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Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by hertheytheydgee(m): 1:19pm On Jan 09, 2016
Hi
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by busybeei5(f): 1:20pm On Jan 09, 2016
They often get married to one of their kind
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by iamodenigbo1(m): 1:20pm On Jan 09, 2016
Keneking:
I don't know.

Are you in an orphanage? Have you been adopted? It appears you worry about your future. Anyway, kindly remain there as the street is dull.
sorry, I roll with matured mind

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Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by youngwarlocks: 1:22pm On Jan 09, 2016
louiskay:

Fish Brain
Aim achieved!!!
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by bidemi12(m): 1:22pm On Jan 09, 2016
SHAIBULIAR:
no take am do money ritual o grin

Ritual ke. The girl go enjoy till the day e die. Im life don better from day one.

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Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by geesilver(m): 1:22pm On Jan 09, 2016
iamodenigbo1:
wao I was at holy ghost cathedral Enugu and decided to visit the home there and this thought occurred to me me and I decided to ask
I have visited SOS home on a countless number and from what I was told by one of their matron, they actually train them on some skill acquisition amd those who are fortunate to go to university are sponsored and allow to integrate into the large society.

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Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by Youngzedd(m): 1:23pm On Jan 09, 2016
That was then, these days they get adopted immediately they're born.


You can only find disabled ones in motherless babies home.

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Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by iamodenigbo1(m): 1:23pm On Jan 09, 2016
calliope:
statistics States Dat kids the have dysfunctional childhood/teen hood have more tendency to be a productive adult, they would strive, nature always finds a way.....
Most kids from good home and upbringing ends up wasted!
So dis kids(orphans) works so had so their seed doesn't go 2ru d same hardship... Dat why our parents gives us d best, so we will be beta off......
But finally Grace and destiny plays a big role in all of it.
which tribe and village do they go back to when they are old?
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by Akosxxx(m): 1:24pm On Jan 09, 2016
I ve thought of this myself
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by ArchEnemy(m): 1:26pm On Jan 09, 2016
iamodenigbo1:
and after getting the skills what else knowing the kind of society we live in?
struggle to survive
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by SHAIBULIAR: 1:28pm On Jan 09, 2016
bidemi12:


Ritual ke. The girl go enjoy till the day e die. Im life don better from day one.
in dat your face me i face you one room and why a baby girl? and not a boy ? Bidemi, i hope not what i am thinking?

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Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by SHAIBULIAR: 1:29pm On Jan 09, 2016
busybeei5:
They often get married to one of their kind
KINDS not kind grin
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by akudinaobi(m): 1:31pm On Jan 09, 2016
Oh boy only this your pics alone go prsue attendants from the programe, the hair cut too mean mehhhn
chichriso:
They will be settled in one location or the order

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Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by bidemi12(m): 1:34pm On Jan 09, 2016
SHAIBULIAR:
in dat your face me i face you one room and why a baby girl? and not a boy ? Bidemi, i hope not what i am thinking?

Lol.. .That is the real problem in Nigeria. When you surround yourself in poverty for so long, you'll start to think it is the same for everyone. I understand. God will assist you. Anyway, I already have three boys which is why we are thinking of adopting a girl. Plus, if it does happen, she will not be growing up in Nigeria. God forbid.

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Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by MrImole: 1:35pm On Jan 09, 2016
My question is, how do they give them names especially surnames?

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Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by busybeei5(f): 1:36pm On Jan 09, 2016
SHAIBULIAR:
KINDS not kind grin
undecided
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by SHAIBULIAR: 1:38pm On Jan 09, 2016
bidemi12:


Lol.. .That is the real problem in Nigeria. When you surround yourself in poverty for so long, you'll start to think it is the same for everyone. I understand. God will assist you. Anyway, I already have three boys which is why we are thinking of adopting a girl. Plus, if it does happen, she will not be growing up in Nigeria. God forbid.
bidemi can lie,bidemi oniro. photo of yourself,wife,shedrens,house and statement of bank account or i don beleive it. grin

