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Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by Jimmyo3(m): 7:12am On Feb 16, 2016
ponti93:
why take tramadol ?
it makes u feel happy throughout without the strong sexual urge. U wont have the urge ,but when opportunity present itself u last very long because your mind is relaxed. TM takes off pressure and makes you feel relaxed and happy throughout the day.
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by vickylala239: 7:36am On Feb 16, 2016
adren:
i stormed on one guy's post asking to be saved from his guilt.. people never took him seriously.. someone went as far as suggesting he cut off his hand (just like wright's mom did on instagram).. NL can make you want to co.mit suicide without killing yourself.... lolssss


to everyone, this might be funny and hilarious but it is a thorn in a masturbator's flesh..

i want to share this solutions because i used to be one prominent member of the "masturbators association of nigeria- MAN" myself ( i was about to be voted as the vice president before i resigned)..

trust me, experience is the best teacher.. some would ask you to pray about it, some would even ask you to give your life to jesus .. bitter truth is, i once saw a painting of the mother of jesus- Mary, i found it sexy and i got a hard-on from it.. i had to masturbate at the next chance i got..

so.. this is about personal issues.. it is a disgrace because you don't wanna be caught by someone else (your prick go calm down instantly)..

enough of the stories.. these are what i did to stop it.. it wasn't easy but i am a living proof..




1. avoid been alone when you feel Hot: boys naturally have high libidos.. except one is impotent.. unless, it is bedtime, you dont wanna be caught left alone.. there is this spirit that pushes you to do it and you would have cvmmed long before u get back to your senses..

the best solution to this is looking for a public place with lots of crowd to interact with..

even the devil cannot give you enough liver needed to masturbate in public places.. go to a football viewing centre, a gaming centre, a bar etc..

2. desist from porn: the last time i masturbated, (30-12-2015).. i was feeling lonely, idle and 'single'.. imagine a 23 year old without a gf!!
so.. i switched to my favourite porn site to watch the only thing that can satisfy my urge and get me so high to think masturbation is the only thing that could get me out of my fantasy..
i masturbated as usual but it was not business as usual..
then i thought to myself 'o boy, is this how you would keep living till the end of your days?? is this how you will continue into 2016?? at 23, you don't want to get a life??

mind if i tell you my readers, that my masturbation act got so bad that i could masturbate in an uncompleted building.. i'd just bend down like i want to defecate but emmmm...

so.. it was the last day i watched porn..

3. drink lots of water and pee everytime: for guys, peeing has a way of suppressing erections..
i need not talk much about this but it is the best and the most proven strategy to help stop it only if you want to..
when you feel that the devil is about to make a workshop out of your hand.. stand up almost immediately and go pee.. force out the pee if it won't come.. it is a sure bet that your joyatick is going to take a chill pill (500mg)..

4. get a girlfriend or pay for a one-night stand/quickie (olosho): this is a long-term solution.. i know myself.. even if i tried to stop masturbating, and i do not find a long term solution to my problem by looking for a "LASWMA" to leave my 'trash' for, my case might end up been like that girl in the bible whose demon was cast out and the demon went to invite seven others..

masturbation has a way of torturing sex freaks.. fortunately for me, i went to a party the first week of 2016 and that was where i met this fine girl.. she is from ondo and they are only second to calabar girls on "baddest nigerian babes list." if such thing exists..




on a final note.. i have only written this to inspire those who are battling with masturbation issues..

i dont know if ladies can utilise my 'tested and trusted' methods but i can use ayilala to swear that this will work for you 100%..

if you are bold enough.. without feeling stigmatised, share how u conquered it.
you would be helping a thousand others who are dying in silence.. and if you want to start stigmatising, think again because your relative is doing that shiiii right now..

and to etc.. this is plagiarism free and not "oyinbo man" recommended.. their ways are different from ours..

hope this helps!!


So even @ night he shuld move to football viewing center that king 1am?

he shuld go to public place that kind 2am?..Cuz wen it kicks up by 2am..Na to leave ur bed begin trek go park that kind 2am....

How we he always b in public place,wuldnt he go home again...Abi Na for park d guy go go rent house?

Hw will ashawo stop ur masturbation are u keeping ha 247 or she will go with u where every u are going?? Till u die... Cuz according to u u maturated even in uncompleted building..meaning if u were with ur ashawo,, u culd Hv opt to use ha in Dat uncompleted building rather...this simply means u Hv to b carrying ur ashawo every ever ur going incase..the matter kick off...

