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Re: Please Help : I Want To Quit My Marriage Of Three Years by KanwuliaJara: 6:47pm On Oct 27, 2015
SAMBARRY:
the Matter on ground na

As per this thread.your input

Absolutely NOTHING worth commenting on. kiss
Next thread please! kiss
Re: Please Help : I Want To Quit My Marriage Of Three Years by KanwuliaJara: 9:10pm On Oct 27, 2015
SAMBARRY:
the Matter on ground na

As per this thread.your input

I dun know why you dun wanno admit that your beloved "NERA LAND" has died a "natural, long-overdue death"!

I know it is sooooooooo painful.
Take heart my dear! cheesy

Not one "SINGO" jomgba adVET for sale kwa nu? grin Even "the barrenness clinics" have closed shop!
Muchechecheche

Sango be PRAISED!!!! grin
Re: Please Help : I Want To Quit My Marriage Of Three Years by ogawisdom(m): 10:01pm On Oct 27, 2015
Tuntheycr7:

I didn't know I married a Houseboy!"



Story:
I have been married for three years now but
shortly after my marriage, I discovered that my
husband is not what he made me believe he
was. I met him after a man I had dated for six
years and had hoped to settle down with got
married to another woman without my
knowledge.
I only got to know about the wedding
two weeks after when a friend told me about it.
I was so hurt and I needed a shoulder to lean on
and that was when I met him at a church
programme.
He told me he was a working for a
top politician in Abuja as a Special Assistant. He
drove a Range Rover car and seemed to be who
he said he was.
When I visited him in Abuja, he lodged me in an
expensive hotel and seemed to be doing very
well. Six months later, we got married and that
was the mistake I made because when we went
to my village in the eastern part of the country
for our introduction, I was actually the one who
sponsored the trip and even bought the drinks
we used.
When my family gave him the traditional
marriage list, he said it was too expensive and
could not go ahead with it. He suggested we had
a church wedding and later do the traditional
marriage and because I was desperate, I agreed.
Even at that, I sponsored almost 90% of the
church wedding. After the wedding, he refused to
allow me go and live with him in Abuja and
instead, insisted I got an apartment in Lagos.
He only gave me N50,000 for the rent and I provided
over N250,000 to complete the balance.
To compound the issue, I later found out that he
is a secondary school leaver (he had told me he
was a graduate of LASU), and that he is a mere
houseboy to the Special Assistant to the
politician. The hotel he lodged me when I visited
him in Abuja belonged to his boss.
I wouldn't have minded the deceit that much but
he has turned out to be a brute who beats me at
every provocation and above all, I am the one
feeding him and his family members.
I want out. What should I do?
Please help me out


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A houseboy is a special assistant nwnw grin
Re: Please Help : I Want To Quit My Marriage Of Three Years by Chidoks(f): 12:37am On Oct 28, 2015
Poor you but don't you think it's all your fault? You saw jeep and threw caution to the wind right? When will babes start realising that being behind any kind of wheels doesn't spell financial stability. But babe wait o you felt you hit a gold mine yet you boycotted your traditional marriage party and cosponsored your wedding? Nne e get as e be o!
Re: Please Help : I Want To Quit My Marriage Of Three Years by Adaeze003(f): 10:41am On Oct 28, 2015
That's not a marriage in the first place, it's not recognized traditionally by your father and people so...

It is not a marriage.

I don't even know the canopy "church" that agreed to "wed" the two of you.

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