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Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by whitestar01(m): 10:15pm On Dec 21, 2015 |
One thing l no for sure , a cheat is always a cheat 2 Likes |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by dtrend(m): 10:47pm On Dec 21, 2015 |
shackle ur thoughts or ur mind will eventually let it happen. Do wat u have to avoid it. |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by diva90: 11:11pm On Dec 21, 2015 |
foreman: I don't blame you. I blame your wife for leaving such a physically mature maid with her 'horseband' ... Shameless men like you who sleep with their domestic servants deserve no respect... Better start looking for a way to clean up the mess that you have started |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by Nobody: 11:18pm On Dec 21, 2015 |
Ezechinwa:lol..... take am easy o... |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by cococandy(f): 11:50pm On Dec 21, 2015 |
missyadorable: 3 Likes |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by NemzySeries(m): 11:55pm On Dec 21, 2015 |
Another Reckless dick on duty 1 Like |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by Nobody: 11:56pm On Dec 21, 2015 |
cococandy:It's a free world indeed |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by Tamee(f): 2:47am On Dec 22, 2015 |
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Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by OAUTemitayo: 5:08am On Dec 22, 2015 |
PinkBarbie:You are cool. 1 Like |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by Pidggin(f): 6:14am On Dec 22, 2015 |
adanny01: I see you are using two monikers, foreman and adanny01. Hope you are not trying to play on our intelligence here. |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by danbrowndmf(m): 6:42am On Dec 22, 2015 |
misspicy:have not seen anything |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by adanny01(m): 6:54am On Dec 22, 2015 |
Pidggin: Just another man with almost same experience. I have tried in my case not to touch her. Mind you, this is second time i am experiencing this ordeal. The 1st was while i was still living with my parents and was unmarried. The two girls are first cousins and the 1st girl is a village church clergy's daugther who helped my mum one time she was stranded in Bauchi state. In the 1st case, i withheld myself because of respect to her father even though the girl was sleeping with several guys i know. One time she cried begging at 2am through my window to open door for her knowing that if my mother learns she came home at that hour, it will be trouble for her and possibly return her to her parents. I almost blackmailed her for sex against my silence and opening the door for her. I couldnt do it but couldnt sleep that night. I have a friend who together with his younger brother inpregnated their house help. Its not easy to keep such emotions in check. I wish someone will congratulate me for holding back each time i am tempted. 3 Likes |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by Pidggin(f): 7:00am On Dec 22, 2015 |
adanny01: You all need Jesus. 2 Likes |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by adanny01(m): 7:08am On Dec 22, 2015 |
Pidggin: You dont have more Jesus than i do. What we are talking about are pure emotions, even pastors have. It is private and most times we are helpless. It takes the grace of God for some men to keep track. When we manage to keep track and people like you know what emotions we tried to suppress, you should commend us for trying hard. If OP was able to hold back after handling the girls boobs with no resistance, he needs commendation. How many men out there would stop at that point. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by Pidggin(f): 7:23am On Dec 22, 2015 |
adanny01: Are you forgetting that the OP is a married man? This girl started living with him at 14, and she calls him daddy, yet he keeps looking at her lustfully. After fo.ndling with her breasts he goes to a brothel to relieve himself with prostitutes, please what is commendable about this? I would have commended him if he exercised more self-restraint than he did. For now, i do not see anything worth commending in his irresponsible behavior. 2 Likes |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by adanny01(m): 7:50am On Dec 22, 2015 |
Pidggin: The op went out, i think its better than what he would have done at home. If his wife were to be given the 2 options, she would have chosen what he did. I am not trying to justify his case. You are not a man and dont feel testosterone acting on you, i dont expect you to understand. If my wife should hear the kinds of emotons i had for the girl, she would be mad. But another woman who understands woul quickly realise that there is no need to be mad but be thankful that in my case, it didnt happen. When one is married, it doesnt stop one from having sexual emotions towards other women. Marriage means to be able to handle all sexual emotions towards others. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by Pidggin(f): 8:02am On Dec 22, 2015 |
adanny01: Continue making excuses for the OP and yourself. You can keep blaming it on testosterone, but if someone molests your daughter or rapes your wife(God forbid) you will not take his excuse of "Na konji cause am" 3 Likes |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by daviesmania(m): 8:19am On Dec 22, 2015 |
