Please share with us on what has kept your relationship going these days

In these days of escalating break ups due to violence,infidelity or excess social media digest.

Please tell us how your relationship has kept it's head above the waters.

Most preferred are comments from married couples or partners who have whether the storm from 3 years and above

Thanks,we really appreciate.

Money and understanding

So you could work out if he looses his job,just asking?

agarawu23:
Money and understanding

1acre:
So you could work out if he looses his job,just asking?

a man without a job is a dead man walking.

No job, no gf

It's so tough how it seems like the major factor,so how do you deal with homes where there is so much wealth but the love has gone sour.

agarawu23:
a man without a job is a dead man walking.

No job, no gf

1acre:
It's so tough how it seems like the major factor,so how do you deal with homes where there is so much wealth but the love has gone sour.

buy another one.

You are joking!!!

agarawu23:
buy another one.

1. MONEY



2.MORE MONEY

In fact 3.A LOT OF MONEY

Haba!!!

QTEST007:
1. MONEY




2.MORE MONEY


In fact
3.A LOT OF MONEY

patience

Patiece,wallahi!!!!

miqos02:
patience

Patience

Understanding

Ranting when necessary ( no bottling up or stifling emotions/reactions/mood) and moving on afterwards aka dealing with fvck up and forgiving afterwards.

Accepting that none of us is perfect .

Open communications lines.

Respect for each other

Most importantly, the mutual decision to make it work.

[s]Where she want go with sagged breasts and he, with fallen Akpa amu? [/s]

Patience

Tolerance

Love

Communication

Humour

Respect

The desire for our marriage to work

Doing what works for us.

ifyalways:
Patience

Understanding

Ranting when necessary ( no bottling up or stifling emotions/reactions/mood) and moving on afterwards aka dealing with fvck up and forgiving afterwards.

Accepting that none of us is perfect .

Respect for each other

Most importantly, the mutual decision to make it work.

[s]Where she want go with sagged breasts and he with fallen Akpa amu? [/s]

Lol

You are so funny!!!

babygirlfl:
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Lol

to be honest is pretty tough, I've been dating this guy for four years now. its been a hell of a ride but we're still here.

what is helping us is communication, we talk about any thing and everything. I try my best to be very honest with him, infact I can say I'm very honest to the core.

we talk about our future a lot, makes us to focus on our goals. and we try to correct the other when going wrong. I talk deeply with him, our communication is very open and sincere.

we have fun, visit each other, support and care for ourselves. when we have argument we try to settle it ourselves no third party. since we started dating till now, no third party have been called to solve our problems, we did.

I think what helped this far is COMMUNICATION, I pray things works out well in the future cos I can't wait to marry him. CAN'T WAIT! God bless him o.

This thread is so enjoyable because I see lots of sincerity in the information being shared.

I particularly think it gets better by the line.

I pray with you that this union will evolve into marriage and you will succeed in your endeavors. Just let us know more,if you can share with us. We would be truly grateful.

Ginaz:
to be honest is pretty tough, I've been dating this guy for four years now. its been a hell of a ride but we're still here.

what is helping us is communication, we talk about any thing and everything. I try my best to be very honest with him, infact I can say I'm very honest to the core.

we talk about our future a lot, makes us to focus on our goals. and we try to correct the other when going wrong. I talk deeply with him, our communication is very open and sincere.

we have fun, visit each other, support and care for ourselves. when we have argument we try to settle it ourselves no third party. since we started dating till now, no third party have been called to solve our problems, we did.

I think what helped this far is COMMUNICATION, I pray things works out well in the future cos I can't wait to marry him. CAN'T WAIT! God bless him o.