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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Themhi1: 5:43pm On May 06
lilwetdick:


what were you guys doing? praying or what.. that is why she left you..i dont even believe your story..you are a known troll

I can't force you to believe
About the relationship, I was afraid of talking about sex or even doing anything related to dat.
I am an extremely shy and a reserved guy.
Thanks for ur contribution thoI

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Jodha(f): 8:22pm On May 06
I can't believe this thread made it this far... wow shocked
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nastydroid(m): 10:38pm On May 06
Jodha:
I can't believe this thread made it this far... wow shocked
when something is relevant it lives forever.
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Jodha(f): 7:24am On May 07
Nastydroid:
when something is relevant it lives forever.


This is relevant?....okurrrrr
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nastydroid(m): 8:19am On May 07
Jodha:



This is relevant?....okurrrrr
why do you keep coming around as if you forgot your shoes here? undecided

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Jodha(f): 8:31am On May 07
Nastydroid:
why do you keep coming around as if you forgot your shoes here? undecided

I'm just surprised... it's bin more than a year now..
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Dbliz(m): 5:57pm On May 07
kollinzgee:
Plz my niggas the bang rule is not for lazy guys if you know you are the type of guy that is lazy and does not like practice Plz don't come and disturb me for the book. Start practicing from the day one you read the book or my nigga you will be wasting time
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Pls guy, abeg i need d bang rule
divineblizzy1@gmail.com
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by lakesidepapa(m): 12:36pm On May 08
Dbliz:

Pls guy, abeg i need d bang rule
divineblizzy1@gmail.com

Zero nine zero eight one four zero two one two five



chat me on whatsapp and I will drop u the bang rule and advanced bang rule, couple with some seduction books.

it is free of charge..
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Godsein: 11:39am On May 09
Shout out to all the gurus on this thread!
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Mrcapability7(m): 3:49pm On May 09
it is me bro laxetude..Can i have her contact.
thank you
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by laxetude: 4:59pm On May 09
Mrcapability7:
it is me bro laxetude..Can i have her contact.

thank you
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Mrcapability7(m): 8:04pm On May 09
laxetude:
beauty

thanks bro
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by laxetude: 8:07pm On May 09
Mrcapability7:

thanks bro

Crop out the number from ya post
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by temi4fash(m): 11:20pm On May 09
Themhi1:


I can't force you to believe
About the relationship, I was afraid of talking about sex or even doing anything related to dat.
I am an extremely shy and a reserved guy.
Thanks for ur contribution thoI

So for your mind now....

Sez is the ultimate ba...

Forget sex and build self confidence...
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by sconp: 8:34pm On May 10
Mrcapability7:

thanks bro
Remove the number from your quoted post
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 12:07pm On May 11
SENSE PILL

The crimson red of love cripples the balls and renders down reasoning , therefore, bud with a lady that loves you not the one YOU love

Until such a time when youve taken mastery of self n balls.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by jackals(f): 3:46pm On May 11
@Harddon, Don't you see my message all the whiles? Don't worry, I'm taking you out and everything is on me if that is what's scaring you from reaching to me. I have sent you an email also. I'm sorry if it look like I'm derailing. Just wanna spoil you bad without my man having any knowledge of it.Lols cool
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Godsein: 6:38pm On May 11
HARDDON:
SENSE PILL

The crimson red of love cripples the balls and renders down reasoning , therefore, bud with a lady that loves you not the one YOU love

Until such a time when youve taken mastery of self n balls.
baba look into my post na
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by asobo: 8:01pm On May 11
HARDDON:
SENSE PILL 22:

Money and fine face buy u fakes,makes u balless n drains u resources , wit wines and funny lines find u loyals n life time boss eternal bliss!
Good evening boss. I have this particular lady were I stay n she really likes me this I know for sure. I gave her my phone to input her digit on a particular day n she didn't hesitate. After like. three days I sent her "Hi, I heard u missed me so much n can't wait to melt into my arms in warm embrace. This my line call" from your previous write up. She called a day after I sent it and a day later I sent this "Hi, I saw your beep yesterday. Who could this be?". But in between the two messages, we chatted for like three hours. So visited my place n asked if I texted her but I said I wasn't the one. She didn't say anything. Boss what should be my next step?
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 8:34pm On May 11
Godsein:
baba look into my post na

Usually, I would, when schedule permits, as interactive as possible, respond wholly without hesitation nor reservations...

