Beauty if she's gonna win miss World. Manners if I think of a Golden Jubilee!!!

@op, marry that school cert holder. u can ugrade her academically. beauty iz nt what u c outside bt its inside. I love beautiful galz so much bt if she has gat no good manner, even if shes beautiful than beauty I cant marry such lady

Marry beauty,

When u sre down, big men will help u teach her manner by paying her to sleep with her.

Marry Love!!

Both re highly needed

THE COMING GENERATION SCARES ME...REAL HARD! While we have been busy talking about Nigeria of today, I wonder if we have spared a thought about how this country will be in the next TWENTY-FIVE years. On October 1, 1979,when Alhaji Shehu Usman Aliyu Shagari was sworn-in as
President, Goodluck Jonathan was just a 22-year old undergraduate of University of Port-Harcourt. Shagari was 54 years old. Ayo Fayose was 19 years old. Bukola Saraki was 17. Yemi Osinbajo was 22. The generation of the likes of Shagari, Richard Akinjide, Adisa Akinloye, Sabo Bakin Zuwo,Ifeanyi Nwobodo, Ume Ezeoke, Akin Omoboriowo, Olusola
Saraki, Sunday Awoniyi,Garba Nadama, Awal Ibrahim and so on have gone for good! Some of us in our 20s and 30s, when in school, either in the university or secondary school, had lofty dreams, both personal and societal. We were always motivated by nationalists and inventors who had impacted positively on the cause of humanity. We were voracious readers of novels and other books. Nelkon for our Ordinary Level Physics, Lambert for Chemistry, B.O ADELEKE and Goh ChengLeong for our Geography, Phebean Ogundipe for Practical English and others like that. We were always flaunting our knowledge of current affairs. Inter- school quiz competition was the in-thing.Fast forward 35 years on and you are shocked and disturbed. Have you ever spoken to or engaged a 20 year-old boy? Ask him what motivates him and he is likely to mention music,hip hop to be precise. He has hundreds of downloaded songs on his phone. He can sing all of them off hand. He knows all the singles of Nice,Neato C, Timaya, Davido, Whiz Kid off had. But he does not know anything about history of nationalism in the country. Ideas about good society, responsible family and good conduct do not motivate him. He just wants to make money because his friend who does yahoo is rich and rides a good car, an SUV! The things that interest him are things that do not add value. He has google but never uses it for advancement of knowledge but to download porn and other inanities. Yet, in TWENTY years time, they are the ones that will be contesting to become Governors, Senators,Reps Members and even President. They belong to a generation that does not care about morality. They belong to a generation that is motivated only by money and it's acquisition. By 2035 to 2040, they will be our Senators,Reps, Governors and so on. I wonder if we have ever spared a thought how this country will look like under them. I told a man recently and these are my words: IF A GUY WHO IS IN LAGOS COULD USE FALSE PRETENCE TO OBTAIN $20,000 FROM SOMEONE IN UNITED STATES, WHAT DO YOU THINK WILL HAPPEN IF SUCH A GUY BECOMES A STATE GOVERNOR AND IS IN CHARGE OF AN ALLOCATION HE DOES NOT EVEN HAVE TO OBTAIN UNDER FALSE PRETENCE? WHICH HIS STATE IS STATUTORILY ENTITLED TO. I am worried, deeply worried. Are You? Forwarded as received from a friend.

It doesn't have to be one or the other


you can get the whole package in one person

bestestgirl:
So the cleaning she does is what makes you notice her more Bulletin for you; we girls have mastered the art of pretence.
If a clean house and freshly laundered clothes sway you that much, hire a housekeeper/cook and buy a washing machine, then marry your beautiful, well educated, grammar controller and enjoy the best of both worlds.

PS. The educated girl is not necessarily bad mannered, she just might surprise you after marriage

u r ryt but still wrong.

its simple.educate d gal wit manners...

vizkiz:
just because she's gat good attitude doesn't mean I should marry a vulture

hmm...and pray ur "queen" because of lack of manners doesnt treat u like a vulture!

Both

Manner jare!!! Beside beauty is in the eye of the beholder

All I see is.........

One is a career lady


One is a house wife.


The choice is yours.

