are you in one right now?have you been in one?if you've been,what is your experience?can one cope with the pressures of everyday exposure to the opposite-sex?how can one stay true to one's partner?and above all,can a distant lover be trusted?

it really exhaust one hope

Personally I can't have a long distance relationship...I see no point being on this type of situation,its too complicated for me to handle..so many things to considered & I have no patience to it..

Nope

It's a waste of time physically and emotionally

It's also a waste of space in one's heart

Let's not deceive ourselves. Out of sight is out of mind.

Buh this doesn't apply to a functioning marriage.

Cutehector:
Let's not deceive ourselves. Out of sight is out of mind.

Buh this doesn't apply to a functioning marriage.

Good communication can help things out

CondomSir:


Good communication can help things out

to an extent

Cutehector:
to an extent

Girls love communication alot.. Call her every now and then. Even with the distance, you can still make her wet with chats. Girls love this

If she ain't a bit.ch she would stay with you. Except you can't stay with her.

I have been living almost 1,5 yrs on a long distance relationship in two different countries. That was before marriage. It was hard but worked out. We used to chat every day, phone each other, send text messages every day. Now we are married for 11 years and living together. If you really love each other out can work out.

CondomSir:


Girls love communication alot.. Call her every now and then. Even with the distance, you can still make her wet with chats. Girls love this

If she ain't a bit.ch she would stay with you. Except you can't stay with her.

I tottaly agree with u.. but damn, I just want the companionship!

I love it but it does not always work out. I have been in two different ones but believe me, it's kinda hard bcox 'I trust u' is better than 'I love u'. Most guys can't cope xpecially if they are not faithful bcox they will be thinking you are doing what they are doing.

Cutehector:
I tottaly agree with u.. but damn, I just want the companionship!

But then if she is precious to Yu, Yu can still fvck bit.ch.es and stay with her.

But she won't do that if she loves you cray

long distance relationship is like Taking Attendance 4 lectures U're not attending.............even d babe who's hauz is jst 70box away frm ma hauz is beefing me dat I no longer visit talkmore of carrying load & Travelling abt in d name off going to see a luver

CondomSir:

Good communication can help things out

my thoughts too.

doubletroublmum:
I have been living almost 1,5 yrs on a long distance relationship in two different countries. That was before marriage. It was hard but worked out. We used to chat every day, phone each other, send text messages every day. Now we are married for 11 years and living together. If you really love each other out can work out.

i really need this advice! it's not been easy.

HateU2:
I love it but it does not always work out. I have been in two different ones but believe me, it's kinda hard bcox 'I trust u' is better than 'I love u'. Most guys can't cope xpecially if they are not faithful bcox they will be thinking you are doing what they are doing.

i totally agree with you because it's more about trust than love.

It can work. Takes special kind of people to make it work and cope with distance.

But, even still, to what end?

Hot mess, if you ask me.