ronald4lif:
Perhaps, he's truly a mumu, I mean who just renders such assistance to someone they don't know, out of the blue. Unless he knew the girl in question then his action is permissible but if not then the lady could be right. He thought he was being impressive but the lady thought otherwise.

Do gooders doesn't ensnared nor attract ladies, at best it makes one look hebetudinous and creepy. I can bet that he wouldn't have bothered if it was a fellow guy struggling to pay for the watch.

If it was an assistance bothering on pressing needs, like t-fare, food, water etc it would have been understandable. But for a watch, a want and something she can do without and wasn't 'urgent' his gesture wasn't necessary. I'm afraid I share same sentiment as the lady. He's no samaritan but indeed a mumu.

stupidity:
I will offer this guy one juicy pvssy for this comment.

*erhm!!, Amaka, come and service this guy*

ronald4lif:
Perhaps, he's truly a mumu, I mean who just renders such assistance to someone they don't know, out of the blue. Unless he knew the girl in question then his action is permissible but if not then the lady could be right. He thought he was being impressive but the lady thought otherwise.

Do gooders doesn't ensnared nor attract ladies, at best it makes one look hebetudinous and creepy. I can bet that he wouldn't have bothered if it was a fellow guy struggling to pay for the watch.

If it was an assistance bothering on pressing needs, like t-fare, food, water etc it would have been understandable. But for a watch, a want and something she can do without and wasn't 'urgent' his gesture wasn't necessary. I'm afraid I share same sentiment as the lady. He's no samaritan but indeed a mumu.

laprince:
A similar thread made me remember this particular story, back then as a student in higher institution.

I closed from classes one afternoon. As usual, a couple of friends and I were retuning to our rooms. Just by the school gate, some persons used to sell clothes, jewelleries and writing materials (before the school stopped them).


There was this particular Hausa man that sells watches under a mango tree. When my friends and I got to the mango tree, we decided to wait for another of our friends. So that we would walk home together, since we stayed close.


Then we noticed a girl who was bargaining the price of a wristwatch. She had just #300 (three hundred Naira), which was not enough to purchase the watch. However, she had been able to beat the price down to #800(eight hundred Naira). She was visibly in love with the watch, even though she could not afford it. She still stayed back trying to beg for a price reduction. It still did not work.


Just then, a boy came to the same vendor, picked up something and paid for it. On seeing how much the girl wanted to have the wristwatch, he gave the balance of #500 (five hundred Naira) directly to the vendor. The girl thanked him. Then he walked away. (He didn't ask for the girl's name or phone number).


Just as the girl was about paying the balance of #300(three hundred Naira) , to the vendor, two of her friends came around. They asked her where she got money to buy a watch, when she had already told them that was broke. Before our very eyes, her response was " NA ONE MUMU BOY JUST PAY PART OF THE MONEY". Her friends replied, no mind dem jor. I was so shocked and offended. But, I could not go to the boy and tell him. Else, I would be tagged a hater. All these happened while the boy was still in sight.


However, the vendor was also not pleased with the lady. So, he refused to give the lady the watch. Only on the condition that, she calls the boy back and repeated exactly what she told her friends, in presence of the boy. The lady and her friends picked up a quarrel with the vendor, and after a while, since the vendor was not yielding, they left.


My friends and I went to the vendor. Shook hands with him and appreciated him. By this time, the boy hand already gone. Although, I don't know how that money finally roosted.

That day, I rediscovered how perpetually ungrateful some ladies could be.

ronald4lif:
Perhaps, he's truly a mumu, I mean who just renders such assistance to someone they don't know, out of the blue. Unless he knew the girl in question then his action is permissible but if not then the lady could be right. He thought he was being impressive but the lady thought otherwise.

Do gooders doesn't ensnared nor attract ladies, at best it makes one look hebetudinous and creepy. I can bet that he wouldn't have bothered if it was a fellow guy struggling to pay for the watch.

If it was an assistance bothering on pressing needs, like t-fare, food, water etc it would have been understandable. But for a watch, a want and something she can do without and wasn't 'urgent' his gesture wasn't necessary. I'm afraid I share same sentiment as the lady. He's no samaritan but indeed a mumu.

Persephone1:
No the guy isn't a mumu the lady is the mumu here. You don't need to know someone before you help them out. Don't misdirect judgement and let the offender go unpunished. The boy did nothing wrong. It's like helping a beggar on street,we all know some of them may be richer than us in the real sense but we help them anyways. If the beggar you help mocks you in the gathering of his friends, the joke is on the beggar not you.

The lady is the foolish one who couldn't recognize an act of goodness but ridiculed the person who extend such act to her because she thinks he is after her invested coochie . The guy did nothing wrong the girl is the fool. I'm glad the Hausa man did justice here while Op and his friends watch .