In my time, I went for beauty first and God added manners, command of grammar, graduate, etc. for me.

beauty, then teach her manners or manners, then bleach and do plastic surgeries...


even me sef still dey think

just like i always say

you cannot fail waec and enter University

so for me to notice that your good character at least you must be average

haba don't you pity your female kids? abi you want them to resemble vulture

The only thing i want to comment on is dat

















you nigg*a is dirty....keep your room neat, wash your plates and kip your floor clean! If you need house help, get one, if you need wife get one, dont confuse both as the same!

If you realy want to be sure of the educated lady let her know her dark side.like what you like and what u don't like.if she realy cares, she'll change.most ladies don't believe all what you're saying.if not,you can try the skul cert girl if she's worth it and if you've got the money to upgrade her.

both is needed @least she should b on d average on both.......iz jst lik hvin F9 in english and A1 in maths

ksbusari:
Marry the lady wit d secondary schl cert and ur friends and families brand her uneducated, Half educated and all sort of names especially when she misbehaves.
Marry d educated girl and she would also receive d comment dat education does nt pass tru her when she misbehaves too. I was in situation One tym. Pray to God for guidance. Bt i would choose, i prefer the educated girl cos if u choose the other, u will av to explain to a lot of pple.

na big wah for you oh! Is he getting married for ppl or for himself? Tell me one thing you'll do and please everybody? Bro marry d uneducated girl n get her educated. Education is an acquisition n not inborn.she has shown to u her natural good attitude which carefulness n caring is included n I think thats wat a man needs for a wife. All d attributes d educated one has d uneducated one can get too but d ones d uneducated one have d educated one can't get it because its not in her foundation. REMEMBER THAT YOU NEED A GUN IF YOUR WIFE TOO FINE.

Manners jare! Beauty is in the eye if the beholder

d skool cert. lady in question can be pretending u knw till after she say i do bfr u knw her tru color. d graduate might not knw d right tin to do u knw try n tell her what u expects frm her den expect change if indeed she does not knw wat to do and if otherwise ghen ghen.

CindyeMerAld:
its simple.educate d gal wit manners...

Nope it's easier to love-vendor a girl to be beautiful than to reverse a girl's attitude

There are things money can buy and there also things money can't buy. Your money, care and love can make the difference with the school cert. Lady. Be it education, beauty or whatever

I have a lecturer who used to say this.."find an agreeable girl and groom her to ur taste"..If u're thinking marriage,it's best yhu settle with sb that's respectable nd can manage ur home properly.. Ur home front needs to be comfortable nd stable for u to have peace of mind nd continue making adequate plans for the future.....the school cert girl seems to be the one for this.
But u also didn't mention how long u've known either of these ladies..Are u dating any of them?.. The educated lady might not be doing certain things 4 u bcoz she feels she owes u no obligation...nd not because she lacks d foresight or capability to do these things....There might be more to discover with time nd revealed intentions...Beauty nd education are essential bonuses...Sort out ur feelings too.
Ur attraction to this lady might jex be bcoz ov her beauty nd seeming command of the English language......U just need more time to understudy these two women...Ur school cert girl might as well just be trying 2 desperately work her way in2 ur heart...










#Philosopher Quëën#

You're right!

vizkiz:
just because she's gat good attitude doesn't mean I should marry a vulture

you didn't get his point obviously, he didn't say she was ugly

Research shows that couples with similar educational background and economic prospect stay longer in marriage. On the other hand, the well mannered lady may be pretending while the other is not. The one I think you should go for is the one with education. She is confident, a goal getter, ambitious and feel she's the best. My problem with you is that you may be feeling threatened by the lady success. Guys like you have such African mentality and a low self esteem. You would rather prefer a girl you can control, thinking that she's well mannered. Not knowing she's pretending to keep a home. Research shows that children whose parents are equally educated show more prospect of success than otherwise. Think twice and escape from the 18th century precolonial mind set that u still possess.

If you like fine pass beyonce and Nicki minaj put together if you are mannerless.....................................................F.UCK YOU!

Is it every question that comes out of people's head that they will ask? Marry both

My brother beauty is nothing without character.i advice you to pray and seek God for directive