tubouncen:
Marry the third guy, he will change... Lolz

MzPecs:
I see no need for any advise here cos you already did that.

You love your first guy so what's with you accepting the other guys proposal?

If you're hardworking then why complain bout the first guy not being very well to do?
Complicated story!

PrimeMinisterr:
And to think someone actually believed this story copied from a magazine.

HateU2:
#Teamwastehistime# kikikiki two of them thou
May God put you through sisi

Anugod:
Hello nairalanders. Something came up that's bothering me and I would appreciate your input and contributions to find a solution to this ish.

I'll go straight to the point, it happened recently. I got proposed to by three different guys in the space of two days
Let me explain.
The first person has been asking me out for a while now, and actually, I like him. This is because of his simplicity and fear of God. He has every intention of settling down with me very soon, and to be honest, I consider him a suitable daddy to my future kids. The only challenge is, he's not very well to do.

The second guy is an old time friend who is actually in the friendzone. I never considered him for a life partner, just someone I could catch up with from time to time. This guy is quite financially stable. At least, more than my lovely first guy.

And the third guy? This one is not worthy of emulation by my kids at all. His kind of life is not what I'd want my children to grow up watching and following. He does several things that are alien to the life of Christ in me and I cannot picture myself settling with him. But ironically, he wants me at all costs, says he'd love to have a mother like me for his babies

Now to the issue. Guy 1 came around and asked me to marry him. He proposed with a small and simple ring. I was happy, I accepted his proposal. All went well.

Next day, Guy 2 came and ask me to accompany him out. Proposed to me publicly and with a more expensive ring. He made it impossible for me to say no, even though my heart was screaming out loud! Immediately we left there, I removed his ring and threw it somewhere.

That same day, while I was yet to recover from Guy 2's shock, Guy 3 showed up at my doorstep. I welcomed him like any other, only for him to burst my bubble by kneeling in front of me and popping the question. Sincerely I was miserable, but couldn't stop him from sliding this nothing less than 200k engagement ring down my finger.

Now, all guys left, feeling they had engaged me. I love my first guy but these other guys keep dazzling their wealth in my eyes. I don't want to endanger the future of my generation by giving them a father without the right deposit of good qualities to impart their tender lifes, and neither do I want to bring up kids without the necessary comfort they require.

Now, before you condemn me, I'm not a lazy lady waiting for manna to fall for me. I'm hardworking and doing all it takes to make life comfortable for myself and unborn kids. It's just that, when you have two or more options before you, not even you, would prefer the toughest one...(except it's really worth it).

So there you go, nairalanders, please advise me. What do you suggest I do?

Anugod:
Primeminister, it's my life story, it wasn't copied from a magazine.

Anugod:

I couldn't help it, not that I really wanted to accept their proposals

You know there's always something about starting from scratch and picking up from somewhere. Which would you prefer? To start up from scratch or pick up from somewhere, when you have something working for you already? That's my concern

PrimeMinisterr:

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lemme ask were you under duress to accept these three ? like on gun point?

Lol

Seriously, she need to answer this question

Ifakiland:

u agreed to marry 3 guys at once...ure a LovePeddler, I wish one of dem pour u acid. idiot.

PrimeMinisterr:

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lemme ask were you under duress to accept these three ? like on gun point?

Anugod:
Hello nairalanders. Something came up that's bothering me and I would appreciate your input and contributions to find a solution to this ish.

I'll go straight to the point, it happened recently. I got proposed to by three different guys in the space of two days
Let me explain.
The first person has been asking me out for a while now, and actually, I like him. This is because of his simplicity and fear of God. He has every intention of settling down with me very soon, and to be honest, I consider him a suitable daddy to my future kids. The only challenge is, he's not very well to do.

The second guy is an old time friend who is actually in the friendzone. I never considered him for a life partner, just someone I could catch up with from time to time. This guy is quite financially stable. At least, more than my lovely first guy.

And the third guy? This one is not worthy of emulation by my kids at all. His kind of life is not what I'd want my children to grow up watching and following. He does several things that are alien to the life of Christ in me and I cannot picture myself settling with him. But ironically, he wants me at all costs, says he'd love to have a mother like me for his babies

Now to the issue. Guy 1 came around and asked me to marry him. He proposed with a small and simple ring. I was happy, I accepted his proposal. All went well.

Next day, Guy 2 came and ask me to accompany him out. Proposed to me publicly and with a more expensive ring. He made it impossible for me to say no, even though my heart was screaming out loud! Immediately we left there, I removed his ring and threw it somewhere.

That same day, while I was yet to recover from Guy 2's shock, Guy 3 showed up at my doorstep. I welcomed him like any other, only for him to burst my bubble by kneeling in front of me and popping the question. Sincerely I was miserable, but couldn't stop him from sliding this nothing less than 200k engagement ring down my finger.

Now, all guys left, feeling they had engaged me. I love my first guy but these other guys keep dazzling their wealth in my eyes. I don't want to endanger the future of my generation by giving them a father without the right deposit of good qualities to impart their tender lifes, and neither do I want to bring up kids without the necessary comfort they require.

Now, before you condemn me, I'm not a lazy lady waiting for manna to fall for me. I'm hardworking and doing all it takes to make life comfortable for myself and unborn kids. It's just that, when you have two or more options before you, not even you, would prefer the toughest one...(except it's really worth it).

So there you go, nairalanders, please advise me. What do you suggest I do?

Anugod:
Ok I wasn't. But I didn't want to hurt feelings, the publicity and all that It would look so embarrassing. Plus I was shocked, since I wasn't expecting any of that. Happened like a flash, I was dazed that I didn't know what to say
I guess I was also being too soft-hearted

maoweidong:
U gave three guys the idea that you're dating them.When you're serious with your life you'll know what to do.

danduchi:
Forget the man with television and follow the man with vision

Obioraaa:
it aint compulsory to get married you know..

Rexhenrex:
apparently you already know what to do,although you messed up what you did was wrong accepting the second Guy's proposal knowing fully well u don't wanna settle down with him.

my advice is you use a clear head to think through everything happening stand your ground never be afraid to turn down what you don't want follow your heart,for the fact the first guy isn't doing well now doesn't mean he won't be tomorrow with your both heads you guys can be financially bouyant as a woman you might be the one he needs to become a rich dude tomorrow(he who finds a wife have found a good thing) u might be the break through the first guy needs!

follow your chest heart.

Anugod:
Sure, true. But how then can I bring to birth my wonderful kids of tomorrow?

babymama...


Employ a surrogate..


They're many ways.. It basically just takes sex n fertilisation to give birth...not marriage..

Anugod:
You really think so?

Obioraaa:
babymama...


Employ a surrogate..


They're many ways.. It basically just takes sex n fertilisation to give birth...not marriage..

tubouncen:


Give him ur conditions, let him knw where u stand... Since he sees u as a perfect mother for his unborn children, tell him that u also want a perfect father for kids