netizenbuzz:
I used to be an ardent reader of NL though I signed up officially last year. However, over the past couple of months, I have been disgusted by the ignorance, lack of empathy, chauvinistic and misogynistic behaviors displayed by the guys here to the ladies. This has kept me away from being active for some time now. Everyday on the front page, you must find not less than 3 topics on what a lady should or shouldn't do, blah blah blah. These topics are bait topics for views and I think the moderators know this. But is it really necessary for you to be gender-biased just so you can get more clicks? These has even turned into cyber-bullying. How do you think it is fair to female folks to be constantly reminded that they are nothing but objects of gratification that need validation from men in everything they do? You can't even come here just for the fun of social media again, your spirits are constantly brought down by comments here. This is really no different from racism if you ask me. We know it's a man's world. We are not competing with you. We just want to be loved, treated fairly and respected as humans first. It is that basic. Women don't owe men anything and vice-versa. No one created the other so none should feel entitled or superior. Our differences should be our strengths and not a room for oppression. Please NL guys, please learn a form of decency and decorum in your use of language towards ladies. Yo have mothers and don't forget that you'd have daughters too one day.

Lastly, the misconception that feminists are man-haters is a lie. Please don't make us one. It is easier to hate than too love but we are not cowards, hence we wold choose to do the other. Just know this, whether you like it or not, feminism has come to stay. You can choose to fight it or embrace it. We are not here to compete with you, so don't feel threatened. I hope this actually speaks to someone. Peace!!

ronald4lif:


You are confuse. The bolded phrase are contradicting and discredit your message. Figure it out.

Vinshu:


Finally something that is not "10 things a lady should do..." "top ten things Nigerian ladies do..." etc...

God Bless you op.

But it is not a man's world. Point of correction but well said.

Feminism has come to stay! Let them spew their trash on the front page. It changes nothing!

netizenbuzz:
I used to be an ardent reader of NL though I signed up officially last year. However, over the past couple of months, I have been disgusted by the ignorance, lack of empathy, chauvinistic and misogynistic behaviors displayed by the guys here to the ladies. This has kept me away from being active for some time now. Everyday on the front page, you must find not less than 3 topics on what a lady should or shouldn't do, blah blah blah. These topics are bait topics for views and I think the moderators know this. But is it really necessary for you to be gender-biased just so you can get more clicks? These has even turned into cyber-bullying. How do you think it is fair to female folks to be constantly reminded that they are nothing but objects of gratification that need validation from men in everything they do? You can't even come here just for the fun of social media again, your spirits are constantly brought down by comments here. This is really no different from racism if you ask me. We know it's a man's world. We are not competing with you. We just want to be loved, treated fairly and respected as humans first. It is that basic. Women don't owe men anything and vice-versa. No one created the other so none should feel entitled or superior. Our differences should be our strengths and not a room for oppression. Please NL guys, please learn a form of decency and decorum in your use of language towards ladies. Yo have mothers and don't forget that you'd have daughters too one day.

Lastly, the misconception that feminists are man-haters is a lie. Please don't make us one. It is easier to hate than too love but we are not cowards, hence we wold choose to do the other. Just know this, whether you like it or not, feminism has come to stay. You can choose to fight it or embrace it. We are not here to compete with you, so don't feel threatened. I hope this actually speaks to someone. Peace!!

netizenbuzz:


I just said it's a man's world to boost their ego lol

Vinshu:


Finally something that is not "10 things a lady should do..." "top ten things Nigerian ladies do..." etc...

God Bless you op.

But it is not a man's world. Point of correction but well said.

Feminism has come to stay! Let them spew their trash on the front page. It changes nothing!

netizenbuzz:


No I'm not. I see no contradiction so please enlighten me.
Feminists are not here to compete with you. Being granted equal CHANCE is not the same as competition. It only means a fair playing ground. Get my drift?

STFUareyouGod:
one mumu spotted
Over to you TSOM

vizkiz:
I am not with the whole idea of "bashing" women but the truth hurts so much. And these guys creating those "bashing" threads are typing the basic truth!!

Most girls in Nigeria are pathetic and are a very bad image to the good responsible ladies! So you expect us to keep ass licking and praising them right

Nairaland is bigger than you dawg! If you are not ok with the way things are done here, just deactivate your account and buzz off!

STFUareyouGod:
Another space booked. Abeg who get gold circle? Just ran out of gold circles

Who you wan fcck?. Lemme guess?.. Pre********. I get Durex

ronald4lif:


How does saying its a man's world and wanting equal chance correspond? If you conform to the idea that it's a man's world then it means you're admitting men are superior which defeats any chance of an equal chance.

It's either you're a pseudo feminist or a newbie to the crew. All feminist would dismiss the claim of it's a man's world. You speak from both sides of your mouth, sorry.

netizenbuzz:


you really didn't have to call me a dawg even if you don't agree with me

I aiint cursing you. Its just like saying "dude/guy"

STFUareyouGod:
Another space booked. Abeg who get gold circle? Just ran out of gold circles

netizenbuzz:


please read my other comments because it seems like the sarcasm is lost on you.

ronald4lif:


How does saying its a man's world and wanting equal chance correspond? If you conform to the idea that it's a man's world then it means you're admitting men are superior which defeats any chance of an equal chance.

It's either you're a pseudo feminist or a newbie to the crew. All feminist would dismiss the claim of it's a man's world. You speak from both sides of your mouth, sorry.

iAmCharis:
Easy man!

ronald4lif:


There was no sarcasm when you asserted it's a man's world. The comment was driven literally. Come off your high horse and admit your goofing you pseudo feminist.

Strahovski:


One fool spotted.

Vinshu:


Ego? Don't give them the slightest ego. They do not deserve it. Females are disrespected a lot on this forum. They hurl indirect insults, bashing and so on everyday. Most genuine ladies do not even visit the forum anymore so as not to have their day ruined with silly comments.