Also 4gting Dat sex b4 marriage s a since...

How many drums of water will u drink

u said sumtin abt forcing urself to pee...where will u pee? Is it not in the toilet?? What happen wen ur eyes sight it standing without pee cuming out Wuldnt u rather opt to masturbate pending wen pee will b ready to pull out.

Pee everytime,Dnt he use to pee everytime pee cums or Abi he use to hold pee??

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Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by SECURITY12: 7:40am On Feb 16, 2016
None of those things you mentioned is an ultimate solution to masturbation,
those options will rather lead you to sin,and increase your chances of hell fire.
I have a solution for it. you must know how masturbation operates and function before you can stop it.
just call me 08134268414.
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by Burnnotice(m): 7:46am On Feb 16, 2016
this Poo is deeper than love.... beaches be acting as if they don't master bath!!!!
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by Nobody: 8:00am On Feb 16, 2016
All I have to say is that fvck u about what u said about Ondo girls. Do more research, ggrin come and hear dis boy ke
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by Bbox(m): 8:17am On Feb 16, 2016
I believe that watching porn is like adding salt into a wound.

cheesy,so they told us to stop watching porn... Even all these websites you listed are block, there is still a way to start the urge . After all this movies/series kind of depends on it... angry, ,
The main fact is that i cant wait for game of thrones season 6...
Man #team M.A.N need a spiritual help ... embarassed
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by ziego(m): 8:25am On Feb 16, 2016
davidif:


And what if he hasn't found the right girl yet or he doesn't have the money yet? Or he should just go and marry anyone that he runs into irrespective of compatibility or whether he loves the person?


The thing carry bad spirit bro I have even bumped into a good Christian I respect in such mood.
How can man deal with it?
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by sanyajava: 8:26am On Feb 16, 2016
When you are into a relationship with a girl that loves you and enjoys sex, guy you forget masturbation with no time becouse when she finish with you, you have nothig to feel for.
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by ziego(m): 8:26am On Feb 16, 2016
Alaanyihaji:
I tell you,marriage is not a solution to this thing. People masturbate beside their tired wives. It's a thing of the mind. Only the Holy spirit can deliver one from this.

My brother that's it and another thing is get busy
If u r idle that's when it occurs
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by LizzyIkeukwu: 8:27am On Feb 16, 2016
Men and brethren, only Jesus can save a man frm evil forces, masturbation is demonic and only Jesus can deliver a masturbator

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Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by tasland(m): 8:45am On Feb 16, 2016
Nche95:
xvideos and naijauncut, if only Government can block these two sites eh.. i remember when i vowed never to visit xvideos again, 1 hr later, i saw myself typing it into my browser....
yea u are right we are in d same train,xvideos and pornhub na d devil wey always dey tempt me
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by Bbox(m): 8:47am On Feb 16, 2016
ziego:


My brother that's it and another thing is get busy
If u r idle that's when it occurs

You are not gonna be busy for the rest of ur life. You need a chill, duh

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Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by fbtowner(m): 8:57am On Feb 16, 2016
martineinstein:
but it was wrong, man.... What were u thinking.?


Yes very very Wrong. it was silly. I have passed on it now. Would never try such again. I hope God forgives me.
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by ggrin(f): 9:01am On Feb 16, 2016
Nikita1:
All I have to say is that fvck u about what u said about Ondo girls. Do more research, ggrin come and hear dis boy ke
cc me the boyangry
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by fischer77(m): 9:07am On Feb 16, 2016
onetrack:
Watching porn and masturbating are two different things. Go ahead and masturbate but use your imagination; don't watch porn because it does have some real negative effects.

Regular masturbation before the age of 30 reduces your chance of prostate cancer later in life by up to 30%. Masturbation is also essential for developing sexual control prior to marriage. You don't want to come 5 seconds into your first night with your wife.

Bros no de deceive yourself. Who wear shoe na him know where de pain am.
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by Nobody: 9:12am On Feb 16, 2016
ggrin:
cc me the boyangry
oya comment
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by leoblaze(m): 9:23am On Feb 16, 2016
See niggers with 7,9, 10 and 14years experience ...wait until u marry come stay 15 years without a child nah d same u go blame ur wife and God for ur infertility ...