However, not to questions that hairs have been split on countless times.
It makes me wonder which is harder: to think up, filter, type, edit and reedit, before posting or just flip on the pages and READ.
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by PaulAris: 8:58pm On May 11
asobo:
Good evening boss. I have this particular lady were I stay n she really likes me this I know for sure. I gave her my phone to input her digit on a particular day n she didn't hesitate. After like. three days I sent her "Hi, I heard u missed me so much n can't wait to melt into my arms in warm embrace. This my line call" from your previous write up. She called a day after I sent it and a day later I sent this "Hi, I saw your beep yesterday. Who could this be?". But in between the two messages, we chatted for like three hours. So visited my place n asked if I texted her but I said I wasn't the one. She didn't say anything. Boss what should be my next step?
LMAO!!!
Is this a real question?
I doubt you read the thread to learn, you just picked up lines that he gave for examples and used em'.
And now that its exhausted, you coming back for more.

He made this thread to drill you and not for you to drill through it.
Quit handpicking, learn it all.
Master the art of words

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by PaulAris: 9:13pm On May 11
Godsein:
Shout out to all the gurus on this thread! Pls I need some clues,real clues...

I've three hot girls as neighbors in campus,just next door to mine,for over a month now it's always been only greetings,good morning.. afternoon... evening,how are u etc bla bla,one of em just addresses me as neighborrrr,that's all.

I just need to get one of them,at least for now. I need clues and moves on how to get one of them.

Harddon & other gurus who know the drills,I'm all ears and waiting. Tankiu! One love.
Quick fix isn't gonna do you, go read all of the pages in the thread.
Cause if anyone puts up words for you to say, you'd come back requesting for more.
Master the art, so you'd be able to think up words for yourself.
He has tried enough, everything you need in learning the real heART of women is embedded in this thread.

P.S. He did warn about eating home meal, and you wanna wear the thorny crown by eating all three??!
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by PaulAris: 9:35pm On May 11
fatpogba7:
She's a shy person
Dude, as much as you wanna do it with her so bad, you gotta take it easy and not rush it.
Its her first, you don't wanna spoil the experience for her FOREVER!
She needs to be emotionally ready, and if her pace is very slow, you can quicken it a lil' for her.
Not by pressuring or anything of sought but by igniting that passion and lust in her.
Oh, you could make her hung and hot as hell, and she'd be begging you to ice it for her. Even if she hasn't done it before, instinct dictates that feeling.
And how do you make her want it? By subtly implanting the idea in her mind everytime you're together.
I said subtly not outrightly.
Warm her up to the feeling everytime.

And also, don't always breach the subject of her virginity. Makes it seem you just after that and nothing more. And I wanna believe you're after something more.

Whatever you do, don't let it get to you, keep your emotions in check.
Like he says, they smell "neediness" from miles away.
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by LeiderJa: 10:52pm On May 11
The dilemma of dilemmas.
At least for me since all the dilemmas are viewed through my eyes and processed by my brains.

Ever since I was a boy, I had this introvert character. My personality was literally silence. No childhood friends till 16 years.

Now I'm a 21 y/o man, testosterone levels are soaring through the roof and I'm trying to get outta my comfort zone but this character remains unassailable.

Everyday, spurred on by blue balls, I roam my books and the internet for knowledge of the art of seduction but my nature fails me when it's practice time. Unless I ingest some alcohol before hand.

In my 5 years in school, I have close to zero popularity outside my department. I just don't do people.

I know someone is probably scanning through this with the word "wuss" or it's equivalent in his mind but I assure you, only someone in this dilemma could understand.

