My own view is, if one has committed abortion and is scared of infertility...... Go run a thorough fertility test on yourself and decide the way forward after that

flokii:


I once knew a girl then that did 9 straight abortions..

diff. guys were just sleeping with her anyhow on d same street... and very beautiful girl at that

twuz her younger sister that told me tho. cos we were friends.. she probably overheard her discussing it

hmm mm....... Really serious. The girl should just do practical fertility test by getting pregnant b4 marriage or run a lab fertility test quick..... Infertility is not funny all over the world. If celebrities like John Legend can feel it omor Africa is not an exception

doveda:


You have mummy issues!


ode!

E pain you? Sorry ooo,but I've made up my mind sissy.

creamylicious:
hmm mm....... Really serious. The girl should just do practical fertility test by getting pregnant b4 marriage or run a lab fertility test quick..... Infertility is not funny all over the world. If celebrities like John Legend can feel it omor Africa is not an exception

if not for my careful nature.. who knows, she might have taken advantage of me too then

cos twuz like a curse on her to sexx anything with di*ck... such a pity

fertility is very important in marriage both male & female side.. just too important

doveda:


You have mummy issues!


ode!

E pain you? Sorry ooo, no going back on my plan. Even that mad one that hit like for you get heart pain ooo..Sorry!

As soon as relationships is getting serious, couples should start discussing their health issues and just like one of the first questions you will be asked by a nurse or doctor if you check into a clinic is if you've had a surgery. Abortion is a medical procedure that your future husband needs to know about, when the question comes up, just go ahead and clear the air, it's part of the healing cos everyone who has had an abortion should now know they had killed an innocent soul and ask forgiveness from God. Couples who get married without knowing all of these are deceiving themselves and would both be strangers to each other cos of the emotional aftermath they won't be able to express or have to cover up with another lie, and when they discover who they've been married to, it would be too late.

doveda:


Marriage is no longer what it used to be, even if it were, we know how they behaved in those days when their wives couldn't bear a just a male child. Things haven't changed, you can use Nairaland as a case study. Concepts like 'love' or 'For better for worse' do not encompass abortion, at least in most cases.

This is why it's always preferable to marry a virgin girl for the sake of peace of mind.

chaiiii,,human beings neva change... what Toke said is bad...call a spade a spade.

In as much as I am not happy with the advice, I totally agree with what she said.
Forget love...
Most guys love a girl and still sample side chicks.
You see many guys on NL claiming they want a virgin for a wife meanwhile they'll spend their last penny to get 5mins off an oloshos timetable.

Once the guy knows about that part of your past, he'll always use it against the girl whenever they have issues.

Somethings are better left hidden.

Of all the examples in this world, a young lady will wake up and say it's Toke Makinwa that's her role model to take life lessons from. No wonder there's so much stupidity and promiscuity these days.

If you need advice on excessive make up or fake accent of course she should be your mentor. Let it end there though.

doveda:


Amen!

What have you experienced that is new under the sun?

If you want a virgin, you must also be a virgin!!!

nah, that is not what I am saying ... anyways i made my point, don't want any of my friends telling one day that my wife was a cheerful giver .... sefini

doveda:



Na you go come tomorrow ans write an epistle on babymama

Abortion is not dangerous if carried out by an authorised professional i.e a doctor and at the appropriate period

abortion is just a sugar coated name for murder

Abortions when done by certified specialists under sterile conditions are safe, and do not cause infertility.

What causes infertility in women however are STDs!!! which are preventable by wearing condoms. Other causes of infertility in women may not really be helped like hormonal stuff, endometriosis, congenital problems, but these can also be treated.
Now 50% of cases of infertility are male factors, and the other 50% female. So its not fair to just push the burden of infertility on women.

Am not surprised at Toke's statement. Relationship expert who claims to know all but didn't know or couldn't detect when hubby was going back to bang and impregnate his ex. I laff cos Toke herself must have some special worms in her life hidden from her husband. And to think females would leave model marriages to focus on toke's advice on her vlog of pancaked face. God help us all.

The problem is that men are more jealous than women..


Ppl blaming toke are all getting it wrong,I have had couple of discussions with some friends who sees nothing wrong in marrying a prostitute but as a man,a Nigerian man I see something wrong in it of cos it's a different case when you don't know she's an olosho same as it's a different case if u don't know about her abortion.


There was a nollywood movie dat I watched sometime featuring mercy Johnson... THE man can't concentrate in his office,beat up maid's, nepa officials etc cos he's of the opinion that they are knacking his wife and this was cause they met at the club...



Tell Nigerian men u had abortion and they had be like chai olosho, prostitute etc( not minding the fact that some ladies were raped etc)..... He might not complain now but don't dare overstep ur boundaries oooo

See all of them spitting fire like they want to die