IamLEGEND1:
oya go supply us with adequate distraction for ur thread

peeparty:
It can be a sign they're
feeling insecure about their relationship.

Or Sometime when people are worried about their partner’s affections, they tend to make the relationship more publicly visible.


Buh who does that this days?

IamLEGEND1:


by saying "E pain am"

you're insinuating that I value ur opinion enough for me to even care.

so I'm just gonna type "LoL" and say "Nice try bítch". try harder.

Oyind17:

Go get your girl

Luckygurl:
Aaahh!!

If you've got it, flaunt it jare.


If I can appreciate friends on their special days by using their photos as My DP, what prevents me from doing same for my partner even on a normal day?

Durentt:
Eyah. In Lil wayne's voice "i see the blood in ur eyes"

Mhizkel:

Others think it would be a shame when you two breaks up. What's your say?

Mhizkel:

Others think it would be a shame when you two breaks up. What's your say?

Mhizkel:
Has your friend just put their new girlfriend/boyfriend into their new profile pic? Some think that says a lot about the strength of their relationship. I think it's a sign they're feeling insecure. When people are worried about their partner's affections, they tend to make the relationship more publicly visible. You're also more likely to write about your boyfriend/girlfriend if you're scared the relationship is a bit shaky, but there's one catch. People who aren't are very affectionate. What's known as avoidant personalities-tend to post much less about their relationships even when they worry about their partner.
I was surprised when a confider told me her boyfriend brokeup with her because she refused to make use of him as her profile pic. Hence, he tagged her a ''Cheat''.
Well, it's a world of ''Different Strokes For Different Folks''
Now, which would you go for?
The flambouyant one who flaunts his/her partner on social media? Or,
The avoidant personality who keeps his/her relationship off the media? Reasons...

danbrowndmf:
yeah sometimes u might want to tag her cheat,if she keeps uploading different kind of men pix and she never tend to upload yours once...you might be feeling insecure(We sef na Human being na)



If you are in a serious relationship that may likely lead to marriage u should mind the way u use ur social media,bad use of social medai usage has reck so many 'potential marriage relationship' it has reck so many relationships...

Luckygurl:


The real shame comes in when those who once knew the two of you as a pair real life suddenly sees it all crashing like a pack of cards.

Nothing shameful about it though cos not all relationships are meant to pass the test of time.
If you can survive it real life why can't you do so online?

Personally! If eventually I get into a serious relationship (cos I've never been in one anyway),
I'd at intervals upload a pics of the both of us or even his alone not in an attempt to seek validation from the outside world or maybe to prove my loyalty to him but my own little way out of several other ways of saying that I appreciate what we have going on between us and I'm proud having him as a companion.

Notice that I specifically used serious relationship.
Not all those petty mushroom relationships majority of persons get into, something that's meant for the rocks even right before it was contracted..

Also, I'm an advocate of moderation in whatever we do, this inclusive.
I drop my pen at this point

Benignasweety:
I don't feel insecure n am nt forced to use it either... Itx a choice I made to turn off dox dudes who wldnt let me rest... Always asking to b my side boo blah blah blah... Datx it..

Mhizkel:

Well said! Permit me to say your pen is not yet allowed to be dropped
I agree you saying this outa self-willed. How about when the pic issue is made mandatory by your partner? Like he brings up the issue, and wants to use it as yardstick in measuring the amount of love you've for him and also to prove you not a cheat.

Mhizkel:

That's him @dp, right?

Mhizkel:

That's him @dp, right?

Benignasweety:
yuppy..... yuppy.....

Mhizkel:

What if she never uploaded a male's pic?



Just like a Nairalander who uploaded her wedding pictures and got all sorts of discouraging and abusive comments. That was so bad.

48noble:
I'm just observing all these APC generation of liars.

Mhizkel:

I get your point. It's only absurd when a partner makes it mandatory for the other.

danbrowndmf:
4get about insecurity,if u have a beautiful girlfriend u are most likely to be jealous sometimes. You don't need ur man to tell u,sometimes to spice up the relationship uploading his picture on ur DP wunt kill you.





Why should i even come to nairaland to upload my wedding pix? Nairaland is so full of shyt people and the MOD are really slacking in doing there wrk,they ban wrong people and leave the abusive one's,in such thread the mod ban button should wrk effectively and clean dirty comment,but they wunt do that na how to put lillian esoro topic to front page dem dy find...

Luckygurl:


Shoro niyen!!

Im dey crase for head
So shallow a thinking seriously..
Infact!! This kinda person should not even smell me miles away.

Prove I'm not a cheat?
Any day he starts doubting my fidelity, I'd just give him space to go sort his personal wahala.

Bottom line is no one can force me to do what I don't wanna do especially in a trivial case like this..

Mhizkel:

Choi! See bad-mouthing.


I'm sure the bride would have wished she never attempted such

danbrowndmf:
can u share the link or give me the crankum(details) of insult given to the bride?

Mhizkel:
some people still do.

BOWOTO:


Hypocrisy will finish Nigerians!!

Mhizkel:

Such might occur if you give him reasons to doubt your fidelity.
I'll just go with your last paragraph