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Should sex be this painful? by OsusuMustFlow(f): 9:25am On Dec 23, 2015
Dear Friends,

I first had sex when I was 18 years old. As a virgin then, I expected to feel pain, but not the excruciating one I felt. This scared me and I didn’t even think about sex after that until recently.


Please help with advice.

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Re: Should sex be this painful? by hatux: 9:29am On Dec 23, 2015
What do you want us to advice you on

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Re: Should sex be this painful? by OnankpaBa(m): 9:29am On Dec 23, 2015
not painful if you try it with me grin
Re: Should sex be this painful? by OsusuMustFlow(f): 9:30am On Dec 23, 2015
is sex not meant to be enjoyed? why pain?

hatux:
What do you want us to advice you on
Re: Should sex be this painful? by djeezy(m): 9:31am On Dec 23, 2015
Could be due to the size of the tool.

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Re: Should sex be this painful? by OsusuMustFlow(f): 9:31am On Dec 23, 2015
you get Osusu?

OnankpaBa:
not painful if you try it with me grin
Re: Should sex be this painful? by greatness22(m): 9:34am On Dec 23, 2015
Op, try ask a medical expert
Re: Should sex be this painful? by falconey(m): 9:37am On Dec 23, 2015
you should have try cucumber, its for amateurs before the real thing.
Re: Should sex be this painful? by misspicy(f): 9:40am On Dec 23, 2015
OsusuMustFlow:
is sex not meant to be enjoyed? why pain?

I know who you are diot undecided
Re: Should sex be this painful? by Nobody: 9:46am On Dec 23, 2015
Your moniker though...
Re: Should sex be this painful? by emzila(m): 9:47am On Dec 23, 2015
THE LEVEL OF PAIN EXPERIENCED BY DIFFERENT WOMEN AT FIRST PENETRATION DIFFERS. IRRESPECTIVE OF THE INITIAL EXPERIENCE, THE EXPERIENCE AND UNDERSTANDING OF YOUR FIRST MAN OR WHO EVER TOUCH YOU THE NEXT TIME WILL GO A LONG WAY TO DETERMINE YOUR PERCEPTION OF LOVE MAKING/PAIN. YOU NEED TO BUILD A MORE CLOSE AND FRIEND-LIKE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR MAN/GUY BEFORE THE NEXT ACT, DURING D TIME LAG BETWEEN WHEN U HAD YOUR FIRST LOVE MAKING AND WEN YOU INTEND TO MOVE ON TO THE NEXT LEVEL, LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL AND UNDERSTAND THAT U NEED EASY AND GENTLE ACCESS, YOU SHOULD HAVE SEVERAL pre-intimacy INCLUDING FINGER ACT. ALL THESE MUST NOT NECESSARILY END IN LOVE MAKING, THIS WILL EASE YOUR FEARS. THEREAFTER, YOU GUYS CAN BOTH DO THE MAIN THING WITH MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING OF THE SPEED LIMITED TO APPLY. I HOPE THIS HELP

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Re: Should sex be this painful? by hatux: 9:50am On Dec 23, 2015
OsusuMustFlow:
is sex not meant to be enjoyed? why pain?

That's prolly the size of the stick.
Re: Should sex be this painful? by kingofpool: 9:56am On Dec 23, 2015
Op try with me and u ll receive sweet jesus pain, coz of dey iron rod
Re: Should sex be this painful? by Rone16(f): 10:23am On Dec 23, 2015
It was probably the guy's fault.

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Re: Should sex be this painful? by AngryNigerian(m): 5:42pm On Feb 22, 2016
It depends on the width of the JT (though i sometyms wonder y because na der pikin de drop from)...if there is little or no lubrication, you might feel pain also. Also you could experience that if you don't relax & enjoy d 'show' - maybe itz not mutual, or you r jus doing it for its sake & its not from ur heart. Make love with the 1 u love, & who loves you! When you relax & do it right, the v*gin*l walls will be flooded with oily lubricating juice!

You could help relieve it by using some S*x gels and lubricants, if you still feel rigid...

