My name is Chi for short, but am dating this guy from my tribe and it’s not as if I really love. The thing is that he is rich, not educated but he has two businesses that are doing well.

TON please don,t blame me, there is no lady today who doesn’t want to marry a rich man, especially if your family is broke.The mistake I made was to move into his house and he started sleeping with me whenever he likes as if we are already married. The thing is getting too much, even when am having my “monthly visitor” he will tell me to go and watch my body that he needs séx and I don’t have a choice but to do it. He says I must get pregnant before marriage but he has slépt with me for 1year, no pregnancy…


In fact, let me just confess that this guy want to kill me. His body is big and any time he climbs on top me with all his strength I use to have body pain after everything. But I need to get pregnant.

I’m 31. I’ve gone to hospital and doctors say am OK! But he has refused to go for his own check. Each time I tell him to do so he will shout at me and say if I can’t get pregnant I should just tell him. Am confused!

My mum knows am living in this guy’s house but my dad doesn’t. Pls I need good advise.
What can I do to help myself?



Source: http://gennypearl..com.ng/2016/02/my-boyfriend-wants-to-kill-me-with-se-x.html?m=1

.

Sounds like a movie to me.

that is it it is a game of take and take. You chop him money he give you strong pako so your not supposed to be complaining Abi did he complain that you too they chop him money?

You are 31 wow wont ask question sha
well sex is supposed to be fun for both parties
am not bragging but i don't ask for sex because i hate being rejected but when even i do it i make sure that i finish work so next time she will want it more
obviously the guy is the only one enjoying the sex for you to notice that his body is killing you lol
my advice to you is this first leave his house! a man will only treat you in respect to the way you present yourself you staying at his house is a desperate sign
give him a deadline to marry you, if he doesn't commit walk away! you don't have time on your side for jokers

Sombody will soon come here n say 'leave him, u deserve better'...truth is, she just got served what she deserves. He takes care of u, u take care of his 'kongy'



She shud be more concerned abt gettin her life fixed up..at 31, she shud v sth viable to do. Leave him and develop yourself to be seen as being valuable, beyond being a sex object. It's not easy, but then, it's not so difficult either.

ten let him know the havoc his iron body is causing...... or is it until you stop breathing under him one day

@gennypearl
as you clearly stated that you dont love this man but go through the motion because you wanna marry a "rich man", therefore i suggest you accept this nightmare as LIFE, and instead start to getting used to being abused, as your "rich" partner deems fit.

Babe liv dat guys hauz
U dnt love him buf u love his money if he ends up marrying u and leta becomes broke Wat will u do?. Ur 31 n ur nat able 2 get pregnant for him so Wat if d pregnancy refuses 2 show up n he dumps u Wat will u do? N Wat if u get pregnant n he refuses 2 marry u n his just demanding for d child n is only interested in d child Wat will u do? D fact dat ur 31 dats y u should think. Liv dat guys hauz if u can get as much money as u can n start up som fyn it will b beta get busy n stop showing signs of desperation cos once a guy finds out dat ur desperate den d possibility of marrying u is slime n besides u cnt get a better guy by staying in his hauz n u dnt even no if his already paying for anoda babe's bride price. D earlier u match d better for u cos u dnt love him. N dnt base ur mind on riches d one u c as rich can b poor d next minute n d very poor one rich d next minute. Marry some1 wif a good future nat because of money because anything can happen.

You want us to sin along with you by advising u for committing fornication. My Dear, what you need is God;s forgiveness which must come only if you repent of your sinful ways.

I hear someone saying she doesn't love him she only loves his money and its not "true love". Well you can't have your cake and eat it too if you ask me. The man and his money are a package deal. What you need to ask yourself is what you bring to the table in this relationship coz whe olready know what the man has brought. For now what you should concentrate on doing is using pain killers and mayb avoiding sexual positions where this kind man doesn't have to be on top.

At 31, u are still behaving like a teenager. Better give ur life to Christ. So dat u can be profitable to ur parents.

myners007:
You want us to sin along with you by advising u for committing fornication. My Dear, what you need is God;s forgiveness which must come only if you repent of your sinful ways.

U nailed it. That's a good advice. Immorality has taken the order of the day. She wants us to encourage her sinful way.

sister we have been hearing that lines for years........
it has tey...........

you want to tell us that because of your family problems you followed this brother............

And stayed with him for a year and you were choping his money and he is knacking, I can't believe he told you to get pregnant first before marriage.......

babe you caused wahala for yourself just keep enduring it
HAPPY MARRIED LIFE.........

Come to me, I would get you pregnant (we would have to be romping like rabbits, and in 30 days pregnancy would set)
You can call me, your Knight in sperming armour!!!

Happy Married Life naaaa

Arrantnonsence

U wanna be with a man u don't love for the rest of your life? I am really sorry to say o but u sound to me like u re not in ur right mind

desire222:
At 31, u are still behaving like a teenager. Better give ur life to Christ. So dat u can be profitable to ur parents.

i want you to come and stay in my house for some weeks, deal??

B4 u lai pls check ur previous lai b4 u lai anoda lai

Dis is d kind of lai dat u lai wen u r tryin 2 hit FP no mata wot











As 4 d koko u said wen he fals ontop u wit all his weight afta set n don u dey feel body pain




Make I ask u na only missionary style him sabi?

people sabi lie..._{people sabi lie...}people sabi lie...

continue....ure doing well.

this matter needs to be investigated

Y suffering in silence if u dnt love him ynt quit d relationship if anotherladyoutside gets pregnant for him outside wontu bekicked out? Nd who knws y u re nt. Pregnant maybe hes sick

Is this not FOOLISHNESS Just becos of money, u follow the person u know that u don't love. And to make matter worse, her father did not know about this. Meaning, the marriage is illegal. This is a warning to all those girls looking for quick money in a relationship, even if they know too well they don't love the man involved. My Dear sister, that man is a Destiny killer, he will ruin your life if u don't quit that marriage. Don't just b wasting ur time with him. He is not going to marry you. He is using u as his sex slave. Yes! That is what u are to him. So, if you are wise, flee from that marriage and wait for your own man to come your way. This is my advice for u. Bye for now.

hehehe...my dear enjoy d dic, chop d money n flex urself. but if u r wise get him to establish a bizness for u because very soon he'll be showing u d exit door.

by d way, u n ur mother should be ashamed of womanhood for u moving in wit a guy who has d neccesaries to marry n he's not but has turned u to a intimacy gadget n sex service in d name of "get pregnant b4 marrage". story, don't be deceived that guy no go marry u...u r not d 1st neigther will b d last so u better get wat u want with wat u ve.

who knows what he's using u to do behind close doors for prosperity. or possibly he can't impregnate a woman else you wouldn't have been there by now other ladies b4 u would have booked his home.

wakeup girl!

:/ who so ever posted this s**t Receive SENSE!! Even if its true u nor even fear post this kind story here?!? Na dis kind story papa take de beat pikin die... :/
To top it all na Igbo girl. I shame for una... U pupu are shaming me. Nigerian love = money + sex

You dont love him and he obviously doesnt love u either !
Don't take poo from him just because u are poor , what u need is a job not a rich man who doesn't given a hoot about ur feelings

WISH YOU WELL BUT MY SIS NO MAN IS WORTH THE PAIN,

WHY DO I HAVE THIS FEELINGS THAT YOU ARE A LAZY WOMAN?

Okay

Qualer:


i want you to come and stay in my house for some weeks, deal??

Deal. What's d address, cos I've already packed my luggage. I hope u gonna take good care of me