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Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by DjAndroid: 8:50am On Oct 02, 2015
I recently relocated to Lagos on transfer and got a two bedroom apartment around Merryland.

There is this my cousin who joined me two months ago to study at the Open University. I decided to give her one room in my apartment since I am not married yet.

To cut the story short, I just discovered that she is a lesbian. A very serious lesbian who toasts other girls including married women. But this girl is not up to 25years.
She brings girls/women to my house for sexual escapades.

At first I thought they are just ordinary friends, it was later that I discovered what they do.

I thought of talking to her about it but when I found out she is the "man" not the "womam", (she is the man that chases after the girls), then I knew that my advice to her will never work.

I talked to one of my friends, he said that my personal prayers will never cross my ceiling since I am in a house where abomination is being committed.

If I send her away, where will she go? If I talk to her about it, it will be pouring water on a stone, she will never stop.

Please people, a good advice is urgently needed as I don't want this atrocity to continue in my house.

NB. For your judgement, me and this girl are blood-related.

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by Jimdonnet(m): 8:53am On Oct 02, 2015
talk to her if she doesn't yield throw her out.shebi she is a "man"

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by hadizadeezy(f): 8:55am On Oct 02, 2015
Jimdonnet:
talk to her if she doesn't yield throw her out.shebi she is a "man"
LOLzz

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by Nobody: 8:55am On Oct 02, 2015
tell her point blank you arent ok with it.then if she refuses she leaves you no choice than to send her away.

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by DjAndroid: 8:58am On Oct 02, 2015
Jimdonnet:
talk to her if she doesn't yield throw her out.shebi she is a "man"
If I throw her out, I will be tagged a wicked man by relatives. Remember I will not have the opportunity to tell everyone what she is doing.

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by gabinogem(m): 9:00am On Oct 02, 2015
It's even an illegal act... Confront her 1st, if she still continues, kick her out with ur left leg.

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by Ezenwa11(m): 9:00am On Oct 02, 2015
Pope Benedict must hear this ooooo, it's a very serious matter. Talk to her first and if she doesn't change, don't pity her, send her to where she belongs.

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by Masculity(m): 9:05am On Oct 02, 2015
Chase d marafucker jare. Evething you do people must complain so prepare for the worst.

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by freshcvvs: 9:13am On Oct 02, 2015
DjAndroid:

If I throw her out, I will be tagged a wicked man by relatives. Remember I will not have the opportunity to tell everyone what she is doing.

Whoever calls you wicked should go and ask her why you sent her out. It's your right to decide what happens within the house you pay rent on.

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by zinachidi(m): 9:14am On Oct 02, 2015
dis one is strong...


me, i will tell to do her thing, buh not in my house,. She can take her romance outside. Buh not under my roof, buh if she still decides to keep bringing in ladies, then u'd have to chase her away..

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by sweetsmiles: 9:16am On Oct 02, 2015
Talk 2 her, if ders no change, talk 2 a close elderly relative about it. If ders still no change, do d needful but never stop praying 4 her cos ur prayers can go a long way 2 help her realise herself. Don't see her as a right off yet. With God all things are possible.

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by AlPeter: 9:16am On Oct 02, 2015
Leave the young man, na. She got no where to go but be prepared to have angry husbands banging on your doors soon BTW you get girlfriends?

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by IamLEGEND1: 9:19am On Oct 02, 2015
c'mon bruh

she is family.

she might be doing something illegal but seems like she is keeping it on the down low.....

you on the other hand have already started going around telling other people about her rather than talk to her......

I don't even know which one of you is worse.

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by DjAndroid: 9:22am On Oct 02, 2015
AlPeter:
Leave the young man, na. She got no where to go but be prepared to have angry husbands banging on your doors soon BTW you get girlfriends?

Due to the nature of my work, my girl comes only on Sundays and she doesn't sleep over, she lives with her parents.

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by misspicy(f): 9:23am On Oct 02, 2015
Please pray for her,this evil called lesbianism has become a reality in our society,two girls cannot stay togeda dis days without the fear of them been lesbians,imagine a co female worker sending me love text the oda day...

Just tell her to take her acts outside ur house,if she refuse keep praying n counselling her,she is family,wat if she is ur daughter will u send her out?

