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My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by deGovernor2024: 6:40pm On Jan 28, 2016
Sequel to my earlier post below. My condition is getting out of hand.

https://www.nairaland.com/2862636/why-everyone-cares-when-too

Things are getting critical and my immediate family is tearing apart.

Mynd44, Lalasticlala, Seun ,davide490 and fellow Nairalanders.

Please your brother here is going through the most trying time. Things are extremely very bad from me. Like I said before my two kids are out of school for 3wks now cos I can't pay their fees again.

And secondly the menial job am doing can only provide food for the kids not their school fees.
I need to get the school fee pay but I don't know how to go about it. Please help your brother. I couldn't sleep home again cos of transport fare to the building site where am carrying blocks a least to get money for the kids feeding. I go home every 2 or 3days for now.

Please am in dire need of financial help and job now.

Frustration and depression are killing me gradually.
Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by Femich18(m): 6:49pm On Jan 28, 2016
Nobody can help except one dts being sent from God. Just talk 2Him and he ll surely send helpers ur way.Shalom

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Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by Sanchez01: 6:56pm On Jan 28, 2016
Well, my advice may come as 'mean' at this time but I believe desperate times calls for desperate measures. I read your initial post to understand this. I'd advice you withdraw your kids from wherever at this point in time into Government schools. That way, you'd only worry about their books and school materials and not their tuition fees. It's not like they'd be there forever though. You could change their schools again the moment God starts to raise you.

If you're in Lagos, I'd say you're lucky because most state government owned schools have good and qualified teachers than most private owned schools. If not, scout for a good state owned school in your state, which is quite close to your house.

It doesn't make sense when you're barely doing well and there's a huge task such as settling tuition fees when there are free state owned schools around.

I pray God turns around your story soonest.

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Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by deGovernor2024: 6:56pm On Jan 28, 2016
Femich18:
Nobody can help except one dts being sent from God. Just talk 2Him and he ll surely send helpers ur way.Shalom

That's what I have been doing praying and crying at the same time and it seems that help is still far from me.

And My daughter has been vomiting and stooling since last night but it had reduced a bit after giving her some drugs.

Am scared of my living now.
Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by Femich18(m): 7:02pm On Jan 28, 2016
deGovernor2024:


That's what I have been doing praying and crying at the same time and it seems that help is still far from me.

And My daughter has been vomiting and stooling since last night but it had reduced a bit after giving her some drugs.

Am scared of my living now.

wow, Xo sorry about dt. I bliv God ll surely sent helpers 2u even thru ds forum...if u dnt mind u can easily contact ur relatives dey should at leave render an helping hand
Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by deGovernor2024: 7:03pm On Jan 28, 2016
Sanchez01:
Well, my advice may come as 'mean' at this time but I believe desperate times calls for desperate measures. I read your initial post to understand this. I'd advice you withdraw your kids from wherever at this point in time into Government schools. That way, you'd only worry about their books and school materials and not their tuition fees. It's not like they'd be there forever though. You could change their schools again the moment God starts to raise you.

If you're in Lagos, I'd say you're lucky because most state government owned schools have good and qualified teachers than most private owned schools. If not, scout for a good state owned school in your state, which is quite close to your house.

It doesn't make sense when you're barely doing well and there's a huge task such as settling tuition fees when there are free state owned schools around.

I pray God turns around your story soonest.

Thanks dear.

They have been out of school for 3wks now. Am worried about their wellbeing and feeding. My 5 yrs old boy is so lean now. We now even easier eat once in a day.

Tears in my eyes as I type this.
Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by ogawisdom(m): 7:28pm On Jan 28, 2016
deGovernor2024:
Sequel to my earlier post below. My condition is getting out of hand.

https://www.nairaland.com/2862636/why-everyone-cares-when-too

Things are getting critical and my immediate family is tearing apart.

Mynd44, Lalasticlala, Seun ,davide490 and fellow Nairalanders.

