Well, the deed has been done. No loser, no winner. Lol
But if I was him, and I don't want unprotected sex, if she insists, the best thing to do is BREAK UP with her. So simple!


Ps: I'm not taking side. Just saying things how I see them

Analysiscorner:
Yes, chances are that she doesn't know her hiv status. But what could be her motive for insisting on having it raw? I feel that she is very much aware of her hiv status; but, as she doesn't want to lose the guy when he eventually finds out, devised this means of insisting to do it raw, so that if he is infected too, it would be the point of no return in their marriage - they would just marry. A brother to a friend of mine married such. And despite his wife's knowledge of her hiv status b4 marriage, did not disclose such to him, even after marriage and giving birth to their first baby. It was not until the baby became persistently sick, and the hospital ordered for hiv test ,on the baby which came out positive , that his wife opened up to him that she was aware of her hiv status before marriage .The happy part, though was that the husband tested negative.

Analysiscorner:
This is why jungle justice persists in Nigeria. The burden of proof may be hard to present in a law court, but that doesn't mean that the case lacks merit. The op is not, by this post, celebrating drugging and obtaining any body fluid by force; he is only happy for saving a life, wishing that none of us falls for such lady.

On the contrary, jungle justice in this instance would not be necessary, that is why walking away from the relationship should have been his best option, there was no need for him to do all he did.
If the lady had died from the drug, all this we are arguing about here will be Stories that touch, Jail will be his abode now!
This is Advice to anyone in a similar situation, Do Not Drug Anyone, walk away!

Tamee:


You want proof huh

what proof? GerrarahiA joor

How you been anyways?

nduchucks:


What the OP did is unethical on all levels. Fullstop.

Yeaa, no argument on that! Ethics are always forgotten when dealing with terrorists! America soldiers did not follow ethics when they killed Osama Bin Laden.

STFUareyouGod:
what proof? GerrarahiA joor
How you been anyways?

Lol Been good, thanks.

So simple and easy

MsSantaClaus:


On the contrary, jungle justice in this instance would not be necessary, that is why walking away from the relationship should have been his best option, there was no need for him to do all he did.
If the lady had died from the drug, all this we are arguing about here will be Stories that touch, Jail will be his abode now!
This is Advice to anyone in a similar situation, Do Not Drug Anyone, walk away!

JustHere2Observ:
I can't believe an educated and professional will violated another person's right like that just because your friend cannot manage his own matters.

If your friend was not sure of her and doesn't feel safe, he should have broken up with her or if he loves her that much he should have insisted on his no unprotected sex stance.

Smh.

wat do u nw wanna believe?......sum1's life is on d line & u xpect him to follow protocol abi......ur HIV is nxt on line

donem:

You are a shame to be a human being for the shitt you spewed in your last paragraph.

A life was saved that's period, I don't care the manner it was achieved.

Besides you sound like an acatalectic hypocrite, because if u where the one saved u wouldn't have typed the above.

You are the hypocrite, and your ignorance has no bounds.

May your lot continually fall into the hands of such a "saviour" doctor.

Tamee:


Lol
Been good, thanks.

Good yur good. Btw what's Bowie?

Docmann:


I am human and i accept my mistakes here, but he tried in bringing her to the hospital,but she refused, the guy has almost fallen for this,he cant just break up without a concrete evidence that's him for you. You said he would have still insisted in his unprotected sex stance, what if a day come and he lose guard on that,what happened at the process, remember we are all human and most times emotions are very powerful.

Guy u just dey talk story. Ur frend alredy fvcked her 4tyms wtout protection.
My advice is wait abt 3mnths and run anoda test on ur frend b4 concluding.
Raw sex dey sweet sha.

homesteady:


Yeaa, no argument on that! Ethics are always forgotten when dealing with terrorists! America soldiers did not follow ethics when they killed Osama Bin Laden.

You seem to be unable to focus on the issue at hand. How Mr. Laden and American soldiers take enter dis matter now? na wa for my people o.

after the pcr/viral test and ur nigga tested negetive,,,what if he's still in his wndow period

STFUareyouGod:
So simple and easy

Not so simple or easy when your in love, but simpler and easier than what they did and much simpler and easier than being arrested and going to jail. Just goes to show, in we humans, common sense isn't so common! Love makes us vulnerable and stupid!! But the law doesn't take that into consideration, so at times it's wise to take a step back and rethink, I blame the OP , as he was NOT IN LOVE, he was meant to be the one thinking for his friend, yet he led him into a quagmire ,what is his excuse??

jmichlins:
To what use is protection when your having MouthAction. Be happy for giving your friend a lifeline and try the test go three months time

Are you sure ur friend just had ordinary virgin sex with her? No Mouth-mouthactions? No mouth-valvaactions? Which I know are usual exercises accompanying penis inserting. I will encourage you to ensure you retest that your friend again after 3 months.

Please, let us all(male and female) be careful.

nduchucks:

You seem to be unable to focus on the issue at hand. How Mr. Laden and American soldiers take enter dis matter now? na wa for my people o.

Ermmm.... you are finding it hard to connect the dots?

MsSantaClaus:

Not so simple or easy when your in love, but simpler and easier than what they did and much simpler and easier than being arrested and going to jail. Just goes to show, in we humans, common sense isn't so common! Love makes us vulnerable and stupid!! But the law doesn't take that into consideration, so at times it's wise to take a step back and rethink, I blame the OP , as he was NOT IN LOVE, he was meant to be the one thinking for his friend, yet he led him into a quagmire ,what is his excuse??

Isn't this quite amazing? The girl is left blameless? Wowww

When will the part to be released?

