Hi nairaland ...
Couple of month now i met that boy who has stolen my heart ... that particular day i learned the meaning of loving without reason ...
Myself i am a muslim white girl from europe and he is a nigerian christian living in nigeria ...
I am 3 years older than him ...
As the christian in africa are different then the one in europe i almost dont realise any difference between islam and christianity apart from that we dont believe that Jesus a.s. is Allahs son ...
Now iam asking myself, as i wanna marry this guy because he is my soulmate - has someone any experiance in it ... not hving just different cultures even different religions ...
Myself im wairing a scarf and do all duty i have when it comes to m religion and i wanna teach our kids the same i do and my fiance says he has no problem with it ... i really do love him and his family and i respact them and their religion ... and i wanna get rid off of this BUT ...
thx u alll
May Allah bless u all

Since your partner has no problem with your religious differences i don't see what the problem is. Hopefully your parents and siblings are cool with it too and not the 'my daughter can never marry an infidel' type. I've seen cases where parents or the brothers have killed their daughter/sister in extreme cases of honour killings. So sort that bit out and you guys would be fine

That's your own cup of tea o

Couldn't sleep all night because of mine too

Tend to yours

Since d understanding is there
there is no problem

Women just decide to control everythn in marriage... Wives, be submissive to ur husbands.

I'm also in a similar situation. She's muslim and I'm Christian & I love her with my whole heart but she told me she can't marry me because her parents will deny her mtcheew... Religion ehen.

I've seen many Christians marry muslims, but either way the children end up being Christians, cos they find islamic religion boring. I don't know if the Op is a Nigerian, but by right the children practice the religion of their Father but if the father is not strong like ur fiancée then the children would be all yours.

since u lovebirds have an understanding...den go ahead

How did you been a white in Europe meet a guy in Nigeria? When you hint on that then I will have something to say. This story looks like fiction to me.

Religion!!!!

The biggest scam of all

Make the story No change in future oo!!

A sincere answer is don't go into that marriage. You already know why. Remain blessed, sister.

My parents they are not against it at all ...
I met him by chance on linkedin and we started chatting for just some month. So i decided to visit him to see if its not fake and all was real, all he was telling me. His family accepted me and also his friends ... i felt home
I will pray for it and im sure Allah swt will show me the right way as always till now ..
Myself ive ounties which are christian and they are all still married and happy ...
I was just blown away from the fact how different christians are in europe, they dont follow any rules and he is nor drinking alcohol nor eating swine and we have the same view on several lifestyles ...
So i ask u all to pray for us ...
May Allah bless u all and guide u on the right path!

All I know is maga go soon fall! Watch this space

i just hope ur muslem brothers wont kill u
bcoz i hav heard many cases where??

good luck anyways!

Dear OP,

Under the Sharia'ah (Islamic law), it is not permissible for a Muslim lady to get married to a non-Muslim.

kaycii1:
i just hope ur muslem brothers wont kill u
bcoz i hav heard many cases where??

good luck anyways!

No they wont i live in europe not in the jungle. People respact each other till u respact them

Afonbelivit

@ OP

Like i said earlier, it is not permissible for a Muslim lady to get married to a non-Muslim man under the Sharia'ah (Islamic law).
If you really love the young man, you may preach and encourage him to embrace Islam. If that doesn't work, you might have to start giving other Muslim guys a chance in your life.
Believe me, there are a lot of young, handsome, cool, educated Muslim guys around you. With a little effort from you, you'll have them swarming around you in no time .
Meet and interact with Muslim families, go to Muslim functions, ceremonies and before you know it, you'll meet and fall in love with that dashing Muslim guy .

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Please would you quote me and tell me why I am a fool?

Please!

If you don't I'll just summarise you as an EMPTY barrel making the most noise.

Sister, I can only say u should pray about it, who knows? U might be the God sent guidance to him

Am also dating a christian gurl naw...at d begining it was argument everyday buh allihamdulilah everything seems fine now...buh 2 marry a diff religion it takes patience and understanding to avoid argument
...buh I love her gidi gan sha nd I thinks she loves me too sha..u both can carry on

lanre147:
Am also dating a christian gurl naw...at d begining it was argument everyday buh allihamdulilah everything seems fine now...buh 2 marry a diff religion it takes patience and understanding to avoid argument
...buh I love her gidi gan sha nd I thinks she loves me too sha..u both can carry on

Your case is not the same as hers and you know it. Please do not encourage what is not right in Islam.

One thing I know about Islam in Africa and Asia is that it is normal for a guy to marry a non-muslim but If a muslim girl dare to marry a non-muslim dude, all hell will be let loose on that girl. Thank goodness the Op is from Europe where there's less sentiment. @Op The fact is if you both love yourself and are compatible like you said, then you are "good to go". I had to let go of my ex because she was scared of her life and the constant threats from friends and families was getting too much.... #itsAcrazyWorldOutThere

Sexkills beth whyyyyy
Why you like lies like this

numericalguy:



Your case is not the same as hers and you know it. Please do not encourage what is not right in Islam.

Hmmmm.....you permit a muslim marrying a non-muslim woman, but you do not permit a Christian marrying a Muslim woman.....that religious hypocrisy and biase.

SonOfEl:


Hmmmm.....you permit a muslim marrying a non-muslim woman, but you do not permit a Christian marrying a Muslim woman.....that religious hypocrisy and biase.

Last time I checked, we don't need your permission neither do we need your approval on how to live our lives as Muslims. If you don't like it, you can pay a visit to the nearest NEPA transformer.

Islam is a craziest religion ever known to man.