funny everything we say here will not amount to anything by the time u see those young, helpless breast again. Because there is a devil in ur heart always tellng u 'Bleep HER' |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by 08069283059v(f): 8:26am On Dec 22, 2015 |
Ode [color=#990000][/color] |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by chuzero(m): 8:53am On Dec 22, 2015 |
End time man |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by ifyalways(f): 8:59am On Dec 22, 2015 |
Foreman, I commend you for restraining yourself although it came a bit late but still better than never. Obviously, the maid is either interested too or too scared to resist you. Solution: Pay the help her 3 months salary upfront and have her leave before your wife comes back. If you can afford to give her 6 months salary, the better. Dude, you are married. Do sometime about your third leg. Self control, discipline , respect for your wife and say NO to cheating. If the communication lines btw you and wifey is great, then you need to open up to her so you both can help each other. Marriage = where one is weak or fails, the other stsys strong. 4 Likes |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by bet9ja(m): 9:35am On Dec 22, 2015 |
My Candid advice is just as simple as 123. Inform your wife about this, though in a more twisted and edited version, deliberate on it and make sure you support your maid with enough cash she can use after leaving your house. Matthew 5:29 { If your right eye causes you to stumble, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell}. You can surely ask her to leave your house but in a mature way. |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by adanny01(m): 9:42am On Dec 22, 2015 |
Pidggin: When someone like me tries hard to kill konji, its not for you to call me names or think i am making excuses. If you dont commend me, i commend myself. The problem with you is that if OP slept with the girl you call him names. He tried not to you still call him names. If i try as much as the op and lets say my wife knows and still gets mad at me, next time i will just finish it cause one way or another she will be mad. With your understanding, i will try harder, without it there is no point. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by daveP(m): 11:31am On Dec 22, 2015 |
PrettySpicey:okay. Gracias. |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by Nobody: 6:23am On Dec 23, 2015 |
youngprof8787: face ur front 1 Like |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by ITbomb(m): 10:25am On Dec 23, 2015 |
adanny01:80% of people abusing the op are females cos they don't understand how the chemistry works, they think it is just saying no and your body comply at once. There was a reason for some sins the bible says fight but for sex, it says flee. Don't even attempt to stand and fight or reason, just flee or take away what is fueling the desire. Even the angels from above were not spared when they looked down on the daughters of men. So for the females, you may not understand the conji feeling but before abusing a man going down with a maid, ask yourself, "how great is the sex desire that angels would leave heaven to indulge in it with lowly humans. To handle the boobs of a willing young body and yet stop yourself is highly commendable cos such self control is superhuman 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by missyadorable(f): 1:08pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
murphyibiam15: I am a woman and a realistic one Call me whatever you like But I do not believe in gender equality Male and female can never be equal Even God places woman below man from creation You and I know how it goes We know what happens when a man misbehaves, we know who takes the blame for a man's adultery So shut ur trap! |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by murphyibiam15(m): 2:46pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
missyadorable:you still didnt make sense |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by Cutehector(m): 4:03pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
PinkBarbie:babe easy, its so not easy to resist sex.. |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by donMIG(m): 2:03pm On Dec 24, 2015 |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by PastorAji(m): 3:00pm On Dec 24, 2015 |
missyadorable:ma'am I'd wish women are men even for just 1day with dick and testosterone. You'll know how we feels. Even this morning as I was dropping from d cab, I had this er3ction without even thinking or looking at a woman |
Re: Almost Slept With Our Housegirl by zeb04(f): 3:11pm On Dec 24, 2015 |
wow I hope men realize women here also get tempted. you don't get commendation for not cheating. it is your duty not to cheat, you signed up for it.. I tell my son stealing isn't allowed in this house and then I keep 20k and he doesn't take it. Oh wow I am so happy, congratulations son you deserve a drum of cereal, ice cream, goat meat, cow head....... get yourselves dumb heads,you weren't forced into this, you asked for it. 1 Like |
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