Please your brother here is going through the most trying time. Things are extremely very bad from me. Like I said before my two kids are out of school for 3wks now cos I can't pay their fees again.

And secondly the menial job am doing can only provide food for the kids not their school fees.
I need to get the school fee pay but I don't know how to go about it. Please help your brother. I couldn't sleep home again cos of transport fare to the building site where am carrying blocks a least to get money for the kids feeding. I go home every 2 or 3days for now.

Please am in dire need of financial help and job now.

Frustration and depression are killing me gradually.

Hw did u get to this point in ur life, jobless with mouths to feed, am sorry but ur story sounds like a made up story to get job. Yes u r broke n jobless but cut out d part abt kids n all dt. Wat abt ur wife u forget her part in ur storyline.
Anyway God is ur only helper in this world hustle hard and cry to God in prayers for help. All d best.

It is nt easy for anyone at all if I tell u d kind astronomical rent increment way my landlord take well come me to my apartment this January 2016 u no go believe am
Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by deGovernor2024: 9:25pm On Jan 28, 2016
ogawisdom:


Hw did u get to this point in ur life, jobless with mouths to feed, am sorry but ur story sounds like a made up story to get job. Yes u r broke n jobless but cut out d part abt kids n all dt. Wat abt ur wife u forget her part in ur storyline.
Anyway God is ur only helper in this world hustle hard and cry to God in prayers for help. All d best.

It is nt easy for anyone at all if I tell u d kind astronomical rent increment way my landlord take well come me to my apartment this January 2016 u no go believe am

My wife had been the rock holding the family from the little income she made from her shop but for some time the shop is going down everyday because it's all and all to the family. The shop will be expiring in 2 months from now. You see why am too scared Bro. I have prayed but I will continue to pray more. Thanks for your concern and advice.
Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by Penielme: 10:33pm On Mar 08, 2016
The curse of the Lord is in the house of the thief!!!

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Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by Acidosis(m): 10:53pm On Mar 08, 2016
Penielme:
The curse of the Lord is in the house of the thief!!!

Op, you have lots of explanations to do.

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Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by GodnGold: 2:36am On Mar 09, 2016
Switch your children's school to govt school.

The time you spend here lamenting will be put to use if you do so.

Money is hard to come by now for everybody.

Then take your child to the teaching hospital it will cost you 300 naira to get the card and other stuff.

Your day pay should feed your family comfortably except there is something you are not saying.

manage yourself and feed them protein instead of indomie and bread.

Manage yourself and keep your dignity.

Man up!

Men don't squirm and wail like you are doing...its not good for your self esteem.

Man up!

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Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by boldx: 4:43am On Mar 09, 2016
If you are in Abuja, give me a call on 09099447385
Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by Penielme: 11:08am On Mar 09, 2016
People, please take note Mr Nwosu is only interested in money not job.

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Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by ifyalways(f): 3:38am On Mar 10, 2016
Penielme:
People, please take note Mr Nwosu is only interested in money not job.
Hmmn.

I love you jare. Once you appear, the OP disappears.

Can you give us the full gist cos obviously you've got something on him.

Anyways, any able-bodied person waiting on nlders to give him money this time around regardless of the sob story attached is gonna wait for a loooooooooooong time.
Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by blank(f): 6:22am On Mar 10, 2016
@OP, How come in 2013 you were single but in 2016, you have a 5 year old and a set of twins?


edunwosu:
Am a tall black guy at there in lagos searching for a soul that keep me company. Toll lonely to be leaving a life.
Get me on WhatsApp 07080172348 or 08187249876. shocked
Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by ifyalways(f): 7:11am On Mar 10, 2016
blank:
@OP, How come in 2013 you were single but on 2016, you have a 5 year old and a set of twins?


Oh, so it's Edun Nwosu?
Mscheww.
Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by Penielme: 8:21am On Mar 10, 2016
He's same Edun Nwosu. In one of his several lamentation threads, someone offered to give him a bus, he claimed he had no driver's license and couldn't drive manual only automatics. Is that practical at all?