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by therealdeal10: 9:27am On Oct 02, 2015
Since u 2 r related by blood av a very dip conversation wit her mk her c wat she's doing is very wrong, she b human being too wey knw say wetin she dey do is wrong. Try making her 2 stop dat act of lesbianism, it wnt b easy buh jst gv it a try

Buh if she insist which i hope she doesn't u can rent an apartment 4 her 2 do whatever she wants there

Gudluck

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by Nobody: 9:27am On Oct 02, 2015
She is already an addict, honestly there is close to nothing u cn do about it........

Jst try ur luck in talking to her or better still threaten to throw her house is she continues, dat way she will she take her game outside ur roof and play it somewhere else

But ur sis get mind ooo...bring gal cum ur house.... shocked shocked

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by AfricanApple(f): 10:24am On Oct 02, 2015
you have to start from somewhere by talking to her first. of course she can't stop all of a sudden you should understand that, its like alcohol and drug addicts, they don't stop all at once. as time goes on with her refusal to stop threaten to report her to the authority, beg her and tell her you would help her stop if she wish. don't throe her out, she is your sister and needs your help

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by Audray(f): 10:30am On Oct 02, 2015
i agree that what ur cousin did is wrong. IE. Bringing different women into yor house which is as annoying when males do it, toasting married women; bad. Well thing is throwing her out,cutting her off, avoiding her will not help. Talk to her about curbing her promiscuity. I mean if she were male would u throw him out? Nope. Why? Cos he's straight. And if she were to b dating different men,married and single alike, bringing to ur home. Would u throw her out? I dont think so. Just be SENSIBLE.

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by Atlantian: 11:27am On Oct 02, 2015
What is your business on how she uses her private part ?

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by Nobody: 11:28am On Oct 02, 2015
misspicy:
Please pray for her,this evil called lesbianism has become a reality in our society,two girls cannot stay togeda dis days without the fear of them been lesbians,imagine a co female worker sending me love text the oda day...

Just tell her to take her acts outside ur house,if she refuse keep praying n counselling her,she is family,wat if she is ur daughter will u send her out?
You were typing sense........ Until you mentioned your co-worker.
#No Offence Though.

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by Nobody: 11:29am On Oct 02, 2015
OP, Please Politely Send Her Away.

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by RedCard1(m): 11:36am On Oct 02, 2015
Abeg let the poor girl be.
She's doing no harm to you.
Does her partners steal from you? If no, then why the panic.
Rock whatever suits you. #Live and let's live.

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by Exponental(m): 11:37am On Oct 02, 2015
hit the nail on the head. tell her what you don't want in your house. if she's OK with it, she will stay, if not politely ask her to leave.

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by ahckmedkosy(m): 11:43am On Oct 02, 2015
You should probably ask her to go for counseling n re-orientation. Please mind you my working hours is 24hrs and you pay when I have sucksexfully corrected this error in her mind.
Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by Nobody: 11:43am On Oct 02, 2015
GIVE ME HER NUMBER. I WILL FORK HER BACK TO HER SENSES

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by 69MissedCalls(m): 11:43am On Oct 02, 2015
spiritual solutuon: call your pastor.

personal solution: be a man and tell her u don't like the fact that she brings strangers to the house because not everyone she brings is a normal person. something bad may happen one day. if she wanna do her stuff tell her to be doing it in a hotel

btw u are running a mini brothel. it is well grin

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by mowah: 11:43am On Oct 02, 2015
Remember lesbians have Human rights too

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by kelvyn7(m): 11:44am On Oct 02, 2015
shocked

is ejection the solution

U dnt cut off the head because u wanna stop a headache wink

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by free2ryhme: 11:44am On Oct 02, 2015
According to the Bible, being a lesbian is just as sinful as being a homosexual male.

Lesbianism is evidence of people being given over to “the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another.

since you have concluded no amount of counsel will stop her habit. Pls do the needful so you don't mess up your life and destiny with demons associated with such acts

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Re: Should I Eject My Lesbian Cousin From My House? by tonychristopher: 11:44am On Oct 02, 2015
send her to me let me convert her...hope she is pretty, I hv converted many before..her case na moi moi

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