Good evening everyone, how was ur day? Let me be brief about this. I had a gurl, we dated for 5yrs until last year. I loved her dearly but she toyed with my emotions and didn't care about what I feel. We quarrelled often but then, I still overlooked her wrong doings cos I loved her dearly and besides, her mum died in 2013 while she was with me. She had to travel home cos she is the 1stborn.

For that I simply loved her more and promised never to leave her which opened way for her to deliberately get me hurt that she boastfully said to me that I can never leave her in summary, "She didn't care about me". Well, to cut the long story short. She found out that I was done with my University education and suddenly wants to activate my "mumu botton" which had stopped functioning since I found love from a gurl I didn't even deserve her love.

Then we officially broke up. Not quite long ago, she sent me a request on facebook of which I accepted cos she had blocked me even on whatsapp, she unblocked me. She then posted in brief about our ups and downs on facebook and then followed it up by uploading her picture and putting the caption "I want you, I want us, I want it only with you" which is in line with the fights I used to pick up with her for not caring about "us".

Knowing fully well that she was referring to me even though I wasn't tagged on the post and that she visits my profile often, I quickly uploaded a photo of myself and my girlfriend with the caption "happiness simply means you" then my ex- suddenly sent a DM to me on FB that I should ve been man enough to break up with her before running into another gurl which I didn't reply cos she's not chatted me up on Fb since 2013.

The thing is that we broke up, she just wants an avenue for us to argue and settle things. In as much as I would love to reply her and tell her that we broke up, I'm weary of her begging and pulling some stunts jst to get back. I love my new gf and she's also in love with me and she doesn't deserve that I cheat on her not even with the woman I used to love.

I need you all's advice cos I feel like replying that DM but I'm also weary of her plans on getting back

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she's still in love.


she's angry you left her


this is what will happen if you respond to that text....


.... You'll both end up in bed


do you want that to happen?



it's up to you... #Shikena

Unfriend her and stop all communication. People should stop establishing contact with their ex lovers.

I believe in the principle (dont taste if you don't want to eat) you bleeped up by accepting her request.
Pay deaf ears to her messages, she will eventually get well of her madness

mayonnaise:
she's still in love.


she's angry you left her


this is what will happen if you respond to that text....


.... You'll both end up in bed


do you want that to happen?



it's up to you... #Shikena

No I don't. But she's accusing me on not breaking up before having another gf of which I and herself know dah she's telling lies about. Thanks for your advice, I really appreciate.

pet4ril:
I believe in the principle (dont taste if you don't want to eat) you bleeped up by accepting her request.
Pay deaf ears to her messages, she will eventually get well of her madness

Aiite dearie, thank you God bless you.

adeboizy11:


No I don't. But she's accusing me on not breaking up before having another gf of which I and herself know dah she's telling lies about. Thanks for your advice, I really appreciate.

bro... Forget what she says.

watch what she's doing

this is her way of keeping in touch with you, letting you know she's hurt it ended, and she can't accept that

she's in denail

mayonnaise:



bro... Forget what she says.

watch what she's doing

this is her way of keeping in touch with you, letting you know she's hurt it ended, and she can't accept that

she's in denail

Thanks boss. God bless you plenty!

Emi keshi, kima ladi, kima mudi..........Iranu....


























What am I even talkin bou

I don't knw wat to advice cos I don't knw Hw to advice people!
buh all I can say is,follow ur hrt!...do u still love her?

refiner:
I don't knw wat to advice cos I don't knw Hw to advice people!

buh all I can say is,follow ur hrt!...do u still love her?

There's no past tense in loving bro, it's either u do all u never did. But I don't wanna be with her anymore.

adeboizy11:


There's no past tense in loving bro, it's either u do all u never did. But I don't wanna be with her anymore.

meaning u still feel something for the b!tch?

adeboizy11:


There's no past tense in loving bro, it's either u do all u never did. But I don't wanna be with her anymore.

first of all am nt bro.....dat 'f' beside my moniker na for decoration

since u don't wanna be wif her anymore,den follow ur hrt,and keep away far from her...gals can go to any length to get dere man back!!

johnson232:

meaning u still feel something for the b!tch?

Yea. I still feel guilty dah she was with me instead of being there for her dying mum. I don't hate her for all the heartaches and pains but I also don't want her.

refiner:


first of all am nt bro.....dat 'f' beside my moniker na for decoration

since u don't wanna be wif her anymore,den follow ur hrt,and keep away far from her...gals can go to any length to get dere man back!!

Hahahahaha seriously laughing @myself. Sorry mam, my bad. Was talking to someone while typing so I didn't take note. I sincerely apologise.

not that serious....she is your past,dont let her hunt your future(your present girl)....just stop any means of communication with her.

Block her,unfriend her, blacklist her, kill her, or whatever...move on, do not reply her...

Block her shaperly Avoid any means of communication with her





Lobatan

You have set your goal which is not to cheat on your girlfriend. I will like you to ignore any attention she is seeking from you. Ignore her completely and i am sure she will get the message.

boxer022:
You have set your goal which is not to cheat on your girlfriend. I will like you to ignore any attention she is seeking from you. Ignore her completely and i am sure she will get the message.

Thank you.