I contacted him, because a friend decided to give him a job, he claimed himself and his family were very hungry. I decided to give him something, suddenly he brought further lamentations of his daughter started running fever, she's so sick and about to be admitted yet he had nothing. He became so desperate disturbing me everytime, I gave him 10k. Since then, this guy never said a word again about the job. He's on to the next victim.

He's a petty thief and the curse of the Lord is obviously resting on him. I really thought he was genuine and he even uploaded his fake family pictures o. It was the children I was even most worried about, and it's obvious they don't exist. Lazy man!

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Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by Acidosis(m): 8:26am On Mar 10, 2016
Penielme:
He's same Edun Nwosu. In one of his several lamentation threads, someone offered to give him a bus, he claimed he had no driver's license and couldn't drive manual only automatics. Is that practical at all?

I contacted him, because a friend decided to give him a job, he claimed himself and his family were very hungry. I decided to give him something, suddenly he brought further lamentations of his daughter started running fever, she's so sick and about to be admitted yet he had nothing. He became so desperate disturbing me everytime, I gave him 10k. Since then, this guy never said a word again about the job. He's on to the next victim.

He's a petty thief and the curse of the Lord is obviously resting on him. I really thought he was genuine and he even uploaded his fake family pictures o. It was the children I was even most worried about, and it's obvious they don't exist. Lazy man!
Thanks for speaking up.
Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by Vyolet(f): 8:43am On Mar 10, 2016
Penielme:
He's same Edun Nwosu. In one of his several lamentation threads, someone offered to give him a bus, he claimed he had no driver's license and couldn't drive manual only automatics. Is that practical at all?

I contacted him, because a friend decided to give him a job, he claimed himself and his family were very hungry. I decided to give him something, suddenly he brought further lamentations of his daughter started running fever, she's so sick and about to be admitted yet he had nothing. He became so desperate disturbing me everytime, I gave him 10k. Since then, this guy never said a word again about the job. He's on to the next victim.

He's a petty thief and the curse of the Lord is obviously resting on him. I really thought he was genuine and he even uploaded his fake family pictures o. It was the children I was even most worried about, and it's obvious they don't exist. Lazy man!
Reason I ignore most posts soliciting for one help or the other, imagine he even went as far as uploading fake picture of his family.
Seun, beware of these people.
Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by Penielme: 10:37am On Mar 10, 2016
Vyolet:

Reason I ignore most posts soliciting for one help or the other, imagine he even went as far as uploading fake picture of his family.
Seun, beware of these people.

Imagine, I felt really bad that he uploaded his family pictures and everything, yet nobody seemed interested. I should have also ignored him. I'm sure there are others that must have reached out to him as well. This is definitely his job!
Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by byvan03: 10:53am On Mar 10, 2016
OP come and defend yourself grin.
Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by deGovernor2024: 12:01pm On Mar 10, 2016
Penielme:


Imagine, I felt really bad that he uploaded his family pictures and everything, yet nobody seemed interested. I should have also ignored him. I'm sure there are others that must have reached out to him as well. This is definitely his job!
Penielme:


Imagine, I felt really bad that he uploaded his family pictures and everything, yet nobody seemed interested. I should have also ignored him. I'm sure there are others that must have reached out to him as well. This is definitely his job!

Seriously I don't know how to defend this but I will start so where.

I have another moniker that goes with edunwosu which is my real name. Whatever I posted using that moniker is me.

I was never a begger but in life things can change for you when you lest expected it.

I schooled in Lagos State university ojo where I finished in 2012 went for my nysc in 2013.

While in school I was working full time in one Mercedes benz company in surulere.

Then I had a girlfriend from Benin who got pregnant for me in 2010 got me a boy out wedlock name Michael Elochukwu.

But then we did a little traditional wedding. Things where moving fine for me and my wife were equally doing well in her business as selling.

All this while we were leaving in kilo surulere but I decided to moved to ikorodu where house is cheaper so I can start a family.

