Chestan:

i heard that a girl was raped in my area, i wen angry n was saying men are bad, but later,i found out that it was the mode of dressing that lead the guy to rape her.if u won pass judgment,watin u fill say u go do.na the fault of the boy or the girl way dress like that.imagin, d girl dey almost naked way b say,if u see ha,meeeen ur odogun go rise if u know what i mean.watin b ur opinion

When una finish drying out that excuse. . .come up with something more creative

make odogun rise

Chestan:

i heard that a girl was raped in my area, i wen angry n was saying men are bad, but later,i found out that it was the mode of dressing that lead the guy to rape her.if u won pass judgment,watin u fill say u go do.na the fault of the boy or the girl way dress like that.imagin, d[b] girl dey almost naked way b say,if u see ha,meeeen ur odogun go rise if u know what i mean.watin b ur opinion[/b]

C2H5OH:

haha he is a bleeping nigerian. what a goat.

~Sissy~:

every woman has the right to dress the way she likes and no woman deserves to be raped regardless. but the morons among the mens will alwayz find a way/excuse to justify their moronic acts. idiots

topup:

The sooner men take responsibility the sooner we can truly address such an important situation.

Yes, there is the traditional mentality that sympathises with a hormonal man who can't control his urges because of a woman dressing provocatively, but in all sincerely, who's fault is the rape.

How can you look at a woman and say, "It's your fault a stranger forced sexual intercourse upon you, because you showed too much skin." Can I ask all the men, does the same rule apply??

And if it does, do you expect to be raped for wearing 'flashy' clothing??

Are you trying to tell us women that if we wear anything attractive - we should expect to be raped??


The problem with this argument comes from those who don't understand free will, self-control and rights.


NO HUMAN BEING HAS THE RIGHT TO MAKE YOU DO ANYTHING THAT YOU DON'T WANT TO DO.

If a man was misbehaving would you say that same man was entitled to a beat up??

RAPE is sinister, it is weakness on the man's part for not being able to handle his urges, that is not OUR responsiblity as females. 

It reflects badly on fellow men if they sympatise with the rapist instead of condeming the crime.

I tell you, I am aware of the way I dress for the mere fact of this stupid idea that "you brought it upon yourself." and I am paranoid thinking - "if I show too much skin." something might happen to me, and then I won't have any sympathy.

YES raping someone dressing provocatively is a CRIME

But the biggest crime of all is letting that lustful man get away with it because "she dressed provocatively."

Some men have different opinions of provocative, I mean what about the paedophiles?? Also, some girls may not be able to afford to buy new clothes as soon as they've grown into their old ones, may wear their usual skirt - which now becomes tight around the bottom - is she going to be raped??
Some women are unware of how their bodies appear in the clothing, or even what the guy sat across her is thinking.

Would it not be much more pro-active to assess and deal with the root problem - the men causing these crimes, or shall we render women powerless again, and remind them that their power only works passively - they can't do anything to avoid being raped, but they can do stuff to get raped?? - What the heck is this rubbish!!

I'm sure not all men think this way. . right??

C2H5OH:

topup welcome back. i could tell it was you. way to make a grand entry. is everything okay? what's been up? how did the meeting go with the ex? how have you been? we have missed you.

I'm doing great , more free time e.t.c. lol.

haha he is a bleeping nigerian. what a goat.

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