I've seen the balance that being with a woman creates, my life was in equilibrium for 2 weeks. No brouhaha. No depression.

I may also be an impatient person sometimes.


I need a solution.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by jackals(f): 9:39am On May 12
Harddon!!!!!

Why haven't you reply my mail?

Justto familiarize with u, nothing more
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by bigpriik: 9:44am On May 12
LeiderJa:
The dilemma of dilemmas.
At least for me since all the dilemmas are viewed through my eyes and processed by my brains.

Ever since I was a boy, I had this introvert character. My personality was literally silence. No childhood friends till 16 years.

Now I'm a 21 y/o man, testosterone levels are soaring through the roof and I'm trying to get outta my comfort zone but this character remains unassailable.

Everyday, spurred on by blue balls, I roam my books and the internet for knowledge of the art of seduction but my nature fails me when it's practice time. Unless I ingest some alcohol before hand.

In my 5 years in school, I have close to zero popularity outside my department. I just don't do people.

I know someone is probably scanning through this with the word "wuss" or it's equivalent in his mind but I assure you, only someone in this dilemma could understand.

I've seen the balance that being with a woman creates, my life was in equilibrium for 2 weeks. No brouhaha. No depression.

I may also be an impatient person sometimes.


I need a solution.

most guys started like this don't worry practice and practice if you fail don't give up keep trying a time will come when you will improve you can wow yourself.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by jackals(f): 4:20am On May 13
Healthblog123:
How to Approach a Girl For The First Time And Win her Over
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Do you want to talk to a girl you don’t know? Here are few sure fire ways on how to approach a girl that will definitely help you make a great first impression.
Many guys find it difficult approaching a lady which I will say shouldn’t be. Most guys approach ladies but with the wrong methodology and this is why they get a NO for an answer.
There are certain things to put in place via observation and study of the lady in question. Walking up to a girl you’ve never spoken to before is like taking a dip in icy water.
It makes you nervous. Your heart starts beating faster than you can count. And your stomach inches closer to your tongue with each step you take.
But as a guy, knowing how to approach a girl is one of the most important things to know in the dating world.
Now I’m not going to make this any more difficult than you already assume it to be. Yes, talking to a girl who’s a stranger is not easy. But then again, if you know just how to do it without appearing like you’re picking her up, you’ll realize just how easy the whole game can be.
How to approach a girl you don’t know Forget pick up lines, forget bumping into her, and every other *smart* move you’ve heard.
I’ll teach you to keep it simple, and help you win her heart even before you say‘hello’. Here’s the only tip that matters and you need to remember it for the rest of your dating life. Always let the girl know you want to talk to her before you even talk to her. Don’t make the mistake of approaching a girl out of the blue and asking her out. It almost always never works, unless you’re a smooth talker with the gift of gab.
If you’re a regular joe who wants to turn into a chick magnet, just follow these steps and you’ll win her attention before you finish your drink!
1. Getting her attention :
You need to let the girl know you’re going to approach her. So warm her up to that idea to begin with by using these steps.
I) Glance at her.
Look at her now and then just to let her know that you’re trying to catch her attention. Be sneaky and discreet, and always look away just as soon as she catches your eye. You’ll arouse her curiosity and that’ll force her to look at you now and then to see if you’re still watching her.
II) The eye contact.
Each time she looks at you, look at her and immediately look away sheepishly. Continue to look at her now and then, and once in a while, lock your gaze at her for a small fraction of a second and look away again. By doing this, you’re already building the sexual attraction. But if she doesn’t reciprocate here, she’s probably not interested in you.
III) Appear awkward.
If you’re with your friends, look at her now and then, but appear like your distracted and not able to focus on the conversation you’re having with your friends. By doing that, you’re making her see that she’s on your mind and you’re too distracted to focus on your friends. That’s subtle flattery!
IV) Smile at her.
Exchange eye contact now and then, one or two times every minute and no more than that, and when you feel pretty courageous, flash a tiny smile from the corner of your lip for a second, and let her notice your smile.
Don’t give her a big grin though, a malicious big grin at this stage will scare any girl away.
These moves are all about building the connection and letting her know you’re interested in her. And at the same time, it’ll also help you understand if she too is really interested in you. If she responds to your gestures similarly, it’s a sign that she’s interested in talking to you too. But if she starts ignoring you at any point here, she’s probably not interested in you and you need to make your luck somewhere else.
2. How to start talking to the girl
Now that you’ve built the attraction and the chemistry, all you need to do is walk up to her and say something. Use these tips to approach her and start the right conversation.
V) Waiting for the moment.
Sometimes, all you need to do is wait for the girl to give you a chance to talk to her. If she’s really interested in you and wants to talk to you, she’d create enough opportunities for you to walk up to her. She could do this by walking to the ladies room alone, stepping away from her friends by answering a phone call, or even by just smiling at you and leaving the place.
It’s always easier to talk to a girl when she’s by herself. There are no distractions from her friends or awkward moments because she’s already expecting you to approach her. [Read: Things you can say to a girl while talking to her for the first time]