I was in ikorodu I bought my first Mercedes vboot for 350k later I had a little wanted to advanced with another car which I offered my car and extra 400k but was rejected.

My wife later advice we manage the vboot and go and buy land which is good idea.

Then we bought half plot of land at ijede at 350k.

Please remember all this was happening between 2013 to late 2014. Then my wife took in and born a girl named Mitchell Chinonyelum Nwosu that's was in 2013.

Then things where still perfect. I got her a big shop where I paid 240k in 2015 while work is going in the land.

Please if you know light house international school in cele bus stop at ijede road ikorodu you can inquiry about Mr Nwosu that was where my 2kids attend school but I have to withdraw them pending when ok again.

My daughter took ill last week that made sell off my TV to safe life. But seriously I don't know if it you that send me 10k and if it's you I must say I'm grateful.

On why I didn't respond for long please not I have been attending a series of interviews.

A guy offer me a bus buy I can't drive manual which I stated very clearly.

It may interest you know that I have been offered 2 job at ago. One was two days ago with a small pay and yesterday another job but much better than the first one.

Please I'm ready to answer any questions but please don't slander my name.

I'm not lazy nor a begger but in life things can make you do what on a normal day you won't do.

My father died when I'm till ss1 and since then I seen my self thru university level without any help from anyone.

I was once a Barrow pusher and a cleaner just to make ends meet which schooling from secondary days.

Please I'm not a fraud and fraudulent like you want me look.

Thanks for your help and understanding.
Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by deGovernor2024: 12:02pm On Mar 10, 2016
My pictures can be upload if anyone request
Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by PresVA: 12:14pm On Mar 10, 2016
ThankGod you've a job now... case closed!!!

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Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by luvly(f): 12:20pm On Mar 10, 2016
In your other thread you said you opened the shop for your wife two years ago and here you are saying you opened it in 2015.doesn't add up.
Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by deGovernor2024: 12:24pm On Mar 10, 2016
luvly:
In your other thread you said you opened the shop for your wife two years ago and here you are saying you opened it in 2015.doesn't add up.

I can't remember everything that I have done then but I opened up a shop for her.
Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by boldx: 3:06pm On Mar 10, 2016
Mr Guvnor, Please it wont be right to be asking people for money on a forum like this all the time. A man may ask for money a few times to shake up and settle bills but don't make it a habit. Its either you change your location and look for a cheaper place where rent is low and school fees is also low or you need to take up as many jobs as possible. Go and learn another skill as an artisan if the work you presently have is not fetching enough money. Husbands ought to have multiple streams of income.

Please stop this faceless online begging. Don't say all hands are not equal. God gave talents to everyone according to the Bible. Some, he gave 5, some he gave 3 and others, he gave 1. if you are more faithful by acquiring more skills, your earning power will increase.

Once you get a job, after work, look for other things you can do.
Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by Chidoks(f): 3:18pm On Mar 10, 2016
deGovernor2024:



Seriously I don't know how to defend this but I will start so where.

I have another moniker that goes with edunwosu which is my real name. Whatever I posted using that moniker is me.

I was never a begger but in life things can change for you when you lest expected it.

I schooled in Lagos State university ojo where I finished in 2012 went for my nysc in 2013.

While in school I was working full time in one Mercedes benz company in surulere.

Then I had a girlfriend from Benin who got pregnant for me in 2010 got me a boy out wedlock name Michael Elochukwu.

But then we did a little traditional wedding. Things where moving fine for me and my wife were equally doing well in her business as selling.

All this while we were leaving in kilo surulere but I decided to moved to ikorodu where house is cheaper so I can start a family.

I was in ikorodu I bought my first Mercedes vboot for 350k later I had a little wanted to advanced with another car which I offered my car and extra 400k but was rejected.

My wife later advice we manage the vboot and go and buy land which is good idea.

Then we bought half plot of land at ijede at 350k.

Please remember all this was happening between 2013 to late 2014. Then my wife took in and born a girl named Mitchell Chinonyelum Nwosu that's was in 2013.

