Desiré:

I have to admit, I wouldn't know how to respond to this. It is perfectly normal to be jealous though as long as you can control it.

I got a question though, while he was flirting and complimenting you, what was your response like?

oyinda.:

maybe he's giving up on you. lol over a year is a long time
you don't like him back do you? why were you jealous?

chihums:

i'm feeling sleepy

chihums:

i commend ur polished english. if ur conduct is polished too and u are beautiful. never too worry ur Mr right will come. if he truly loves u he'll do all he can to get u, no matter how hard u play to get not flirting with ur friend. a lot of guys like people who sincerely are hard to get because those ones would ever be faithful wen they are gotten. my advice is dat wen u see the rite man that has d qualities u want go 4 him. if he truly loves u he'll like everything about u and not compare u wit another.

FL Gators:

If you care enough to be  jealous, then you gotta tell him what you feel.

Before you lose him
. . . . .and?

chihums:

sorry, if i may ask 'how old are u? u sound very precious

I haven't heard it put that way before.

I'm not a teenager, I'm slightly naive and very open, I don't pretend to know more than I do, and question asking can make me seem like I lack knowledge or that I'm young and impressionable, but if you spoke to me in real life, I'm quite sarcastic and at times sceptical.

chihums:

topup, sorry o. i didn't mean to embarrass, intimidate or even put ur knowledge into question. i was just trying to find out if u are above 20. though i didn't put that well. hope u understand.

No worries.

You didn't embarass me.

chihums:

my advice is dat wen u see the rite man that has d qualities u want go 4 him.

SeanT21:

He is after your friend. He is just using you to get close to her.

1 of those GAMES MEN PLAY!!

topup:

Maybe that's it, maybe that's all it takes. But that contradicts the advice above, about a guy who is truly interested will do almost whatever it takes to get his desired girl.

This guy has sent me numerous signals, but we've mostly been out of sync, when I was willing to reciprocate, he would be more focused on the 'single life' and dancing with random girls on the dancefloor and chatting up girls and collecting numbers, and when I lose interest, he compliments me about being beautiful and being too good for my ex. He wanted me to break up with my ex and he did give me the vibe he was really interested, but when it came down to it, he didn't initiate anything. It wasn't just me who was dwindling.

Who knows maybe he actually has no idea of how I feel. . does that matter though? I know most confident guys would chase the girl of their dreams, and maybe others wait for encouragement, but really, I don't feel to encourage someone who seems to lack focus. I don't want to pick him, I want him to pick me.

topup:

I met him a year ago, along with many other people, he went his own way and I mine, and made his own friends and over the course of the year we've been working together in a group, causing a lot of frustration, so I was never interested since he was always criticising me and bossing me around. He was never consistent with the signals either.

Maybe he is giving up on me, though I wouldn't say so since he still gets really shy and freezes around me, but it doesn't really matter since he's travelling soon. . lol The story of my life.

oyinda.:

now that I think about it. you and topup have a few things in common. but as you can see, she doesn't really like it when guys are huge flirts so don't ruin your chances now