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Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by justnaby: 11:48pm On Jun 09, 2009 |
Salam, please I need your opinion on this argument i have with my friends. Is it allowed for a sister to see a fellow muslim brother, admire his faith and fear of Allah, and propose to him? I know it is frowned on in our society but what of Islamically? |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by Lagosboy: 3:30pm On Jun 10, 2009 |
It is 100% hallal and accepted in islam. The prophet's (PBUH) wife Khadija RA proposed to him and she was 40 while he was 27. She was impressed with his impeccable character and honesty. Another of the prophets wife proposed to him as well i just cant remeber her name right now. There is nothing wrong in it in islam and we should care less about what the society says about it. If you fancy a man go for it with full confidence and dignity. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by Frizy(m): 4:46pm On Jun 10, 2009 |
Lagosboy: You said it all. There is nothing wrong in proposing to a Muslim man as long as you said he fears Allah. If he does, he would not use that as an avenue of unnecessary exploitation. |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by justnaby: 7:53pm On Jun 12, 2009 |
Thanks. Sincce it is a sunnsh and we are advised to follow the sunnah. Its just a shame people discard it for westernization. For. e.g. saying hello to fellow muslim instead of the distinct Asallamualaikum to each other. |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by Lagosboy: 12:01am On Jun 14, 2009 |
justnaby: Very true indeed. People forget that salam alaekum is a dua on the other persona and the reciprocation is dua itself. shame !! |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by AFEEFA(f): 10:17am On Sep 21, 2009 |
Lagosboy:Yes! Shame indeed. |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by fizzybaba(m): 5:48pm On Sep 25, 2009 |
change of topic it is allowed. Prophet Muhammad and Khadijat marriage proves a worthy example. but pride wont let our sisters do that. i can understand how difficult it is for a present day sister to propose. she can at best show love signals and i know men aint slackish when they see signals. |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by mukina2: 6:00pm On Sep 25, 2009 |
lol ; fizzybaba: |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by Abuzola(m): 6:01pm On Sep 25, 2009 |
And salamu alaikum is the best greeting and earn for a reward |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by fizzybaba(m): 6:06pm On Sep 25, 2009 |
mukina2: I am so wondering what the teeth is all about |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by mukina2: 6:28pm On Sep 25, 2009 |
nothing oh |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by GODSON2009(m): 6:33pm On Sep 25, 2009 |
of course it is allowed,do you know the ratio of islamic men to women these days? |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by focused123(m): 1:11pm On Nov 30, 2009 |
@poster : Afterall Khadijah proposed to Muhammed first. Although Khadija is older than Muhammed. |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by Abuzola11(m): 3:32pm On Dec 01, 2009 |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by zayhal(f): 12:30pm On Dec 22, 2009 |
If she can't make a direct proposal due to bashfulness or fear of being turned down, she may go through someone who knows the brother well and has the wisdom to carry out the job well. A case happened around me recently. The sister liked the brother and was too shy to go to him so she went to the brother's friend and started asking questions about the brother. The brother understood what she wanted and asked her if she didn't mind the brother. She affirmed and the brother got to work. The wisdom he applied that I really liked was that he didn't go to tell the brother in question that hey sister so and so likes you. he just told his friend that he's been watching that particular sister and thought they could be compatible. the friend said, really? and watched the sister for a couple of days too and found that he liked what he was seeing. At the long run, it was the brother who went to propose to the sister. And did she accept! So different ways can be used that won't put the sister in a difficult situation because the truth is, though Islam permits it, it's not so easy for a woman to walk up to a man and propose. 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by Lagosboy: 1:03pm On Dec 22, 2009 |
zayhal: Love the story !!! |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by Nobody: 5:44pm On Feb 08, 2010 |
funny.am proposing to someone already but hes proving hard, dnt know why |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by mukina2: 5:50pm On Feb 08, 2010 |
good luck sister |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by Nobody: 5:51pm On Feb 08, 2010 |
YEAH YEAH MUKI,dnt know why hes been like that,hes not acting according to sunnah |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by mukina2: 5:55pm On Feb 08, 2010 |
maybe he is scared |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by Nobody: 6:57pm On Feb 08, 2010 |
@muki,about my moonface or what? |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by Lagosboy: 7:07pm On Feb 08, 2010 |
A brother shouldnt do shakkara o when a sister proposes, he should either accept or be polite enough to let her know why he his declining. There should be no pretence in serious matters like this. But some sisters dont propose directly and feel the brother should understand the message , often times they are wrong and the bro doesnt have a clue while the sis thinks he his being mean. A woman once proposed to the Prophet PBUH and he politely declined and other proposed to him and he accepted so there is nothing wrong in it either way. |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by mukina2: 7:08pm On Feb 08, 2010 |
uplawal:dunno what you talking about jare @ topic i proposed to lagos boy and he is running away |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by Nobody: 7:28pm On Feb 08, 2010 |
sister muki uve forgotten u once called me moonface(makeup tingy) |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by Nobody: 7:31pm On Feb 08, 2010 |
and why is lagosboy running away?maybe you re too beautiful,anyways,its Abuzola baby i wanna propose to right now, am just praying he accept my humble proposal |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by mukina2: 7:32pm On Feb 08, 2010 |
uplawal:i already apologised , didnt mean it, and i hope you forget about it too uplawal:abuzola? i nor talk oh |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by Nobody: 7:34pm On Feb 08, 2010 |
@mukina,am only joking about the moonface tingy,av forgotten since ,pls just do me a favour,dont shy away from it, i seriously want Abuzola,i love his zeal |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by mukina2: 7:39pm On Feb 08, 2010 |
chei you love want Abuzola? Good luck in that dear |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by Nobody: 7:50pm On Feb 08, 2010 |
thank you sis |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by mukina2: 7:52pm On Feb 08, 2010 |
you need it |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by Nobody: 1:12am On Feb 09, 2010 |
uplawal: he probably isnt interested in female jihadists. this false "sis, bro" going on between slaves is quite funny. How can you be "bros and sis" when there is NO biological or spiritual link to you? |
Re: Is It Allowed For A Sister To Propose To A Fellow Muslim Brother? by mamagee3(f): 2:16am On Feb 09, 2010 |
I don't know anything about Islam because I'm a Christain. |
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