chccho:
OK o now I get u, but he says she is the type who isn't even adventurous in the bedroom. He even went as far a buyingvsome intimacy gadgets...

Realwvn:
My wife and I had been married 15 years and we had been through some challenging times like most couples. Our sex life was regular but my wife was never really willing to explore things in the bedroom and whilst I desired her to be more adventurous l accepted it.

I had bought some toys but she seemed aghast at thought of using them. I received a promotion at work and the demands of the role meant longer hours at work and often compiling reports late into the night. During this time I noted my wife gradually spending more time on the computer on social media mainly with her group of close friends. Over a 6 month period she stayed up later and later and I would tell her to come to bed but eventually fall asleep. Not long after this she told me her and a friend were going to another state to visit a work colleague. Given l was busy at work l thought a good chance to catch up over the weekend. So the wife went and returned and said she had a great time and caught up with some old and new friends so l was happy for her. She soon returned to staying up late and noticeably seemed consumed by her mobile. this continued and a month or so later I had a conference out of town and asked if wife wanted to come for the few days but she said she would get bored. So this came and went and it appeared my wife was losing interest in sex.

One day out of curiosity l decided to check the home computer and in checking the history l found the previous night an adult web site had been accessed. I didn’t think much of it but a few days later same thing so I asked wife and she said it was prob just a pop up she may have accidentally accessed.

The history log was wiped from thereafter. I could never see my wife having an affair but it began to eat at me thus l downloaded some spyware. The results stunned me as l found my wife was . I accessed emails and pics and found my wife had spent a weekend not with a friend but with a guy who she spent all weekend sleeping with. Explicit pics showed her being a total dirty slut and the guy was very well endowed and noticeably much thicker than I. He had also travelled and slept with her in our bed whilst l was on the conference.

I love her so much, I have forgiven her but the thought of it can’t make me go near her again.. I don’t know what to do, I am scared of starting over with another woman again or being alone


http://www.naijanewsrave.com/my-wife-slept-with-another-man-what-should-i-do/

rickyalphonsus:
Ouch, quite sad, i really feel for u. You never mentioned if u had kids after your 15 yrs marriage. if u do, i guess d situation is even more complicated. in such case u only hv to forgive her and forget everything atleast for the children sake. u also need to use this opportunity to make her want u again, show her u still love her by trying to put up some good romance rather than avoid or distant your self from her just because of wat she did (not like i support wat she did o). it shows maturity on your part and i believe she will definitely come to her senses and give in to u totaly. and about not being able to forget d s**t she did, just tk it as one those stupid act silly girls do n move on. (but pls still hv an eye on her just incase)

Estharfabian:
I don't get why people cheat....The stench is alarming! How do they even cope with the guilt?

If You feel You're No Longer compatible with Your partner..A simple "Hey, I wanna breakup..this isn't working" Would do...It's gonna be hard but less painful n Heartbreaking.


infidelity in Marriage isn't something You just Overlook... Once a Cheater, Always a cheater..


Dump the biitch and Re-Marry!! Easypizzy! Problem solved!
For better for worse my Round black Ass!

shugaboy6102:
hahahah u funny die.you for explain the meaning of that look to him now.

daretodiffer:
Forgive her

She can't help it

Men will get attracted to her and it is understandable to fall into temptations every now and then

Don't blame her. Blame the devil

you cannot get divorce after 15 years of marriage because of one minor issue

Take heart

LastProphet:


if not for our ignorant culture this is not an issue, after 15yrs of sleeping with her aint you bored yourself? in other parts of the world what couples do at this point in marriage is to live on as best friends and even date other people, the fact she slept with that guy doesn't mean she wants you dead, it doesn't mean she wants the guy 24/7 in her life, it doesn't mean she thinks the guy a greater guy than you. she just wanted something new and that is all. save record of her infidelity, stop initiating sex with her, get a gf outside and don't make too much effort to hide it but continue to be a good husband and father to your kids. if she makes the mistake of catching you then show her her deeds then let her know you understood with her and now she has to understand too. you will not believe how many couples live like this in nija right now

Confessng:
For better for worse!
However remember for a woman to cheat the man must have touched her sensitive spots(not her body but her mind)

Except you married an Olosho in which case you have only yourself to blame .

If the first is the case you may want to call take some days off work and try to get to the depth of what happened .

Betterstill use the spyware to find out how he is making love to her mind ,trust me its not about how endowed the man is that you aren't....

The vjay is elastic if it isn't slack then size shouldn't be such a big deal

Realwvn:
My wife and I had been married 15 years and we had been through some challenging times like most couples. Our sex life was regular but my wife was never really willing to explore things in the bedroom and whilst I desired her to be more adventurous l accepted it.

I had bought some toys but she seemed aghast at thought of using them. I received a promotion at work and the demands of the role meant longer hours at work and often compiling reports late into the night. During this time I noted my wife gradually spending more time on the computer on social media mainly with her group of close friends. Over a 6 month period she stayed up later and later and I would tell her to come to bed but eventually fall asleep. Not long after this she told me her and a friend were going to another state to visit a work colleague. Given l was busy at work l thought a good chance to catch up over the weekend. So the wife went and returned and said she had a great time and caught up with some old and new friends so l was happy for her. She soon returned to staying up late and noticeably seemed consumed by her mobile. this continued and a month or so later I had a conference out of town and asked if wife wanted to come for the few days but she said she would get bored. So this came and went and it appeared my wife was losing interest in sex.

One day out of curiosity l decided to check the home computer and in checking the history l found the previous night an adult web site had been accessed. I didn’t think much of it but a few days later same thing so I asked wife and she said it was prob just a pop up she may have accidentally accessed.

The history log was wiped from thereafter. I could never see my wife having an affair but it began to eat at me thus l downloaded some spyware. The results stunned me as l found my wife was . I accessed emails and pics and found my wife had spent a weekend not with a friend but with a guy who she spent all weekend sleeping with. Explicit pics showed her being a total dirty slut and the guy was very well endowed and noticeably much thicker than I. He had also travelled and slept with her in our bed whilst l was on the conference.

I love her so much, I have forgiven her but the thought of it can’t make me go near her again.. I don’t know what to do, I am scared of starting over with another woman again or being alone


http://www.naijanewsrave.com/my-wife-slept-with-another-man-what-should-i-do/

tega4eddie:
IF U WERE A MAN HOW WOULD U FEEL IF YOUR WIFE CHEAT ON YOU

kaeforum:
Forgive her, u sent her on this errand when u chose ur job over her. She needed to meet her needs elswhere. She has been sampling dickss all her life and u didn't know cos u were only interested in boobs and ass.
Ur lucky she didn't give u a disease ,just move on such is life.

chronique:
I'd forgive anything but cheating.