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Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by SHAIBULIAR: 1:39pm On Jan 09, 2016
busybeei5:
undecided
wetin?why you dey spoil mouth?
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by bidemi12(m): 1:41pm On Jan 09, 2016
SHAIBULIAR:
bidemi can lie,bidemi oniro. photo of yourself,wife,shedrens,house and statement of bank account or i don beleive it. grin

There was one time another NL was doing what you are doing now. I had to take some pictures then post it here and the Nairalander was thouroghly embarrassed. Then again i was insulted by other Nairalanders for showing off. Lol.....You can't satisfy everyone. I will pray for you. I believe 2016 will be your year. Say amen.

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Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by iamodenigbo1(m): 1:43pm On Jan 09, 2016
MrImole:
My question is, how do they give them names especially surnames?
yea what surname do they bear?
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by kalufelix(m): 1:49pm On Jan 09, 2016
The ones wey i knw later turn olosho...
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by Nobody: 1:50pm On Jan 09, 2016
I do feel pity for them especially the babies cry. I will adopt one when I get older smiley

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Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by 2Awesome: 1:50pm On Jan 09, 2016
many ti ko ni ru oluwa ni o man ba le eshinshin. the cow wey ni get tail na GOD dey help am pursue flies..

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Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by Nobody: 1:51pm On Jan 09, 2016
What of the apprentice thing igbos are fond of? An orphanage is the best place to find an apprentice, one who'd see you as his uncle when done because he had no family to begin with. I'm guessing an apprentice of this sort would care for you even better than an offspring because knowing their potential outcome without your investment they'd stay eternally grateful to you.

I watched a documentary on orphans in Korea. Their wish when most of them hit age 8 was to get adopted because they believed it offered a better life. Coincidentally adoption really provided a better life because when the adopted ones came visiting their old friends who they grew together, most of the ones who never got chosen grew and picked the option of working for orphanage thereby not achieving much in life while others adopted got jobs of one sort or the other.
One thing I noticed was all of them saw each other as siblings and the ones with employment connections always tried their best to consider their orphanage 'siblings' for roles they could fit in before anyone else.

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Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by Nobody: 1:56pm On Jan 09, 2016
iamodenigbo1:
sorry, I roll with matured mind

Go ask the matured minds you are fraternising with. Ok.
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by Nobody: 2:00pm On Jan 09, 2016
Before then,most of them would have been adopted and have families to call their own.
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by abubakaa(m): 2:04pm On Jan 09, 2016
zyzxx:
They have God... He care and he will always care for them
e no easy sha....not all of them knows God

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Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by Xsolutions: 2:05pm On Jan 09, 2016
Asking a question is good, but we musn't stop there...WE MUST DO SOMETHING TO HELP THEM, take responsibility for a number of them that you can handle.
If you have a WILLING HEART and a WILLING MIND, funds and resources will begin to gravitate towards you for this purpose.

EVERY CHILD IS YOUR CHILD, EVERY MAN IS YOUR BROTHER, EVERY WOMAN IS YOUR SISTER.

It must become a PASSION...

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Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by Holmes07(m): 2:17pm On Jan 09, 2016
calliope:
statistics Shows Dat kids the have dysfunctional childhood/teen hood have more tendency to be a productive adult, they would strive, nature always finds a way.....
Most kids from good home and upbringing ends up wasted!
So dis kids(orphans) works so hard so their seed doesn't go 2ru d same hardship... Dat why our parents gives us d best, so we will be beta off......
But finally I think Grace and destiny plays a big role in all of it.
Whr did u get that kind of info?
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by cbaba: 2:21pm On Jan 09, 2016
Keneking:
I don't know.

Are you in an orphanage? Have you been adopted? It appears you worry about your future. Anyway, kindly remain there as the street is dull.



This advice has been very helpFul.

Which street are u On?
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by Nobody: 2:25pm On Jan 09, 2016
cbaba:



This advice has been very helpFul.

Which street are u On?
The one close to you; the third house

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