What do I even kno sef...#TeamVirginUntilSheSaysIDo

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Re: Should sex be this painful? by Olufemiolaolu(m): 6:04pm On May 24, 2016
OsusuMustFlow:
Dear Friends,

I first had sex when I was 18 years old. As a virgin then, I expected to feel pain, but not the excruciating one I felt. This scared me and I didn’t even think about sex after that until recently.


Please help with advice.
For a small number of people, "genital fit" can be a cause of pain—i.e., your partner's quite large, and you're extra petite.The solution:Lube can help in some cases. But "in situations where the penis is hitting the cervix, or causing an uncomfortable level of stretch, it can help to change sex positions," says Herbenick. "A lot of times women don't feel confident saying, 'slow down' or 'be more gentle.' " Try a configuration, like woman-on-top, that gives you more control over the speed and depth of thrusting. Just relax ur mind, it doesnt kill. cheesy
Re: Should sex be this painful? by Sunkyphil(m): 6:21pm On May 24, 2016
OsusuMustFlow:

you get Osusu?

wetin b osusu
Re: Should sex be this painful? by Nobody: 6:29pm On May 24, 2016
Be specific on Wat u need advices on,

do u need someone to furk u
Do u want to know if it will pain again or not
Do u want to know the lub u should use Do u want to choose a member here to carry out the sweet operation and need us to choose for u




Which one abeg
Re: Should sex be this painful? by DateMynd44(m): 4:47pm On Aug 20, 2016
Sunkyphil:
wetin b osusu
money or cash. That's why her moniker is OsusuMustFlow which means money or cash must flow in abundance.
She needs man were get Osusu thats why she denied BABANGBALI and IYANGBALI cos the guy na poor man
Re: Should sex be this painful? by BABANGBALI: 5:01pm On Aug 20, 2016
DateMynd44:
money or cash. That's why her moniker is OsusuMustFlow which means money or cash must flow in abundance.
She needs man were get Osusu thats why she denied BABANGBALI and IYANGBALI cos the guy na poor man
if tear you slap your brain go reset

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Re: Should sex be this painful? by DateMynd44(m): 5:10pm On Aug 20, 2016
BABANGBALI:
if tear you slap your brain go reset
boss how far na? It's me FuckTheMods. Mynd44 change my moniker to datemyynd44, you see him life?
So how far na?
Salaafia lo wa?
Re: Should sex be this painful? by BABANGBALI: 5:17pm On Aug 20, 2016
DateMynd44:
boss how far na? It's me FuckTheMods. Mynd44 change my moniker to datemyynd44, you see him life?
So how far na?
Salaafia lo wa?
my man wetin dey happen now?I no know sey na you o. Na wetin you do those modafokas now?abi dem wan make you dey yansh dem ni?

Dem release iyangbali dis afternoon after about two months in their yeye prison
Re: Should sex be this painful? by annnikky(f): 5:23pm On Aug 20, 2016
BABANGBALI:
if tear you slap your brain go reset
grin grin grin grin
Re: Should sex be this painful? by BABANGBALI: 5:30pm On Aug 20, 2016
annnikky:

grin grin grin grin
na wetin?
Re: Should sex be this painful? by annnikky(f): 5:35pm On Aug 20, 2016
BABANGBALI:
na wetin?
undecided undecided undecided undecided
Re: Should sex be this painful? by BABANGBALI: 5:41pm On Aug 20, 2016
Re: Should sex be this painful? by annnikky(f): 5:45pm On Aug 20, 2016
Re: Should sex be this painful? by BABANGBALI: 5:48pm On Aug 20, 2016
Re: Should sex be this painful? by OsusuMustFlow(f): 2:46pm On Aug 22, 2016
BABANGBALI:
if tear you slap your brain go reset


grin grin
Re: Should sex be this painful? by BABANGBALI: 8:20am On Aug 23, 2016
OsusuMustFlow:



grin grin
Why you no wear bra na?see as your dis thing dey point out tongue tongue tongue
Re: Should sex be this painful? by OsusuMustFlow(f): 5:45pm On Dec 01, 2016
BABANGBALI:
Why you no wear bra na?see as your dis thing dey point out tongue tongue tongue

if i beat you
Re: Should sex be this painful? by Tyviv(f): 11:42pm On Dec 01, 2016
The guy na learner, try it with another guy cheesy

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