Mjshexy:
Hmm...brotherly i would advice u to just stop calling her for now, give her d space she wants, don't evn reply her messages, i knw it won't be easy 4u but just try it out. If she really loves u & misses u so much she will come begging u. Also if u have a female frnd around get around her or make frnds with people & take ur mind off her.
If she doesn't come begging u then it's obvious u have lost her. Thanks

scantee:
Cc: @Yetsay, @wroskian

scantee:
coppied and digesting. Thanx

Trunaijian:
You are putting too much pressure on her. If you really love her, there are some measures you must take. Though not easy, they are necessary
1. Call her less
2.Don ever call her friends and ask them to talk to her or narrate your ordeal.
3. If she asks you for anything, if you are disposed, give it to her and still maintain your infrequent communication.
4. Date another girl
As hard as the above measures may seem, they are to open your eyes to the reality of marriage. If she is gonna be yours, she will get back her senses and make up. Sometimes people get bored and tired of relationship. Not that they don't care, they just get bored. When you space yourselves, you will taste something different and realize what you have been missing or realize and value what you have. If she is yours, she will come back. You have fought for her already. Its left for her to choose.

firstking01:
see the monikers u dey invite to come advice u,,,well, make i bench here first

scantee:
what do u mean by wanting to get marry to her severally? I said we agreed to get marry after her school, since are both still young no rushing, as for school fees & hostel whatever that is not a topic bro, i never said i did but if i do is nothing to regret because someting you do out of love is nothing, my major concern here is not about whatever i spent on her, that is nothing...my only problem is that i feel hurt for i so much trust her bro.

scantee:
lol those monikers are among the commentors in my previous thread concerning this girl, & they made some good senses in their observation/comments. Oya u advice ur bro na..

scantee:
lol those monikers are among the commentors in my previous thread concerning this girl, & they made some good senses in their observation/comments. Oya u advice ur bro na..

firstking01:
i 've dropped my own lil piece...in totallity...stp dating an undergrad, she will neva be faithful.

scantee:
@champella..why u de hide there?

mysticgal:
Scantee I can remember you complaining on your other thread about this similar ish , ermm sorry I will be blunt;without communication and trust, marriage between you two can't work. Tell yourself the truth and move on.
Sorry

Champella:


Chai! My boss, you still dey get carry-over on top this girl matter?


Na you cause am sha. You for just enter the transfer market sign plenty players. The likes of Portugal, France, Germany, etc have so many fine footballers.


The worst thing a man can do to himself is to let a woman call the shots in his life.


Lest i forget, she's not cheating on you. Those men around her are only coming to get wisdom and understanding from her.

boxer022:
My brother listen to me and listen good, the first mistake you made was to date a girl going into the university i.e. a student. She really took you for a ride and at the end dropped you like a bag of salt. The fact that she accepted to be tired of you shows you that she was never ready to settle down. I will like you to take it as she told you, move on with your life, ignore her totally. Show her that you are not a fool by looking for another good girl who is interested in you and date her for some time so as to study her, then marry her. As I said earlier, completely ignore the girl.

scantee:
harsh truth.

maoweidong:
Bro,if she's confused you shouldn't be. I always tell my friends no matter how much you love a lady,you still have to be a little selfish. One thing is certain no one really owns anybody,now you can also take your time and do some soul searching.
Decide what you want and go for it

boxer022:
My brother listen to me and listen good, the first mistake you made was to date a girl going into the university i.e. a student.

pinkycute:
She's confused for real and she don't want to loose you as wel.

But have it in mind, there's this guy out there disturbing her, talking sweet nonsense to her, making her to lost interest in everything and it might affect her final.

@Op, you just have to be the man here, don't call her again, if you've the time, go and see her as a surprise, talk to her and make her understand that she'll be save in your hands this's the time she needs you most

Don't listen to all this NL guys concluding what they don't know. She might still love you, but confused due to pressure concerning some sitting things, of which she has already confirmed to you. You know her very well more than we here. And i believe you're not a kid, and you can tell if someone is breaking up with you. So my dear, do the needful and save your relationship

scantee:
just that the more she calls & text the more i feel for her and melt, and all these our outing/tripz pics on my phone & laptops is not helping matter @all, & i don't even have the mind to Del them..just can't believe this happning to me, but i have to face the reality.

yinkeys:

@scantee avoid this advice at all cost. Dump her ass & move on. If she calls you blank her. That girl ain't worth your sweat, do not settle for less. You're kinda really successful already to settle for rubbish or mediocre behaviour. It seems you haven't tried flirting before that's why you're so into one girl. Most of this h*es ain't loyal, have bad male (goons) friends & learn from how they handle girls. You're worth more than this bulls***. Bros man up & move on, there are waay better girls out there

scantee:
ya i undersands ur point just that is not that easy knowing how far you have gone with ur plans for over 3yrs now, it hurts more because i singlehandedly relegated all my female friends to the bench only to make her comfortable & win her trust, believe me i have hundreds of female crushers but i never gave them the chance just to make her happy..<in my next world i would never date a student> again....

scantee:
ya i undersands ur point just that is not that easy knowing how far you have gone with ur plans for over 3yrs now, it hurts more because i singlehandedly relegated all my female friends to the bench only to make her comfortable & win her trust, believe me i have hundreds of female crushers but i never gave them the chance just to make her happy..<in my next world i would never date a student> again....

wilybebsy:
#TrustIssues

hebenezher:
100 female crushers? jeez! the boy na van vicker

scantee:
ya i undersands ur point just that is not that easy knowing how far you have gone with ur plans for over 3yrs now, it hurts more because i singlehandedly relegated all my female friends to the bench only to make her comfortable & win her trust, believe me i have hundreds of female crushers but i never gave them the chance just to make her happy..<in my next world i would never date a student> again....