FKseun:

Thanks for all your advice. She's yet to return from her business. I have made up my mind. I am going to confront her tonight! I do not need to start stating here what I have done for her, her family, and others. I have been a 'very' good husband, father, inlaw and all. Imagine, the husband of the woman in question called me few minutes ago to warn my wife to steer clear of his wife. Imagine! He said he has reported to his mother-in-law. I just can't believe all these. whatever comes out of it, i will take.

FKseun:

Thanks for all your advice. She's yet to return from her business. I have made up my mind. I am going to confront her tonight! I do not need to start stating here what I have done for her, her family, and others. I have been a 'very' good husband, father, inlaw and all. Imagine, the husband of the woman in question called me few minutes ago to warn my wife to steer clear of his wife. Imagine! He said he has reported to his mother-in-law. I just can't believe all these. whatever comes out of it, i will take.

Aprilmay:

Your wife is a bisexual not a lesbian

FKseun:

Dear people,
I need advice from matured minds. I have been married for slightly less than 8yrs now with a couple of lovely kids. On two occasions within this period, I have had serious issues with my wife over the roles of one or two of her female friends in our family affairs. To settle the issues, I demanded that the ladies in question stayed away from our home. She grudgingly accepted this. Peace and happiness return to the home once again. She eventually made friends with another married woman who stays in the same compound with us. I raised no fuss over it since they were both in the same business. At a point I started noticing an unusual relationship between the two of them at the detriment of our marriage. Any time I raised the issue, it ended in a quarrel. I began to suspect that they were both practising lesbianism, but there was no proof. I kept quiet but the issue was eating into me deeply and making me unhappy. I had the opportunity of going through her phone and saw some sms from the woman in question. They were worded the way lovers would express themselves. She came in and saw me with the phone and she wasn’t happy. The next time I went through the phone, she had deleted all the sms and removed the woman’s name from her contacts. But they are still in touch. They see each other virtually every day. Only a few days ago I received an sms in my phone from an anonymous sender telling me that my wife is involved in a demonic activity (lesbianism) with her friends. The sender mentioned names and places where they meet. I have not been happy since then. I have not confronted my wife. I need advice on how to handle this issue so that I do not do the wrong thing.

ifyalways:

Ur kids tell u what? 
Well,its all in ur court.I think its best u confront her with the sms and hear from her first.
U can then point out the dangers of such relationships to her esp as a married woman with kids. Do so in love pls,dont go shout at her.How is ur sexual life with her?u can try spice things up,take her out,make out more time for her,compliment on her looks. . .just go out of ur way to love her and appreciate her.She might have a change of heart _{assuming shes a lesbo}

Do so in love pls,dont go shout at her.How is ur sexual life with her?u can try spice things up,take her out,make out more time for her,compliment on her looks. . .just go out of ur way to love her and appreciate her.She might have a change of heart _{assuming shes a lesbo}

FKseun:

For clarification purposes, my wife is 35yrs old, I am very active sexually and my manhood will satisfy any woman with normal features. Going down memory lane, I can recall that at the early stage of our marriage she had confided in me that some of her very close friends in Port Harcourt practised lesbianism while they were still young. Some of them are married now and still reside in Port Harcourt. At a point I concluded that she had taken part in it, but since was a born-again and a prayerful person at that, I felt she had stopped it. Things started changing when this kalabari woman came on the scene. She started visiting our home and my wife too started sharing time with her. A lot of time I would return from work only to be told by the kids and the househelp that my wife is in the other woman’s apartment. I complained to her severally but she always took offence.

FKseun:

For clarification purposes, my wife is 35yrs old, I am very active sexually and my manhood will satisfy any woman with normal features. Going down memory lane, I can recall that at the early stage of our marriage she had confided in me that some of her very close friends in Port Harcourt practised lesbianism while they were still young. Some of them are married now and still reside in Port Harcourt. At a point I concluded that she had taken part in it, but since was a born-again and a prayerful person at that, I felt she had stopped it. Things started changing when this kalabari woman came on the scene. She started visiting our home and my wife too started sharing time with her. A lot of time I would return from work only to be told by the kids and the househelp that my wife is in the other woman’s apartment. I complained to her severally but she always took offence.

opuro:

the problem seems to be from you
from all indication you dont sound like a real man
and I have a feeling that you dont satisfy your wife sexually

opuro:

the problem seems to be from you
from all indication you dont sound like a real man
and I have a feeling that you dont satisfy your wife sexually

JustGood:

you should have plotted a way of catching her in the act

JustGood:

tell her to get a single woman so that you can have threesomes

Seriously, if she has started enjoying sex with another woman, you're not likely to stop her now. Best to either ignore her or divorce her on the grounds of unfaithfulness.

C2H5OH:

have been trying to find out if you were born gay here :

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-279591.320.html#msg3983671