Benefits Of Experiencing A Failed Relationship


Hey.

People always see the negative side of situations like this but sincerely I do believe that it has pros too: by focusing on the merits, the demerits will dissipate into thin air.

I won't deny the fact that going through a breakup isn't a memorable experience. It's not easy and you can't control it either BUT you can do one thing; keep a positive attitude by not letting it break you down, your gender notwithstanding.

I put up this article because I've seen people go through the 'toughest' moment of their lives because one kinda guy or girl left them...is it really worth it? Let's see some benefits embedded in it:


1. It gives you time to re-evaluate your true needs in a mate

He says, I like a girl with this and that...If she has this size of boobs, I'll put a ring on it. Hmm, then reality sets in as she offends him. Suddenly, he talks as he would a tomato seller. She walks away. What went on? Reality. A failed relationship HELPS you see that a suitor whom you can laugh carelessly with is better than the one whose presence always command you to put up your best behaviour. Sincerely, what do you truly want in a mate? Most times, we want the temporary things and when they're no longer there, we cheat or leave. Hmm.

2. It gives you a dying passion to succeed at all cost

Lol, this happen both ways. For the guys, nothing is as painful as a girl leaving you cos you're broke, even if she's trying to hide it. This makes you go to work and employ this motto, "Get rich or die trying". For the ladies, it's especially when he despised you when you didn't look so beautiful. Somehow and someway, through hardwork , your hips and curves have all woken up. It's your time to do some "shakara".


3. It opens your eyes to see other suitors or options.

Some ladies while in a relationship they're not so sure of close the door to every other suitors. Many times we've seen it collapse and then she returns to Square 1. Until marriage, no relationship is certain.

4. Emotion is hot, so it calms your nerves a little.

There is a feeling that comes with being out of a relationship, especially a demanding one. It calms your nerves.

5. It helps you save

Being in a relationship can sometimes drain your pocket. You're not married but you spend like you are. Some married men spends less on their wives than you spend on her. Especially if she is materialistic and demanding, you can't save at all.
After letting her go, go and testify in church: "It wasn't easy, but God, in His infinite mercy separated us..."

6. You pay more attention to the people that really matters: FAMILY

Especially with ladies, some of them get so much involved in his life that they neglect their siblings and parents. How appalling!


7. You have a story to tell your friends, loved ones and unborn kids.

The BIG picture is...you have a story to tell anyone who come around you. You become somewhat experienced and helpful to folks.


In conclusion, every cloud has a silver lining. That person leaving your life is not the last. It doesn't mean you're not good enough. Know this: That you're pretty or too handsome doesn't exclude you from being cheated on. Everyone mustn't like you just because you're 'hot'. No! Keep calm. Choose values rather than just looks. A great future await you. Bon voyage!

.. This is so true and spot on!!...


I just want people to know gettin heartbroken doesnt have to do with u being handsome,pretty, intelligent or anything...


Sometimes.. I just think people need to go through this things and is neccesary for it to get us mre wiser and make us see what life is all about...

If u could go true heartbreak and successfully overcome it.. What will break u again will definately have to come from another planet unless it comes from U...

So Me and Deborah didnt work for some of these reasons


Emusmith, We missed creative and informative shiiit like this on Romanceland mehn

. . Twale baba!

Not every broken relationship is a failure. Some broken relationships are just too beneficial to be tagged failure

But op is right with his points tho

Spot on
Nice write up

Mazamaza o wa o

Gbam! Exactly! But wouldn't experience it.

thread from a broken hearted dude

Different strokes 4 different folks

So on point op tho i wished i never experienced a failed relationship.


The experience wasnt funny at all.

okay

fυςk!!! fυςking lovely write up; on fυςking point;

So on point op tho i wished i never experienced a failed relationship.
The experience wasnt funny at all.

in fυςking agreement with this comment; it's not a fυςking funny experience;
bloody fυςking ŝhit!!!; especially if one was “crazily fυςking in love"
BUT... if one fυςking survives; the fυςking experience fυςking makes one fυςking wiser and fυςking stronger;

rawpadgin:
thread from a broken hearted dude

He's talking from experience.

noted

Agree!

nothing

It activates your adrenal medulla.

if I know

Where is the love sef?




Does it still exist ?




Sigh !!!

Some naija girls are heart breakers.. they ll brk it in such a way dat U won't heal

All the lover boys in the house, this ain't my field. The likes of Tony should take over am heading to politics section.

Sorry hope, ah know yu are a victim. experience is the best teacher they say

hmmmm

allanphash7:
Where is the love aef?



Does it still exist ?



Sigh !!!

Sharp guy

The only benefit I know of is -
You get the freedom to explore more fresh kitties.


Abeg I need prayers o. I nor wan carry toto matters enter 2016.

I agree
you learn from your mistakes

Ok