Please if all you do with ur phone is to watch porn , why not sale dat phone buy a small phone . help ur unborn kids

Get a life , get a devotional lyk daily manner . study it everyday smileysay morning and night prayers in it .
Notin is too difficult for God if ur faith says YES.


He will guide and advice you. Psalm 32 : 8.

Peace be unto you all grin

Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by Bollove: 9:42am On Feb 16, 2016
Nche95:
xvideos and naijauncut, if only Government can block these two sites eh.. i remember when i vowed never to visit xvideos again, 1 hr later, i saw myself typing it into my browser....
If govt ban those two sites, I must sue them. visit LargePornFilms too.

MAN, howdie buddies.
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by GeorgeNatural1: 9:43am On Feb 16, 2016
Some people still masturbate after they get married you know. Sometimes, it takes God and your will to stop. Don't forget that nature abhors vacuum, if you decide to stop masturbating, then replace it with a good habit otherwise you'll end up returning to it.

UrbanMystique:
Mehhhh

You can't stop masturbation.. You can only distract yourself for a little while. Trust me you will still go back to it.
Its like double nicotine addiction.

Unless you don't wanna live in our world where everything reminds you of sex. Even on naira land, there is sex. Those will only work if you decide to go and stay in the bush, away from city life and technology like the amish and at the same time not be bored. Cos boredom can also remind you of sex.

Masturbation will only end when you finally get married and both of you do it whenever you want it.

Only thing you can do is limit it. Like say once a day when you are about to sleep or may be thrice a week. That's possible to achieve with the methods you listed .
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by Bollove: 9:48am On Feb 16, 2016
UrbanMystique:
Mehhhh

You can't stop masturbation.. You can only distract yourself for a little while. Trust me you will still go back to it.
Its like double nicotine addiction.

Unless you don't wanna live in our world where everything reminds you of sex. Even on naira land, there is sex. Those will only work if you decide to go and stay in the bush, away from city life and technology like the amish and at the same time not be bored. Cos boredom can also remind you of sex.

Masturbation will only end when you finally get married and both of you do it whenever you want it.

Only thing you can do is limit it. Like say once a day when you are about to sleep or may be thrice a week. That's possible to achieve with the methods you listed .
Hmmmmm, u got me there. Better than Piriton.
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by Blessytee(f): 9:58am On Feb 16, 2016
tripplephi:
Well getting a girlfriend is not the way because it's still leading you to premarital sex.... I feel trying get to stop an habit like this is exactly why makes it grow.... So to add to your list. Just replace the habit
I agree with you

I hope these tips will be helpful to the poster https://wetrainchristians./2015/06/06/overcoming-temptation-discipline/
Thanks and God bless

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Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by martineinstein(m): 10:05am On Feb 16, 2016
fbtowner:



Yes very very Wrong. it was silly. I have passed on it now. Would never try such again. I hope God forgives me.
amen
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by Fkhalifa(m): 10:07am On Feb 16, 2016
It is very difficult, as we watch soft porn on our streets, campus, music video, internet etc

You see series of bum shot, short gowns revealing laps,cleavages and many more,All these heightens and energizes the sexual power in us.

Now we got no wife and girlfriend can be costly these days,cos no more love but materialism and orther gains

Even the good girlfriend shouldn't be all sex r.ship, rather you build a marriage union with her, Also illegal sex is haram and worse than masturbation.

What a pity generation, many are in this trouble,even though many won't come out to admit it.
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by Bollove: 10:12am On Feb 16, 2016
Ibenuel:
hate yourself anytime you fine yourself in the act, then think of the implication behind the act whenever you have the urge. It will help you stop it. The best is to call JESUS NAME whenever you are tempted to that
You are simply foolish.


I watch some porn yesterday night, it was homemade in Nigerian downloaded from Naijauncut while the dude digged the girl to some extent, she shouted God , Gooood, God, Jesus, Jesuuuusss......

At times , shouting Jesus shows that the pleasures is really sinking in.

You guys better look for pragmatic way of advising against MA St URB action than quoting scriptures against the act. where in the bible was mast URB action condemned
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by StarryV(f): 10:54am On Feb 16, 2016
Nche95:
premarital sexx is better. mastabation steals ur happiness
No matter what my dear premarital sex is and remains a sin. Abstinence from both of them is what you should be talking about. #my_opinion_though

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Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by dani3(m): 11:08am On Feb 16, 2016
Nche95:
xvideos and naijauncut, if only Government can block these two sites eh.. i remember when i vowed never to visit xvideos again, 1 hr later, i saw myself typing it into my browser....

bro can they hack them?