Then things where still perfect. I got her a big shop where I paid 240k in 2015 while work is going in the land.

Please if you know light house international school in cele bus stop at ijede road ikorodu you can inquiry about Mr Nwosu that was where my 2kids attend school but I have to withdraw them pending when ok again.

My daughter took ill last week that made sell off my TV to safe life. But seriously I don't know if it you that send me 10k and if it's you I must say I'm grateful.

On why I didn't respond for long please not I have been attending a series of interviews.

A guy offer me a bus buy I can't drive manual which I stated very clearly.

It may interest you know that I have been offered 2 job at ago. One was two days ago with a small pay and yesterday another job but much better than the first one.

Please I'm ready to answer any questions but please don't slander my name.

I'm not lazy nor a begger but in life things can make you do what on a normal day you won't do.

My father died when I'm till ss1 and since then I seen my self thru university level without any help from anyone.

I was once a Barrow pusher and a cleaner just to make ends meet which schooling from secondary days.

Please I'm not a fraud and fraudulent like you want me look.

Thanks for your help and understanding.
With this profile, you shouldn't be caught begging. Like seriously, you couldn't drive manual and couldn't learn? Or you felt driving a bus is low but begging? Did you obtain your children's permission before advertising their names in such a degrading manner.
You still have that piece of land? Make sure you cultivate it this year, the rains have started. Like GodandGold said; nnaa please man up. I know folks that aren't as blessed as you are yet they are pushing through life with their dignity intact. You want to upload your family pictures for how much 10k?? When you turned down an offer. Who told you any pay is lower than begging? Get the low paying job, be committed and God will bless you. God only blesses efforts not begging ability. Nnaa, ike di kwa gi o!!!
Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by Chidoks(f): 3:34pm On Mar 10, 2016
boldx:
Mr Guvnor, Please it wont be right to be asking people for money on a forum like this all the time. A man may ask for money a few times to shake up and settle bills but don't make it a habit. Its either you change your location and look for a cheaper place where rent is low and school fees is also low or you need to take up as many jobs as possible. Go and learn another skill as an artisan if the work you presently have is not fetching enough money. Husbands ought to have multiple streams of income.

Please stop this faceless online begging. Don't say all hands are not equal. God gave talents to everyone according to the Bible. Some, he gave 5, some he gave 3 and others, he gave 1. if you are more faithful by acquiring more skills, your earning power will increase.

Once you get a job, after work, look for other things you can do.
Mr Nwosu, this is the most valuable advice to work on/with. In fact, I recommend you learn furniture making. Not carpentry but those guys that work with MDF, hdf etc. It's easier to learn, less stress, it's screw matter and their charges are boom! The kind of rides they control make you wanna wish you shouldn't have gone to school. So dear me, keep moving!!
Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by deGovernor2024: 4:23pm On Mar 10, 2016
Chidoks:

With this profile, you shouldn't be caught begging. Like seriously, you couldn't drive manual and couldn't learn? Or you felt driving a bus is low but begging? Did you obtain your children's permission before advertising their names in such a degrading manner.
You still have that piece of land? Make sure you cultivate it this year, the rains have started. Like GodandGold said; nnaa please man up. I know folks that aren't as blessed as you are yet they are pushing through life with their dignity intact. You want to upload your family pictures for how much 10k?? When you turned down an offer. Who told you any pay is lower than begging? Get the low paying job, be committed and God will bless you. God only blesses efforts not begging ability. Nnaa, ike di kwa gi o!!!

Thanks dear. But I wasn't begging for money I was only asking for help for a job. And now I have good job to take care of my family.

My pictures was uploaded on the request of Mr seun.

Thanks for your concern dear.
Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by blank(f): 11:03pm On Mar 10, 2016
@ RoyalRoy, kindly lock the thread as the Op is no longer in need.
Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by RoyalRoy(m): 11:45pm On Mar 10, 2016
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