All that you typed here are pure nonsense. Believe me, if a guy pull this gibberish,I'll assume he has no life of his own
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Godhead4(m): 3:13pm On May 13
jackals:



All that you typed here are pure nonsense. Believe me, if a guy pull this gibberish,I'll assume he has no life of his own

You're not a girl! angry

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 7:47pm On May 13
HARDDON:
DRILL NUGGET 1

Why Gurls like bad boys:

Bad boys don't ''send''..... they live their life no matter what. They don't kiss up to any lady, infact they get aggressive when she throws some controlling tantrums.
They don't mind embarrassing her in public just to get their point across.

In summary, they are manly( ''ball-full'') because they sure know that every relationship has a CONTROL NOB, and the party who SENDS less has it. and that same party dictate how the r/ship roll. the party basically has the MUMU SWITCH of the other party and therefore can control the other party without as much as saying a word.....just a luk or a sound, wud suffice.
Women are aware of this potent power by design, they also know that the power lies with the guy from creation and wud do everything possible to STEAL(they do this either to test if the guy is truly what they make of him or just plainly acting IT or they just luv been in control) it from the guys......subtly, guys not-in-the-know, aint.


Now I am not advocating you become this crude: here is Hiw u can tap the positives off bad boys n be one ur self:
BE yourself @ all times: what does this mean? It means don't live ur life to please any gurl. Learn the act of saying no to some of her demands even though she knows u are capable of same. A girls that u always yeild to, wud soon friend zone u. You ain't worth been her man.

Know this, gurls r looking for alpha male not some kiss a33.......learn to always be in charge. This can only happen when u lay ur bed right from d beginning.

Yea I know, this is a tall order but is is very easy when u bring ur emotions under check before u even think of dating.

MODIFIED

Another reason is the compassionate part of them that just wano FIX things. They assume that Bad boys need redemption n they are d very ones to do it. They just need to show him a lil care, a lil touch, a lil hug, a lil prod , a lil luv n all wud be well. Lil did they know......


Also, bad boys luv mad wild adventure! Gut splitting, nerve wrecking, heart pumping n head spinning crazy adventure. N ladies just luv to be blown away!


Bad boys are sporadic.....unpredictable, they dont mind spoiling her by tasting her honey in public places...making her adrenaline pump wild! Imagine her cUming in such tensed situation( torn inbtw getting caught n the pleasure sweeping tru her veins)! How can she not luv him to bits? Stolen waters tastes sweeter! wink

They are sure to give her wild fun memories unlike d serene nice guy that wudnt even wano pound her hard cos he doesnt wano hurt her while in her mind she is screaming for heavy pounding, he is on slow n steady kiss kiss ride. embarassed

Bad boys teach em how to defend em selves, street sense n so many other crazy reasons out there.



SENSE PILL 1: Never sell yourself short. U were born to lead, but first you must conquer yourself. never let Jrod rule your ways.




