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Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by Adetutu211(f): 2:36pm On Oct 20, 2006
Advise please
I love a guy very much and we ve been dating for the past 4.5 years but i like another guy(close to years now) and we see regularlly bt the 1st guy doesnt ve much time for me while the other does who do i choose pls
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by chani(m): 7:24pm On Oct 21, 2006
well am in the same dilemma ,but mine is that my gf is the one with the two guys ,,,,, myself and another guy , welll aint seen her for some time, so i guess the other guy's won the battle .lol . it hurts alot , chani
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by Free(f): 7:27pm On Oct 21, 2006
U can like one -like da other is possible
but
i dnt think U can love both of them da same
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by Saddam: 7:02pm On Oct 22, 2006
Its only a Commercial Sex worker that Can love morethan one guy


So Better advice I will give u is to Just go to the One that Has time for u so that he can always take u to the moon.

Since he got enough time
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by Chinie(f): 7:42pm On Oct 23, 2006
my dear,there's no way u can love two guys.ur love for the first guy may surpass ur love for the other,or vice versa.get your feelings straight
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by ThoniaSlim(f): 3:53pm On Oct 24, 2006
its not possible to love two guys at the same time.you can only love one and like the other one,or love one and lust after the other one.
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by kike001(f): 9:32pm On Oct 24, 2006
even u could love 3 at da same time u just gotta think hard n choose 1 or be a golddigger lol
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by Adetutu211(f): 1:09pm On Oct 25, 2006
Its true that i dont love them equally bt i ve close feelings for both and the worse is that they both wants to marry me
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by naija4life(f): 1:36pm On Oct 25, 2006
Adetutu 21:

Advise please
I love a guy very much and we ve been dating for the past 4.5 years but i like another guy(close to years now) and we see regularlly bt the 1st guy doesnt ve much time for me while the other does who do i choose please

Baby in most cases you have to chose a neutral guy and dat ME!!! grin grin
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by Adetutu211(f): 2:21pm On Oct 25, 2006
grin grin grin grin ok i ve heard
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by CrazyMan(m): 2:26pm On Oct 25, 2006
It's not possible. Unless that girl is out to make money from both of them.
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by Mbuzo: 2:41pm On Oct 25, 2006
Adetutu,

I suggest you brace up for life of sacrifice. In my experience when you have such dilemna, it always had to do with sex though it is hardly mentioned. The dilemna is often that the more sexually appealing partner is the less rich, trusted and admirable one. However, the other may not provide the passion that is relished so much by the woman. It is a conflict between social security and romantic security. When a woman is really in love, she hardly becomes fond of another person to the point of loving him. When a woman is truly in love any minimal act of closeness to another person is discomforting and is the precursor to flirting even when she doesnt know it or refuse to accept it. BRACE YOURSELF for true love.
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by naija4life(f): 4:07pm On Oct 25, 2006
On a more serious note though, adetutu, i'll advise you continue with ur first guy.

If you have survived for more than 4 years wit him as you mentioned,why do u wanna throw all dat away just because a flshy guy walked by.

C'mon geta grip on urself lady and do wats right stick wit ur guy kiss
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by buzzy606(f): 9:40pm On Apr 29, 2007
adetutu21,
it is possible to love as many guys as you want. but is left to you to choose wisely when it comes to long life relationship. and besides,
what is/are this guys plan and status . do they love you as you do .

Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by t00cUTE(f): 8:18pm On Jun 22, 2008
am kinda in the same mess, but u cant ,

u wud like 1 and love the oda, its obvious u love the oda cos he is givin u the attention and as ladies we need that
so dear listen 2 ur hrt wink wink
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by Nobody: 8:19pm On Jun 22, 2008
no
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by Jackal(m): 8:21pm On Jun 22, 2008
For a woman with no scruples and decorum, YES!!!!!! tongue
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by arianne(f): 8:31pm On Jun 22, 2008
Jackal:

For a woman with no scruples and decorum, YES!!!!!! tongue

u don't need to cheesy with ur remark. woman can be emotionally susceptible.

@poster- no, u cant. obviously other men hav been givin u attention but u should remember ur with someone. unless , . .
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by saucekid(m): 8:32pm On Jun 22, 2008
@ topic
u better burn the lust outta ur system
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by arianne(f): 8:34pm On Jun 22, 2008
saucekid:

@ topic
u better burn the lust out of your system

good advice
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by jgirl3: 8:41pm On Jun 22, 2008
I'm beginning to think it is normal to fall in love with 2 guys. The thing is that no guy is complete so when you meet the one that has what the other lacks, you start developing feelings for that person.
For Instance, your bf loves you so much but gets angry very easily while you meet another guy who can NEVER get angry at you no matter what and he treats you with so much respect, you'll start falling in love.
Women have a lot of criteria and it takes a lot for one man to satisfy in all dimensions.
Poster - sorry ehn!
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by MethodMan3(m): 8:46pm On Jun 22, 2008
@Poster

Wetin no possible nowadays

If OBJ fit fuc.k him son wife together with IBORI, why cant you love 15men at a time!
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by saucekid(m): 8:48pm On Jun 22, 2008
uhm . . . .
na wa ooo
just get it outta ur system
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by Jackal(m): 8:52pm On Jun 22, 2008
arianne:

u don't need to cheesy with your remark. woman can be emotionally susceptible.

Susceptible to what?
How can a woman with morals love 2 men at the same time??
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by arianne(f): 8:56pm On Jun 22, 2008
means atimes they easily give in atimes even when it shouldnt be.

my dear, its got nothing to do with morals.
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by saucekid(m): 8:57pm On Jun 22, 2008
morals!
uhm . . . .wetin else remain?
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by otbx(m): 8:59pm On Jun 22, 2008
Wetin no possible nowadays

If OBJ fit fuc.k him son wife together with IBORI, why can't you love 15men at a time!
[flash=200,200][/flash]

o boy u get am correct, this generation?
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by Jackal(m): 9:06pm On Jun 22, 2008
arianne:

means atimes they easily give in atimes even when it shouldnt be.

my dear, its got nothing to do with morals.

Babes, it has everything to do with morals.

Where is the self-control?
Are u saying there is an excuse for a woman to sleep with a man because she is at her lowest ebb?
What's that excuse?
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by jekad: 9:06pm On Jun 22, 2008
@topic

no its not possible smiley
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by saucekid(m): 9:07pm On Jun 22, 2008
thrown out the window
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by ifyalways(f): 9:11pm On Jun 22, 2008
@Topic,NO
Re: Is It Possible To Love Two Guys by saucekid(m): 9:13pm On Jun 22, 2008
@ ify
tell them ooo
how u dey now?how boryy?
make we talk jare

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