Holyfield1:
I met her 5 years ago through her brother who happened to be my mentor, We became friends and shared a lot of thoughts together, Just 3 months ago, I asked her out and she declined telling me ''We're just friends'',''I can't date you'' and all that, I was so sore hearted because I was expecting an affirmative since we are so close.

A very close friend of mine tried to convince her but she stood her ground, She would send me ''Hi'' first on Whatsapp and FB and I'd wait for like 2 minutes before replying her even after I might have read the message, She keep chatting me up and I reply harshly most times, Now I'm really confused because she was not like that before, She would send me greetings, like and even comment on my statuses which she doesn't do before and so many signs, Now I'm really confused ''Could she be tripping for me''?

confuse

Use your big giant head and think!

Did you want to fall into that trap called friend zone? Once you tell a woman your mind and she decline saying we are just friend, just forget it and move on.

I hate those kind of girls, they'll be giving you false hope. Jst find another girl and make sure she's aware you are dating someone else. It will spite her

Tnx

GbengaPs:
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Holyfield1:
I met her 5 years ago through her brother who happened to be my mentor, We became friends and shared a lot of thoughts together, Just 3 months ago, I asked her out and she declined telling me ''We're just friends'',''I can't date you'' and all that, I was so sore hearted because I was expecting an affirmative since we are so close.

A very close friend of mine tried to convince her but she stood her ground, She would send me ''Hi'' first on Whatsapp and FB and I'd wait for like 2 minutes before replying her even after I might have read the message, She keep chatting me up and I reply harshly most times, Now I'm really confused because she was not like that before, She would send me greetings, like and even comment on my statuses which she doesn't do before and so many signs, Now I'm really confused ''Could she be tripping for me''?

young man please wake from your slumber. she is only trying to be nice probably because she feels she has disappointed you

Women--- The greatest genius of all time will be a man who understands women

follow your heart.

trapQ:
No she isn't. You see? What you guys fail to understand most times is that when a woman "first" turns down your request for a relationship, she actually means it. Trust me, if she "loves" you, she won't turn you down but instead wish and pray in her heart that you'd ask her out just so she'd say yes. She may be tripping now, but in my opinion, its just "frustration attraction". This happens when you feel drawn towards someone "only" cuz they withdrew or distanced themselves from you.

But then, I MAY BE WRONG

you said it all

This is one of the reasons ladies will keep friendzoning we guys,because we often take their friendly gestures for something else other than friendship. expecially when they initiate the chat. Op just face front.

#Smiles at d Op's High rate of hope#... This could only mean u're still interested in her somehow .

But dont let ur blood rush yet cos she might b doing so simply cos she enjoys ur chat and company...So,dnt push it forward yet

But then it could be d other way round sha

just move on my brother. just forget that girl.

Holyfield1:
I met her 5 years ago through her brother who happened to be my mentor, We became friends and shared a lot of thoughts together, Just 3 months ago, I asked her out and she declined telling me ''We're just friends'',''I can't date you'' and all that, I was so sore hearted because I was expecting an affirmative since we are so close.

A very close friend of mine tried to convince her but she stood her ground, She would send me ''Hi'' first on Whatsapp and FB and I'd wait for like 2 minutes before replying her even after I might have read the message, She keep chatting me up and I reply harshly most times, Now I'm really confused because she was not like that before, She would send me greetings, like and even comment on my statuses which she doesn't do before and so many signs, Now I'm really confused ''Could she be tripping for me''?

You are asking abi?

When both of you are done playing around post your conclusions here

Oliviaarims:

That's not true...wrong premises... wrong conclusion!...These people used to be good friends, according to the OP...she's probably trying to get things bk to the way they used to be...











#Philosopher Quëën#

Your assertion is very unlikely to be the case. The possibility of a lady initiating a sour friendship back with someone she rejected just for 'friends' sake is very diminutive. The scenario playing out here is that she loved the attention she was getting from the guy and never thought he'd cease chasing her. She thought the advances was a seamless tradition which she cherished but was taken aback when the guy moved on.

Perhaps, the guy might have been using a hotter lady as her dp and she started sobering and want to have him and oust out the 'new' babe who has 'replaced' her lol.

You'll agree she won't nurse the thought of having their friendship back if she's aware the guy won't be sweet talking and chasing her anymore.

Melahou:
You don't need to be confused

Nothing wrong in all what she's doing

The signal still remains RED.

She's just a friendly person that
Finds your chat interesting
and to get herself out of boredom

nice

Holyfield1:
I met her 5 years ago through her brother who happened to be my mentor, We became friends and shared a lot of thoughts together, Just 3 months ago, I asked her out and she declined telling me ''We're just friends'',''I can't date you'' and all that, I was so sore hearted because I was expecting an affirmative since we are so close.

