Must you marry her?

bros i beg you.runnnnnn.cos that babe can and will never change
you ho find peace tire you no go see if you marry her cos every day of your life will be an argument.fight abuse verbally.insults on you and your family join.

WhoBeThisMan:
May I also add thatbshe even puts me down in front of her family. She has embarased me in public too

why then are you still with her? Are you mad?



And guys are not only avoiding her for her arrogance, she carries bad luck everywhere


Ask yourself why your business went down soon after you met her

She needs some bedroom deliverance....send her to me

A disolved wedding plan is better than a scattered home. I have heard of a person who had to run away the night of his wedding and today he is fulfilling destiny happily. Don't get yourself into this prison because of what people will say. That's my sincere advice.

WhoBeThisMan:
I met this girl last year december, beautiful, very comited to church, and she had all characteristics of what I want in a woman or so it seemed. I approched her, she liked me too, we started going out. I just got out from a very messy brakeup so I really was tired of dating, I told her I want to get married thats my intension and we should start working towards it. She said yes.

I met with our pastor, he basically warned me about the sister, she is nice but can be very arrogant, if I was sure this is what I want because there is no turning back, I said yes! (Love dey shark me).

Fastforward to now. This year has been a very challenging year for me financially. This she knows very well. She insisted we do the wedding by october, I told her it would be too soon, im not financially prepared for that. But I really love this girl, and I wanted her to be happy, and also I couldn't wait for her to be my wife (love still dey shark), so we finally agreed for december, even though its going to be a big financial strain on my part.

I had all the plans to raise money worked out, to cut the long story short suddenly things nose dived in business. My financial pathner had some personal challages and had to pull out funds.

She was able to raise some money from her office, but now she puts me down with her words, castigating me, feeling superior because she feels I need her. She says words that are too hurtful that I have to talk myself out of low self esteem.

The painful part is that all my friends and family members warned me about this, I didnt listen.

Now I think she has become a monster, I wish I could but a stop to all these, I really dont need to get marraid right now. I dont even know hownit will be like to live in thesame house with her.

I have always wondered why this very nice lady is still single at this age(age witheld). But now I think its her arrogance that has probably driven away all her potential suitors.

Pls I need advice, feel free to be harsh if need be

99% of women will behave like that if their day of joy is threatened. My own born again blood sister changed when her father in law died and just b4 her weddg .and it had to be post poned. U dont know d psychological impact of havg one's day of joy threatened have on women. The lady is not in her right frame of mind now.

assuarance and love will restore her to her rightful mind state.

but if this fail act on Proverb 21:9, 21:19; 25:24

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BIDEEN:
Marriage is to be enjoyed not to be endured, so do the maths.
My 1naira



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WhoBeThisMan:
cards are already out, we have even finished selling aso ebi

You better run now while u still can

WhoBeThisMan:
May I also add thatbshe even puts me down in front of her family. She has embarased me in public too

Mike. Smh.

WhoBeThisMan:
I met this girl last year december, beautiful, very comited to church, and she had all characteristics of what I want in a woman or so it seemed. I approched her, she liked me too, we started going out. I just got out from a very messy brakeup so I really was tired of dating, I told her I want to get married thats my intension and we should start working towards it. She said yes.

I met with our pastor, he basically warned me about the sister, she is nice but can be very arrogant, if I was sure this is what I want because there is no turning back, I said yes! (Love dey shark me).

Fastforward to now. This year has been a very challenging year for me financially. This she knows very well. She insisted we do the wedding by october, I told her it would be too soon, im not financially prepared for that. But I really love this girl, and I wanted her to be happy, and also I couldn't wait for her to be my wife (love still dey shark), so we finally agreed for december, even though its going to be a big financial strain on my part.

I had all the plans to raise money worked out, to cut the long story short suddenly things nose dived in business. My financial pathner had some personal challages and had to pull out funds.

She was able to raise some money from her office, but now she puts me down with her words, castigating me, feeling superior because she feels I need her. She says words that are too hurtful that I have to talk myself out of low self esteem.

The painful part is that all my friends and family members warned me about this, I didnt listen.

Now I think she has become a monster, I wish I could but a stop to all these, I really dont need to get marraid right now. I dont even know hownit will be like to live in thesame house with her.

