Jacko1:
When you see those ladies happily married on facebook you will know that life is just time and place.... She wil meet a guy later at a place far far away who dont know her history and get married.... You my friend may meet one Behind gal who has done same moved to a place u dont know her history.... Dont think of these things bro.... Life aint fair.... Those ladies who marry 12 years no issue know deir wombs are gone but wil follow hubby in prayers n goin to fertility clinic wen dey knw d ansa

kaziblake:
who de-flower them?

Greene66:
Yes Op, bride price is a scam. Why should you pay for a public toilet? A lock that has been opened with many keys and counting? A body that has been touched and brushed by so many hands?

It's a fraud! Why pay for a murderer who has murdered innocent babies in abortion? Hmmm... Even in that church of your wedding God looks down and spits! Or the one that spent time in restaurant looking for bf instead of doing something meaningful?

I know we have good ladies out there but I can swear on anything that 80% of them ladies in Nigeria are guilty as charged. I can bet anything that 93% of ladies on nairaland are guilty. You won't see them address the topic instead they insult you or attack guys like me because the truth hurts.

Once again

professore:
Were they not told to keep themselves for their future husband?

DolaPat:
your comment was quite brilliant, but you need not use the word born out of wedlock, children born out of wedlock are no different from the ones born in wedlock....Nigerians sure have a very long way to go in their mentality!

hamzeiy:

in other words your legs still drips of other men's fluid and you might have aborted for them likewise....hmmmm
girls without shame

hamzeiy:

in other words your legs still drips of other men's fluid and you might have aborted for them likewise....hmmmm
girls without shame

professore:

Were they not told to keep themselves for their future husband?

Diddyydiva:
Agony of a out of wedlock child. I guess na poly bag your **** take pack her clothes to your *******'s house so you see it as a normal thing.


You call ladies biitches, sluts and hoes , The question is who made them that way?


You are the ones who can't stay in a no sex relationship,

You made sex a proof of love, manipulating innocent girls. To you , a girl that refuse to have sex with you does not love you.

You keep five girls at a time out of insecurity . If one fails others will fill in.

You deny being in relationship just to lure another girl.


You are hypocrites!!!

If you call a girl a biitch , then you are a dog!!!

Preach sissy! preach!

Lyondavinci:
If We'all put this facts into consideration, then none of Us will get married. your opinion, your choice. get a tie and suit yourself

Pataricatering:
Stop deceiving yourself with the nonsense about women being jewels or whatever. We don't want to be jewels! You guys are dogs and enjoy being dogs so let us be bitches too and enjoy it. Jewel ko emerald ni

Jagabanthelion:
why I might not totally agree with the OP,I think he is only trying to highlight how fast the values of our ladies have depleted. U go for holidays overseas,u meet a naija girl getting married in 2weeks time who falls for u,u hold urself out of respect for her fiance and on ur return to naija,she texts u telling u she would have loved it if both of u had got down overseas. Anoda u met overseas practically follows u down here n offers herself for free,not once,not twice,not thrice,yet she has a guy somewhere. U go to the club,see a girl dancing wit her guy,d guy being soo protective,u simply exchange glances wit the lady under her "tight security",and forget her. A week later,your friend u clubbed wit calls n tells u dat particular girl is asking for ur pin. U permit him to give her and on her first visit to ur house,she is on her back. U visit a state for the first time n update ur fb status,a fb friend u chat with,tho u have neva seen asks where u are,u tell her where u are lodging and on her first visit,she is on her back. Yet she has told u b4 she has a serious bf in her school.Anoda married fb friend u have neva seen,n u dnt even chat with visits d state u reside and invites u over to a hotel.U turn her down n she gets angry,telling u its not about sex. Na fellowship man n woman dey do alone for hotel room? Or is it d newly married who refuses to use any DP that shows her wedding ring on social media,n keeps posting sexually seductive pictures? Or anoda who just got married yet keeps trying to see u day and night? I can go on and on,all these are true life experiences,and am not even Dangote or Chris Brown.Imagine if I was half as rich or handsome as any of these dudes mentioned! The bitter truth is that our values are gone. while I agree that men are the main instigators,women are expected to reject these lustful advances frm promiscuous men. Today,everything has broken down. Very very sad.

professore:

Were they not told to keep themselves for their future husband?

Ewu!!?!

JustHere2Observ:
Every man to his own...if want virgin, good for you. If you want akata, latina abi oyinbo, good for you. If you don't want to pay bride price because you and your family are broke asses, fine.
But posting these threads just to bash and insult Nigerian women based on your localized and limited experiences, is very immature.
Just as you think Nigerian women are useless, so are your sisters, mothers and aunties because they are Nigerian women. Don't throw stones in markets, cos you might just hit ya mama

kaziblake:
Are you not currently sleeping with a girl?

Keeping virginity is determination and not by force. I decide to keep my virginity 2day it's because of fear of the lord and not because of any man.

sweetgala:


Babe it never reach fight nah.

On the real thou, the same way most honest well trained women don't want to be married to a violent man, who insults and assaults his wife is the same way I gentleman would not desire compromised lady.

Given we all have our past endeavours but many ladies would never dare tell a guy how the journey has been.

sweetgala:


But in your mind reason am, we are talking about the modern Nigerian reality of girls who love alhaji Naira and dollars more than the honest intentions of regular Michael.

This explosion of aristo lifestyle and karashika gone wild only exploded to national proportions post Abacha

sweetgala:


But in your mind reason am, we are talking about the modern Nigerian reality of girls who love alhaji Naira and dollars more than the honest intentions of regular Michael.

This explosion of aristo lifestyle and karashika gone wild only exploded to national proportions post Abacha

Estharfabian:
Preach sissy! preach!



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ndcide:
@DandyWalker, Thanks for this timely piece.

It's a big Shame that some people will want to attack this wonderful message you've brought. It shows how low people have gone. It shows how empty and corrupt they are. Even those who supposed to repent and join forces in halting this ugly trend are all out in defense.

The level of sexual recklessness of today is so obscene. How on earth did humans turn to dogs. What happened? A guy called his so called fiance and she told him she was with her friends shopping, when they were actually in a hotel were I was lodging doing the unthinkable.

Those in defense or trying to tell us it doesn't matter or trying to blame the men, have no shame. I don't move with ladies who don't believe in chastity and have a sense of self preservation.

God bless you for this message. The voice in a noisy society

Missonas:

Lol where u not told to zip up?

sweetgala:


But in your mind reason am, we are talking about the modern Nigerian reality of girls who love alhaji Naira and dollars more than the honest intentions of regular Michael.

This explosion of aristo lifestyle and karashika gone wild only exploded to national proportions post Abacha

ronald4lif:
This is the second of such jabberwocky piece I'm reading today about bride price. It's becoming suffocating, ad nauseum, having to read same recycle cobblers every time.

You can join the train of 'team foreign girls' if you feel the Nigerian ones aren't your specs and cease wincing about. You're not being gun-mussled or heist to pay pride price or date and marry one.

JustHere2Observ:


As it is bad here so it is with foreign girls...I have lots of white gfs, Latinas and akatas that hop from dick to dick. In fact a lot of them lost their virginity at the age of 14 and some are baby mamas sef.

So yea no be only Nigerian modern girl like money, those akatas and Latinas are even worse.
Why do you think they marry African men, because they think every African man is some sort of prince and has a lot of money.