A very close friend of mine tried to convince her but she stood her ground, She would send me ''Hi'' first on Whatsapp and FB and I'd wait for like 2 minutes before replying her even after I might have read the message, She keep chatting me up and I reply harshly most times, Now I'm really confused because she was not like that before, She would send me greetings, like and even comment on my statuses which she doesn't do before and so many signs, Now I'm really confused ''Could she be tripping for me''?

you shouldnt conclude that she is tripping for u.it may be that she has gotten used to ur friendship so much that now she misses it.

magabounce:
Chief Friend zone officer!!!! Ride on

Loll...... Officer of the republic of friendzonia

All these kid topics on NL nowadays sha.

Yawn

Holyfield1:
I met her 5 years ago through her brother who happened to be my mentor, We became friends and shared a lot of thoughts together, Just 3 months ago, I asked her out and she declined telling me ''We're just friends'',''I can't date you'' and all that, I was so sore hearted because I was expecting an affirmative since we are so close.

A very close friend of mine tried to convince her but she stood her ground, She would send me ''Hi'' first on Whatsapp and FB and I'd wait for like 2 minutes before replying her even after I might have read the message, She keep chatting me up and I reply harshly most times, Now I'm really confused because she was not like that before, She would send me greetings, like and even comment on my statuses which she doesn't do before and so many signs, Now I'm really confused ''Could she be tripping for me''?

She said she just wants you both to be friends abi? Don't friends chat and send greetings to each other again? Even if she just started that now, you should go with the flow. She just wants to get to know you better. If you do not like her anymore even as a friend, you wouldn't have opened this thread. That's how you'll lose out on good girls only to show up here on NL 10years later on and rant about ladies you got cheap that later showed you pepper.

common with ladies

Jay Z said it best:"on to the next one!"

I don't think she digs you. She just wants to know if you're alright after she turned you down.

Don't ever make the mistake of thinking she is flashing the green light.

If you doubt, ask her out once more and she would turn you down outright.

She's not tripping for you but just trying to keep lines of friendship open. However, that should not stop you from trying further. Being harsh on her would only expose how mature you are. By the way, what has happened to your 5 years friendship? You threw that into the dustbin? No, bro..Keep your head up and be the man you ought to be.

mtscheeeww ... men and women bn deceiving themselves since the day of Adam &Eve

Holyfield1:
I met her 5 years ago through her brother who happened to be my mentor, We became friends and shared a lot of thoughts together, Just 3 months ago, I asked her out and she declined telling me ''We're just friends'',''I can't date you'' and all that, I was so sore hearted because I was expecting an affirmative since we are so close.

A very close friend of mine tried to convince her but she stood her ground, She would send me ''Hi'' first on Whatsapp and FB and I'd wait for like 2 minutes before replying her even after I might have read the message, She keep chatting me up and I reply harshly most times, Now I'm really confused because she was not like that before, She would send me greetings, like and even comment on my statuses which she doesn't do before and so many signs, Now I'm really confused ''Could she be tripping for me''?

No she isn't, she just feels bad that she had to turn you down so she is trying to make you feel better.

Holyfield1:
I met her 5 years ago through her brother who happened to be my mentor, We became friends and shared a lot of tripping for me''?

Oponu aiye rada,how old are you?

op itx a two way tin,,,she probably is interested in u nd it may not be so,,,,dnt take her too personal nd dnt ignore her,,,,jst be normals with her,,,,if she is really wanting u,u wld see bigger nd better signs,,,calm down

Harbosede02:
Op mayb she just likes you....no strings attached,can't u think of it dah way ni??

No,guys don't ever think a lady may just like them wt no strings attached..something must be attached

Missmossy:
Sounds like a teenage romance


Only teens reason like this if you ask me.

You're right,I am a teenager

ronald4lif:


Your assertion is very unlikely to be the case. The possibility of a lady initiating a sour friendship back with someone she rejected just for 'friends' sake is very diminutive. The scenario playing out here is that she loved the attention she was getting from the guy and never thought he'd cease chasing her. She thought the advances was a seamless tradition which she cherished but was taken aback when the guy moved on.

Perhaps, the guy might have been using a hotter lady as her dp and she started sobering and want to have him and oust out the 'new' babe who has 'replaced' her lol.

You'll agree she won't nurse the thought of having their friendship back if she's aware the guy won't be sweet talking and chasing her anymore.

If she did value d frndship,she'd still want it....I do agree with u,though...it's another point to consider. But still, I maintain my stand.

Nothing has changed bro. I used to know one lady like that whom I craved to have but couldn't. I gave up but this lady will always send me mix signals through her text messages and other social media messages. perhaps, she felt guilty for turning me down.
Most ladies are like that, once they padlock you in their 'friend zone prison', their is not even a chance in hell of getting out. The next thing you go hear now na say she wan marry and you are invited.