go abt wit hanky and tissue cos of dust and sneezing,lol!
@myminder,I called u out?lol! U dnt let go tins,do u?
Have a great nite.
One last one,magneto. So na only okpa u wan use mesmerize me? Oda o,kontinu,lol

My people, my people...I dey greet all of una special o! Shout out to the newbies in da house, xerum, Tip, talk2docee...y'all are warmly welcome.

I've been pondering on a particular matter for some time now, and I'd luv to get ur opinions on it... Between these two qualities "COMPATIBILITY" and "ADAPPTABILITY", which would u say is a more important quality in a potential mate and why??

Over to the house...

magneto:
My people, my people...I dey greet all of una special o! Shout out to the newbies in da house, xerum, nipple, talk2docee...y'all are warmly welcome.

I've been pondering on a particular matter for some time now, and I'd luv to get ur opinions on it... Between these two qualities "COMPATIBILITY" and "ADAPPTABILITY", which would u say is a more important quality in a potential mate and why??

Over to the house...

magneto:
My people, my people...I dey greet all of una special o! Shout out to the newbies in da house, xerum, nipple, talk2docee...y'all are warmly welcome.

I've been pondering on a particular matter for some time now, and I'd luv to get ur opinions on it... Between these two qualities "COMPATIBILITY" and "ADAPPTABILITY", which would u say is a more important quality in a potential mate and why??

Over to the house...