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Very Important Body Languages Every Parent/Guardian MUST Know about their wards by investigator007: 12:32pm On Jan 31, 2016
We adults must have experienced most of these things listed below as kids but didn't know how to express ourselves.

Its good to be informed as a parent so you will understand your children more.



1. If your child lies to you often, it is because you over-react too harshly to their inappropriate behaviour.

2. If your child is not taught to confide in you about their mistakes, you have lost them.

3. If your child had poor self-esteem, it is because you advice them more than you encourage them.

4. If your child does not stand up for themselves, it is because from a young age you have disciplined them regularly in public.

5. If your child takes things that do not belong to them, it is because when you buy them things, you don't let them chose what they want.

6. If your child is cowardly, it is because you help them too quickly.

7. If your child does not respect other people's feelings, it is because instead of speaking to your child, you order and command them.

8. If your child is too quick to anger, it is because you give too much attention to misbehaviour and you give little attention to good behaviour.

9. If your child is excessively jealous, it is because you only congratulate them when they successfully complete something and not when they improve at something even if they don't successfully complete it.

10. If your child intentionally disturbs you, it is because you are not physically affectionate enough.

11. If your child is openly defiant, it is because you openly threaten to do something but don't follow through.

12. If your child is secretive, it is because they don't trust that you won't blow things out of proportion.

13. If your child talks back to you, it is because they watch you do it to others and think its normal behaviour.

14. If your child doesn't listen to you but listens to others, it is because you are too quick to make decisions.

15. If your child rebels it is because they know you care more about what others think than what is right.


Add more for others to learn

cc: seun , lalasticlala , mynd44 , royalroy , odumchi etc I think you guys too can learn a thing or two from here

Re: Very Important Body Languages Every Parent/Guardian MUST Know about their wards by investigator007: 12:35pm On Jan 31, 2016
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Re: Very Important Body Languages Every Parent/Guardian MUST Know about their wards by investigator007: 12:35pm On Jan 31, 2016
and this

Re: Very Important Body Languages Every Parent/Guardian MUST Know about their wards by Blessedgurl(f): 12:53pm On Jan 31, 2016
These are so true..... Every parent should take note.... It ain't about them but about the children that they bring up..... A weak child today shows the world where the parents failed....
Re: Very Important Body Languages Every Parent/Guardian MUST Know about their wards by gidjah(m): 9:15pm On Jan 31, 2016
Wao!,this is epic,permission to copy o!

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