Well, I believe it's so simple and easy. Why? Cuz they'll break up anyways. If she had agreed to go for test and the result came out positive, he'd break up. If she'd insisted on no sex with condom, they'll still break up. And doing what he did, they ended breaking up...... So you see why I said it's easy and simple? Cuz every step the could think of would still end in break up

MsSantaClaus:

Not so simple or easy when your in love, but simpler and easier than what they did and much simpler and easier than being arrested and going to jail. Just goes to show, in we humans, common sense isn't so common! Love makes us vulnerable and stupid!! But the law doesn't take that into consideration, so at times it's wise to take a step back and rethink, I blame the OP , as he was NOT IN LOVE, he was meant to be the one thinking for his friend, yet he led him into a quagmire ,what is his excuse??

homesteady:


Isn't this quite amazing? The girl is left blameless? Wowww

Bros, let's assume the test came out negative, what would have happened?

Issue like dis happened to me two mnts back that almost got me landed in jail.. Spent roughly 40K to get mysef out of the issue.. The gal got me arrested. I don't know how my friend leaked the secret to her.. Collected the sample from her. Pretending to run widal and malaria parasite test on her.. Den I did HIV test also. The result was positive. But I refused to tell her the result. Later on. I was arrested. The DPO told me I carried out the test out of her consent.. And again.. I refused to disclose the result to the real owner of the text.. But told my friend about it.. Spend 10k to bail mysef.. And 30k for damages.. With series of please am sorry.. Never in my life will I do that again.. I asked my friend to do that test.. Cos hardly in a mnt the gal won't sick twice..

nduchucks:


You seem to be unable to focus on the issue at hand. How Mr. Laden and American soldiers take enter dis matter now? na wa for my people o.

Bin Laden, not armed nor resisting arrested, ought to have been arrested and not killed. That is American law and even international law. But they killed him to end the Bin Laden story once and for all.

Good
but pls can you help me with the change of username?

STFUareyouGod:
Bros, let's assume the test came out negative, what would have happened?

The guy would have married her.

exco90:
Issue like dis happened to me two mnts back that almost got me landed in jail.. Spent roughly 40K to get mysef out of the issue.. The gal got me arrested. I don't know how my friend leaked the secret to her.. Collected the sample from her. Pretending to run widal and malaria parasite test on her.. Den I did HIV test also. The result was positive. But I refused to tell her the result. Later on. I was arrested. The DPO told me I carried out the test out of her consent.. And again.. I refused to disclose the result to the real owner of the text.. But told my friend about it.. Spend 10k to bail mysef.. And 30k for damages.. With series of please am sorry.. Never in my life will I do that again.. I asked my friend to do that test.. Cos hardly in a mnt the gal won't sick twice..

Thank God for saving you, and more so that you have known your errors

ShammahBarnabas:


He also has the right to know she is HIV positive if they are having sex, protected or not. She can also be sued for her actions, CD's are not 100% protective as you know.

I SUSPECT ALL THOSE CASTIGATING D OP AS HIV VICTIMS N D UNFORTUNATE ONES. AM A MEDICAL LABORATORY SCIENTIST, I UNDERSTAND WAT OP N HIS FRND DID. HIV TEST STRIP, A BUFFER WATER AND A LANCET. ITS EASY. SO I SUPPORT WAT HE DID N IT COMPLIES WITH MEDICAL ETHICS ON PATIENTS WHO AV UNGLY SKELETON ON THERE CUPBOARD. IF U REPORT THE OP TO D NPF, U WIL BE ARRESTED INSTEAD

STFUareyouGod:
Bros, let's assume the test came out negative, what would have happened?

Stop assuming and face reality! If she knew she had no skeletons in her cupboard, she would have gone for the test.

INVINCIBLECSP:
I SUSPECT ALL THOSE CASTIGATING D OP AS HIV VICTIMS N D UNFORTUNATE ONES. AM A MEDICAL LABORATORY SCIENTIST, I UNDERSTAND WAT OP N HIS FRND DID. HIV TEST STRIP, A BUFFER WATER AND A LANCET. ITS EASY. SO I SUPPORT WAT HE DID N IT COMPLIES WITH MEDICAL ETHICS ON PATIENTS WHO AV UNGLY SKELETON ON THERE CUPBOARD. IF U REPORT THE OP TO D NPF, U WIL BE ARRESTED INSTEAD

Really? Are you serious?

homesteady:


Stop assuming and face reality! If she knew she had no skeletons in her cupboard, she would have gone for the test.

why then are you assuming she's aware of her HIV status?

Analysiscorner:
The guy would have married her.

lol and when the girl gets to find out about what happened?

Well, the deed has been done, no winner no loser

My advice to every girl, did you see how easy it was to drug this gal? Be careful of the kinda guy you date...that stated, AIDS is real, use protection..

INVINCIBLECSP:
I SUSPECT ALL THOSE CASTIGATING D OP AS HIV VICTIMS N D UNFORTUNATE ONES. AM A MEDICAL LABORATORY SCIENTIST, I UNDERSTAND WAT OP N HIS FRND DID. HIV TEST STRIP, A BUFFER WATER AND A LANCET. ITS EASY. SO I SUPPORT WAT HE DID N IT COMPLIES WITH MEDICAL ETHICS ON PATIENTS WHO AV UNGLY SKELETON ON THERE CUPBOARD. IF U REPORT THE OP TO D NPF, U WIL BE ARRESTED INSTEAD

am also a medical lab scientist,wat are u saying,,,dont u knw d ethics of medlab

STFUareyouGod:
why then are you assuming she's aware of her HIV status?

I feel his assumption is based on the fact that the lady refused to undergo hiv test.