How much will it cost? embarassed
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by martineinstein(m): 11:33am On Feb 16, 2016
Jimmyo3:
it makes u feel happy throughout without the strong sexual urge. U wont have the urge ,but when opportunity present itself u last very long because your mind is relaxed. TM takes off pressure and makes you feel relaxed and happy throughout the day.
u are hurting yourself, dude

Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by efemena23: 11:49am On Feb 16, 2016
to overcome masturbation is simpler than we know.
1. Admit u re not real wit ursel and set ur mind to appraise reality.
2. Ask urelf dis, what is reality?
3.Find reality in the fact that we are mere animals save for the god within us. and we owe God an explanation for the way we use our body (2 corint 5:10, ROM 14:12).
4.(optional). this is optional if ur mind sees d reality. if not, visit the hospital as often as is possible for u, and try to behold a dead corps that is possibly nicked, behold d uselessness ur instrument of sin, and see if those filthy, dirtiness will not run out of u.

If u are truly serious about giving dis up and av tried many unsuccessful ways to rid urself of it, den u need d fear of God. And sometimes we are so corrupted that until we see, we do not fear- hence option 4. Remember all unrighteousness is sin. it is not right to gratify d sweetness of good sex illegitimately, as it is not right to gratify ur hunger by stealing, nor placate ur poverty by robbery. take to d advice above(4), wen u see things, u go hold body wit fear; d fear of God, and wait until can afford a woman with whom u can unleash all d animal tendencies within u LEGITIMATELY, until u tire to BOLINGO. trust me, wen DAT time come, u go do, u go tire to do. just hold body in d fear of God. Y eat d beans as e dey hot. e go burn u. u know na... winkto overcome masturbation is simpler than we know.
1. Admit u re not real wit ursel and set ur mind to appraise reality.
2. Ask urelf dis, what is reality?
3.Find reality in the fact that we are mere animals save for the god within us. and we owe God an explanation for the way we use our body (2 corint 5:10, ROM 14:12).
4.(optional). this is optional if ur mind sees d reality. if not, visit the hospital as often as is possible for u, and try to behold a dead corps that is possibly nicked, behold d uselessness ur instrument of sin, and see if those filthy, dirtiness will not run out of u.

If u are truly serious about giving dis up and av tried many unsuccessful ways to rid urself of it, den u need d fear of God. And sometimes we are so corrupted that until we see, we do not fear- hence option 4. Remember all unrighteousness is sin. it is not right to gratify d sweetness of good sex illegitimately, as it is not right to gratify ur hunger by stealing, nor placate ur poverty by robbery. take to d advice above(4), wen u see things, u go hold body wit fear; d fear of God, and wait until can afford a woman with whom u can unleash all d animal tendencies within u LEGITIMATELY, until u tire to BOLINGO. trust me, wen DAT time come, u go do, u go tire to do. just hold body in d fear of God. Y eat d beans as e dey hot. e go burn u. u know na...

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Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by JerryJude(m): 11:51am On Feb 16, 2016
iPrevail:
Two sure ways of suppressing sexual urge and the desire to self-service.

1. Take a cold bathe.
This is really effective. The cold water will help cool down the "heat".

2. Exercise.
Whenever you feel the urge just engage yourself by exercising (15 press ups will do the trick). Exercise will secrete some hormones that will counter the urge. Trust me, this one is really effective.


Bros ur solution is brief and effective

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Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by Eddodoh(m): 12:38pm On Feb 16, 2016
FTBOY:
there's only one solution i know and it is...
get a girlfriend who can give you a mind-blowing sex. a girlfriend who can suck your dick and go down with you any style you want....you'd find your hands doing more useful things than masturbating
U've stated d obvious! I experienced it first-hand. When I was wit dat bae I hardly think of another woman not to even think of wanking.

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Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by Eddodoh(m): 12:52pm On Feb 16, 2016
sanyajava:
When you are into a relationship with a girl that loves you and enjoys sex, guy you forget masturbation with no time becouse when she finish with you, you have nothig to feel for.
True talk!
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by Jimmyo3(m): 12:54pm On Feb 16, 2016
martineinstein:
u are hurting yourself, dude
please enlighten me more on how taking tm is hurting me?

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