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Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by SmartMugu: 12:01am On Feb 05, 2016 |
davidif:What am I projecting here? That I have over 4 chinese neighbors that would never greet a black family for almost 3 years and greet one another. Two wrongs don't make a right, so I shouldn't just ignore them like they do me? Read about how the Chinese look at black people here http://atlantablackstar.com/2014/01/08/8-worst-countries-black-people-travel/4/ |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by JayJustus(m): 12:01am On Feb 05, 2016 |
Nigerians and petty foolishness...if he doesn't greet you and so what?? does that reduce your salary or whatnot? there is what we call CULTURAL DIFFERENCE... there's this British woman called "oyinboprincess" she loves everything about Nigeria and has learnt the culture...if she sees you ofcos she will greet cos Nigerians adore greeting for me which is bullshyte... and yes she has been in Nigeria for over a month shooting movies and all... |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by davidif: 12:03am On Feb 05, 2016 |
demydea: Greeting is not a big deal in a lot of cultures. You don't greet people you don't know. Kai! Why are you people always soooo petty? A little thing like greeting and you are getting mad. |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by davidif: 12:07am On Feb 05, 2016 |
TeOwl: In every culture?? Really? Have you even being outside naija before? How many cultures outside your country have you experienced for you to even make a bold proclamation like that? |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by henrybomb(m): 12:10am On Feb 05, 2016 |
[quote author=Tunami post=42625451]Today was just like every other normal day in my workplace, everybody have resumed at the appropriate time, me and a colleague were standing close to the gate and the security man wasnt around at about 9:30am a Chinese man and a Nigerian man just alighted from a jeep without greeting, he asked us where is Mr bola(not real name) who happens to be the general manager? My colleague just hissed and replied him in pidgin( come wey u u no dey greet abi naso una dey behave for una side? Abeg get out of my front). The chinese man was ashamed of himself and i was just laughing at him as he went away in shame. NB this colleague of mine is a contractor who is almost through with his work in my work place. The point that i am trying to make in this story is that this white people especially the chinese, lebanese and indians don't regard us as anything because of the way we see them as god in our land while most of them are common laborers in their countries and when they come to Nigeria they will be forming expatriate and be using us like rag. That mentality must be put to an END. Serves him right dose ppl no get regards at all dey lost it on deir way back to nigeria |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by davidif: 12:18am On Feb 05, 2016 |
SmartMugu: That's like saying because you see Nigerians doing juju in nollywood, that all Nigerians actually do it. Greeting is not a big deal everywhere. |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by yom2(m): 12:20am On Feb 05, 2016 |
oodua1stson:d lebanese like d egyptians are nt arabs |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by bobkezel(m): 12:22am On Feb 05, 2016 |
Truth is Asians don't normally greet, apart from their Muslim counterparts that usually say assallam ailikun. And they see it as awkward if you constantly greet them for no reason. But then one should respect the culture of his host country. Op, don't think the Chinese man was ashamed, he doesn't understand a damn thing u said. Person wey never hear English finish...... For those of saying "common greeting", by the time you experience it, you will know it's not that common. When you go to Rome.......... |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by outflank: 12:28am On Feb 05, 2016 |
brownjulie:if he didn't understand the spoken language I'm sure he most definitely understood his body language and the tone of voice. So, yes, it's possible he walked away in shame. |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by musicwriter(m): 12:28am On Feb 05, 2016 |
Tunami: Sorry, I didn't see this thread on time. If you want to know why they do it read the link on my signature. Hint: They think of us as people without intellectual capabilities. This is partly true because our education is fake, and they know it. |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by doveda: 12:47am On Feb 05, 2016 |
yom2: Can't you differentiate between that scenario and your example? The fact is he cannot yet that nonsense in China! |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by doveda: 12:48am On Feb 05, 2016 |
bobkezel: So they don't say a common ‘hi', when they are just meeting someone for the first time or seeking for help Do you sincerely think we are stupid? |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by doveda: 12:50am On Feb 05, 2016 |
davidif: Greeting in that scenario is a big deal in most if not all cultures! Why do you like to spew BS? 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by doveda: 12:51am On Feb 05, 2016 |
JayJustus: Mtchewwww There is no cultural difference in that scenario. |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by Nobody: 12:54am On Feb 05, 2016 |