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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by recentalasko(m): 10:55am On May 15
i have this girl that i fell in love with...and i "fooolishly" asked her out due to peer pressure and she said she doesn't want to spoil our friendship that we should just be friends(i'm more of a brother to her).
My issue now is what do i do now, do i just delete her from my life or keep been friends with
N.B: i still love her..any time i bump her on the way and we talk i get goose bums.
pls what do i do?
Cc Harddon Davidthegeek et al ur help is needed
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 6:28pm On May 16
HARDDON:
To help u take control of your emotions, u have to learn how to turn down ladies. start by the little things;
turn down that airtime request from that your crush, turn down that ur course mate/colleague lunch request, turn down that outing request, however u may, but subtly, funnily and cockily.

SENSE PILL 1b : for once, have d balls to be brave, be YOU and do things because you want to do them not because they cajole u to!
dont be fooled ladies know exactly what they are doing when they go demanding for things they dont even need and airtime they wud never call you with( this is how mugus and magas are made, this is where friendzoning begins) , it is your duty to fashion responses to deflect their demands and hold your sway.

Bae: babes could you u help me get that over there?
YOU: yea sure, after i'm done with this game..or you can say sure, if only u beat me in this game....we know that game isnt ending soon nor can she beat u, she wud be forced to go get it her self (subtle but very effective).

slowly u grow in this game: from subtle refusal to outright funny ones. the only time u wud master this act is when bae starts touching u, u respond, then when every one is steamy, all cloths off and she launches for ur weapon, remove her hand, she wud try again, remove it still, after the 4th time she tries u can let her, i can bet you it wud be explosive! dont ask me why tongue grin

then be man enough to turn her outright down one day!

i'm not really in the mood to get down tonight B, just want us to cuddle and kiss thereafter we sleep! she wud try her best but if you can stand your ground, you wud have passed this great test. she wudnt bliv it that a guy can turn her down with his hardness and her wetness! she might act funny thereafter, ignore it..... She knows u r becoming a Man! cool

the ultimate test in this self control drill is this:

try and hook a new catch, after the 1st - 3rd hang outs, they usually feel comfortable, wanting to come know ur place because you have been deflecting all talks away from where u stay( we wud talk more about this soon. it is a perfect way to have any lady BEG to come know your place instead of you begging to have her over as u have been doing and she has been refusing because she knows what your plans are already! embarassed )

so lets say you finally agreed to have her over, and after all said and done, reggae turned blues and u guys are on each other, cloths flying with supersonic speed off your bodies as u kiss( more on this in DRILL NUGGET 3) passionately in anticipation of a sumptuous session,
then just as she pulls u over and want u inside of her, u pull away, sit on the bed for a while thinking, then after a brief moment, pick your boxers and start wearing it! she wud be wondering what is happening, tell her u just lost it, that you gtg now. she wud cajole, implore, seduce and do all possible to have you, DONT YOU YEILD! remember this is a test! and to help you scale tru, always remember it your final test. wear your cloths, apologize and hit the street. u wud literally murder her with thots like : is it that he has a gurl friend and doesnt wano cheat on her? or is my kini smelly like that of that blogger? stretch marks on my laps? or is he impotent? cudnt B because i touched his hard Jrod..... is there something i did wrong? ...... cheesy cheesy if only she knew....

yea i know, it is not fair to do this to any lady, but sit back and ask yourself, is it fair to do this to a guy? Ladies do this to guys all the time that is why they have mastered the act of staying on top of their game, and only let in guys they really want into their web, and for you to master your act also, this you must learn to do, not with one, but as often as u can,,,,,u wud bcome a master in no time, Jrod wud learn its place and then cease to control you.

cool

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Blanc8(m): 11:39pm On May 16
jackals:



All that you typed here are pure nonsense. Believe me, if a guy pull this gibberish,I'll assume he has no life of his own

Interesting Opinion

Seeing exams questions before the exams and shouting the exam is easy jor

It's funny that no matter how much you think you how guys game ladies .. When you actually being gamed you wouldn't know

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