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Must Read! Word of advice by abat4real37(f): 10:06pm On Oct 21, 2015
A very poor newly wedded, young couple lived in a small
farm. One day the husband made the following proposal to
his wife:
- Honey, I will leave the house: I will travel faraway, get a
job and work hard in order to come back and give you the
comfortable life that you deserve. I do not know how long I
will stay away, I only ask one thing, please wait for me, and
while I am away, you should be faithful to me, because I will
be faithful to you.
So the young man left. He walked many days until he found a
farmer who was in need of someone to help him. The young
man offered his services. He was accepted.
Therefore he discussed the terms with his boss:
- Let me work for as long as I want and when I think I
should go home, please relieve me of my duties. I do not
want to receive my salary. I ask you to save it for me, until
the day I leave. The day I decide to go, please give me the
money and I will go my way.
They agreed on that. So, the young man worked for twenty
years without holiday and without rest.
After twenty years, he came to his boss and said:
- Boss, I want my money, because I am returning to my
home. The boss replied:
- All right, after all, I made a deal with you and I will stick
to it. However, before you go I want to offer you
something new: I will give you all your money and send you
away; or I will give you 3 pieces of advice and send you
away. If I give you the money, I do not give you the 3
pieces of advice. And if I give you the 3 pieces of advice, I
will not give you the money. Now, go to your room and think
about your answer.
He thought for two days. Then he went to the boss and told
him:
- I want the 3 pieces of advice. The boss stressed again:
- If I give you the 3 pieces of advice, I will not give you the
money.
And the man replied:
- I want the 3 pieces of advice. The boss then told him:
- No. 1: Never take shortcuts in your life, shorter and
unknown paths can cost your life.
- No. 2: Never be too curious, for curiosity towards evil can
be deadly.
- No. 3: Never make decisions in moments of anger or pain,
because when you repent, it could be too late.
After giving these 3 pieces of advice, the boss said to him:
- Here, you have 3 loaves of bread, 2 are for you to eat
during the journey and the last is for you to eat with your
wife when you get home.
So, the man went his way, after twenty years away from
home and from his wife, whom he loved so much. After the
first day of travel, he found a man who greeted him
and asked:
- Where are you going? He replied:
- To a distant place which is about 20 days away if I
continue walking. The man said to him:
- Oh' boy, this path is too long! I know a shortcut that is
very safe and you will arrive in 5 days only.
The man began to follow the path suggested until he
remembered the first piece of advice. Then, he returned and
followed the long path. Days later he learned that the
shortcut led to an ambush. After a few more days of travel,
he found an inn by the roadside, where he could rest. He
paid for a room and after taking a bath he lay down to
sleep.
During the night he woke up as he heard a terrifying
scream. He rose to his feet and went to the door to check
what happened. As he was opening the door, he remembered
the second piece of advice. Therefore he
returned, lay down again and slept.
At dawn, after breakfast, the owner of the lodging asked
him if he had not heard the scream at night. He affirmed
that he heard. Then, the host said:
- Were you not curious to see what happened? And he
replied:
- No, I was not. Then the host said:
- You are the first guest to leave this inn alive. My
neighbour is completely crazy. He usually shouts at night to
call someone’s attention. When some of the guests come
out, he kills them and buries their bodies in the backyard.
The man continued his long journey, eager to arrive soon.
After many days and nights walking, he was very tired, but
he finally saw his house far away.
It was night. He saw some light coming out of the window of
his house and was able to see the silhouette of his wife. But
he also saw that she was not alone. He came closer and saw
there was a man with her. She softly caressed his hair.
When he saw that scene, his heart was filled with hatred and
bitterness. He decided to rush at and kill them both
mercilessly. However, he took a deep breath and he
remembered the third piece of advice.
Then he stopped, reflected and decided to sleep outside that
night. He slept in the midst of the bushes, determined to
make a decision the next day. At dawn, he was calmer and
thought:
- I will not kill my wife and her lover. I am going back to my
boss to ask him to take me back. But before I go, I want to
tell my wife that I have always been faithful to her.
He went to the front door and knocked. When his wife
opened the door and recognized him, she cried and
embraced him warmly. He tried to push her away, but he
was not able. Then, with tears in his eyes he told her:
- I was faithful to you but you betrayed me. She was
shocked, so she replied:
- How did I betray you? I have never betrayed you. I waited
patiently for you for twenty good years. Then he asked:
- How about the man that you were caressing yesterday?
And she said:
- That man is your son. When you left, I discovered I was
pregnant. Today he is twenty years old. Hearing that, the
man asked her forgiveness. He met and hugged his son. Then
he told them all the things he had experienced while away.
Meanwhile, his wife prepared some coffee for them to eat
together, the last bread given by his boss.
After a prayer of thanksgiving, he broke the bread. When he
looked at it, he found all his money inside. In fact, there
was even more than the right payment for his twenty years
of dedication and hard work.
Friends, our God is like this boss. When he asks us to make a
sacrifice, he wants to give us more than what we give Him.
He wants us to have His unique wisdom as well as the
material blessings.

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Re: Must Read! Word of advice by Idydarling(f): 3:40am On Oct 22, 2015
you've blessed my life op, thank you.


I wish I could apply it to everyday life.
Re: Must Read! Word of advice by emilyone(f): 4:25am On Oct 22, 2015
What a great lesson to learn from there
Re: Must Read! Word of advice by abat4real37(f): 7:16am On Oct 22, 2015
Idydarling:
you've blessed my life op, thank you.



I wish I could apply it to everyday life.
I'm glad you have learn it

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