A friend of mine is in a relationship with a certain beautiful lady. He loves her so dearly. But the lady doesn't like seeing his mom. He has effortlessly tried to convince her to at least see his mom and subsequently like her but that led nowhere. My friend as much as I know about him loves his mom more than anyone I have ever seen. He talked it over with me so I advised he talks to her and find out why she doesn't like his mom but the lady had no answer to that. She said "I don't just approve of her, I don't like her to be honest". Isn't that a cold truth for him to deal with? Well, he wants to continue the relationship and doesn't know what to do. His mom doesn't know already if the lady likes her or not as such she is totally ignorant of this whole scenarios. What do you think he should do? Should he go ahead to continue the relationship and get married to her? Do you think she might change her attitudes towards his mom over time? Should he leave her? If you were the guy in this position what would you do? If you were the lady what will you plan on doing? NO INSULTS PLEASE!!!!!!

iice:

Even if she doesn't like the mother.  .  .if she loved him, she would have tolerate the mother because she is his mother

That is what I thought.

Maybe the lady doesn't approve of being pressured to meet his mother. Depending on how long they've been dating he should let nature take it's course. When the time is right, she'll meet the mum and then he'll have concrete proof of whether or not she likes his mum and what she's willing to do about her feelings if she doesn't. No need for premature actions.

i dont really think i would get along with someone who doesnt like my family. for no valid reason just simply "i dont approve of her" "i dont like her" this isnt a enough reason for me. even if you dont like her at least you have someway to tolerate her at least like iice said. i mean seriously between her and bf's mom who suppose to approve of each other? she's saying "i dont approve of her" as if to say his mom is just like any other woman out there that he can easily get another one so she can "approve" of.

She doesn't approve of her?   She aught to be worried about his mom approving of her! Some nerve. If she loved him she can at least be kosher. You can just say hi and bye you don't have to develop any kind of close relationship with her but at least be kosher. I mean that is his mother.

i'm not surprised, some gals wished their mother in-laws 2 be were dead, good she didnt hide it but he shd let her meet his mother b4 takin drastic steps

biola44:

i'm not surprised, some gals wished their mother in-laws 2 be were dead,  good she didnt hide it but he shd let her meet his mother b4 takin drastic steps

arent those "gurls" missing something? arent they forgetting that one day they will become mother in laws themselves and their daughter in laws will always be wishing them death also. lol

Hw wil u luv me & my mom is an exceptional? She must love both of us.

There is a a serious problem here.This is not a good sign at all. I will advise your friend not to go too far for the time being. There must be problems in her family which has not been addressed and she has carried it forward into the relationship. Today is the mother, tommorrow could be for the father, then the siblings and finally the guy.

Tell him to take his time to study the girls family and he will discover the truth. There is no point continuing a relationship where your partner dislike your flesh and blood for just no reason. What will happen to your friends and business associate if she didn`t like their face. You berra watch before you jump into the other side of the fence because their could be broken bottles

I have 9 women in my life. . . If my babe refuses to meet with all of them, she can as well forget about marriage.

~Sissy~:

arent those "gurls" missing something? arent they forgetting that one day they will become mother in laws themselves and their daughter in laws will always be wishing them death also. lol

i wonder,

~Sissy~:

arent those "gurls" missing something? arent they forgetting that one day they will become mother in laws themselves and their daughter in laws will always be wishing them death also. lol

blessed are thou for knowing these things. as they say flesh and blood. some people make you laff. she does have nerves

such girl should be run away from
they can do and undo

ur friend should try 2 find out if his mum did something wrong 2 his gal. if der's no existing prob between dem, then ur friend should put an end 2 d relationship. if d gal cant tolerate her guy's mum, then she's not worth hanging around with. if ur friend should make d mistake of carrying along d relationship 2 a marriage level, then he should be ready 2 desert his mother, and that will worse for him. d gal should be impressing and not disapproving.

handwriting is on the wall, sooner or later that relationship will nosedive

Change ke? who dash am? she no go change lai lai. Abeg borrow leg run, except if u wanna dissociate urself from ur family as well!

She must have a reason.