Mr man, you dont just walk up to a stranger and ask for directions or a favor... and yes, in every culture.. you need something like "hello", "hi", "whats up", "excuse me please" or something similar before you ask for directions or a favor... even in London, that i used to think was a cold hearted place, you still need to greet before asking for directions or a favor! If you dont want to say hi, hello or good afternoon THEN dont ask for a favor or directions... mind you business and go your way. The moment you step into someone's personal space - you are meant to be polite and respectful NOT just walk up to a man and order him to give you directions or to do you a favor! The chinese guy in question WAS A STRANGER! davidif: 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by doveda: 12:54am On Feb 05, 2016 |
haneetram: Are you saying that if a Chinese man wanted something from another Chinese man, he would just ask him without a simple Hi because of his shabby dressing. |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by doveda: 12:58am On Feb 05, 2016 |
prettyjo: I don't know of a rude stereotype about Nigerians But I know that we are not respected because we are COMPLACENT and CORRUPT |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by doveda: 12:58am On Feb 05, 2016 |
blackboy: You haven't made any sense 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by youngelder(m): 12:59am On Feb 05, 2016 |
brownjulie:. I think you mean 'crap'.. Not crab... |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by doveda: 1:01am On Feb 05, 2016 |
praxs: Where you live in is pretty messed up! I know that in most western countries they use a simple ‘Hi or excuse me' for questions but for discussions, they ignore salutations. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by doveda: 1:02am On Feb 05, 2016 |
TeOwl: I tire for most Nigerians o |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by davidif: 1:22am On Feb 05, 2016 |
doveda: Have you ever lived outside your country before? I do and I can definitely tell you that greeting is not that big of a deal in a lot of cultures. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by ttmacoy: 1:23am On Feb 05, 2016 |
While I agree the chinese guy could have been more polite before asking, we Nigerians are a lot worse. We all have stories of rude experiences as customers in this same Nigeria haven't we? All these Chinese lebanese etc guys learnt this when they see how we treat ourselves. Someone has small money and he acts like a demi god, cadets in uniform treating citizens like crap, government officials treating the citizens they should be serving like vermin. As they say charity begins at home. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by toprealman: 1:27am On Feb 05, 2016 |
TruthHurts1:I laff wen they call the Indians in my hood oyibo. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by doveda: 1:31am On Feb 05, 2016 |
davidif: I live in the UK and if is a big deal in such scenario |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by ttmacoy: 1:32am On Feb 05, 2016 |
I don't know what culture you are talking about but is generally accepted that it is polite to greet before asking your questions. US, UK etc you would at least say hello first. davidif: |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by itsmecoalblack(f): 1:50am On Feb 05, 2016 |
Greeting ISN'T a big deal everywhere. However, when in Rome... davidif: |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by praxs(m): 1:59am On Feb 05, 2016 |
Ugosample:Dere are thieves(esp US, jamaica, mexico etc), peadophiles (afghanistan, syria, yemen, pakistan etc) rapists ( india, pakistan etc) drug peddlers ( colombia,mexico,US etc)... Nuisance are everwhere bro |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by sweetgala(m): 2:10am On Feb 05, 2016 |
spinna: The Chinese gentleman knows the importance of greeting and , he also knows that in China and Japan it is not acceptable to address a colleague or business partner by first name. It is always Mr "surname" In Nigeria it is same, it is always the Title and last name unless otherwise accepted by the subject |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by sweetgala(m): 2:13am On Feb 05, 2016 |
Nifemitech: If you think nigeidns put value on getting and formalities you have not lived or worked in Asia. Especially in a corporate capacity. |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by jagorinho: 2:18am On Feb 05, 2016 |
johnoris: yal!!! they are nt white people, u ought to find out first before disputing his view, what i noticed about nigerians generally is most are very poor in current affairs globally and are quick to judge in matters they have little knowledge about. chinese,indians ,asians generally are not whites they have yellow to light brown skin depending on d country. In southern india most people have brown skin,while in china and northern asian countries like japan, korea they have yellow skin, d real whites are caucasians in europe e.g britain, russia , germany etc and parts of north america like canada and u.s . N. B next time russia and china meet in a football match , try and observe d differences in skin colour and u will knw why 1 is a white country and d oda is not. there are some oda classifications but 4 nw i rest my case |
Re: My Experience With A Chinese Man Today In My Workplace by nastyesco(m): 2:23am On Feb 05, 2016 |
Tunami: |
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