I have always wondered why this very nice lady is still single at this age(age witheld). But now I think its her arrogance that has probably driven away all her potential suitors.

Pls I need advice, feel free to be harsh if need be

Ps this is not my story oo it is a friend

sir, if you were asked which country in the world you'd like to visit for holidays and still come to nigeria, how would you answer? what if I asked another question- which country would you like to travel to without the option of coming back? Marriage is a one way journey. You are not coming back. The morning they say shows the day

pryme:
I had a friend once that has been in a r/ship for 6 yrs but as the days goes by the gal became more and more of a b*tch, yes my friend had his own short comings but the gals own was worse, there was even a time the gal went as far as slapping me friend (that's to show how bad it was), anyway I told my friend to call of the r/ship cos he complains most the time about this gal, her insults, her arrogance, and stubbornness, But my friend said he can't (yes the gal was beautiful - that was one of the reason he could not let go), he said to invest 6yrs in a r/ship is not easy to let go like that.

you won't believe it took the guy 3yrs to call off the r/ship, and this was because the gal traveled to be with her parents for some time.

Today the guy is in love with another gal, not as beautiful as the first one, but this new gal makes the guy laff most of the time, it's like life has just started for him cos there something now in his life that make life worth living.

There was a time he nearly shade tears when he remembers how he nearly end up marrying the other gal. He now sees there are good gals in this world one should not waste his future with one that will only bring unhappiness.

i love ur write up, chop knuckle

Call the wedding off while you still can. Its true a woman may become a little unsettled if she thinks her wedding day is threatened but that's no excuse for her to behave the way she is. If she LOVES you she will be understanding when times are difficult. A wife builds up her man...not tear him down, insult, and embarrass him in private let alone in public. Just because you went through courtship and engagement doesnt mean you have to marry. That's what this time is for...deciding if you're compatible and able to live happily together. Believe me if she can act like this now, she will behave this way again & again for more & more reasons.
Find the woman who will love, encourage, comfort and uplift you.
Good luck.

BIDEEN:
Marriage is to be enjoyed not to be endured, so do the maths.
My 1naira



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Don't marry her

Tell your friend to soft-pedal. .. but if na you then be careful

I no pity u at all. I had similar experience, mine hasn't got to distributing IVcards and aso ebi but it was hell on earth. She carries badluck everywhere she goes but blames me for all the misfortunes. Don't be surprised if she finds it very easy to dump you over trivial financial lapses. Do u still have a mother? She has a lot to do. In my own case, my mom spared me. I got my finances back after she left.

You know what, WhoBeThisMan, tell your friend to fix the wedding date, send the IVs, prepare for the wedding and all. Then on the wedding day, when the officiating pastor, Reverend or whoever says "do you take ------ to be your lawfully wedded wife to love and to hold yada yada...?" your friend can answer "no I do not!", and then run outta the hall. I'm sure you'd be your friend's best man, so you two will run outta the hall together.
Thank me larer (on behalf of your friend).
CHEERS!

WhoBeThisMan:
cards are already out, we have even finished selling aso ebi

Na take shame chop poison o. Gather your lover and cut her off. Imagine say one of una die abi was kidnapped. The people that bought the aso ebi no go happy but the marriage go cancel however.

WhoBeThisMan:
cards are already out, we have even finished selling aso ebi

No take shame chop poison. Gather your lover and cut her off. Imagine say one of una die abi was kidnapped. The people that bought the aso ebi no go happy but the marriage go cancel however.

WhoBeThisMan:
May I also add thatbshe even puts me down in front of her family. She has embarased me in public too

She has already given you the ticket to cut the wedding off then.

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First step: suggest to her that u want the wedding postponed for time to think if u both are making the right decisions, using the moment to highlight all she does dat u certainly can't spend d rest of ur life managing.

But deep within, u know u wanna stop d wedding, but do this to see how her reaction would be if it will make a diff in her.

Be careful though to know if her 'repentance' is only to make sure the wedding continues (cos any1 wud do dat) or she truly wants to change.

God help u!

WhoBeThisMan:
cards are already out, we have even finished selling aso ebi

Its only too late after you say "I do"

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WhoBeThisMan:
cards are already out, we have even finished selling aso ebi

If you get married and die in few days afterwards won't she live? Stop fooling yourself and do the needful. U better not graduate into marriage than divorce or die prematurely